How i become a mediator between two angry people

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Quarells are a part of our daily life but a person who is wise and understanding avoids them all and knows that it is not necessary to react to everything. Sometimes silence is too good a response to make the next one a more guilty.

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Few people understand these things and many people showed their anger by shouting at each other and then fall in their own eyes. A similar incident happened to me.

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I have two juniors who were very good friends but they got into a fight. I had never seen them fight and I was very surprised because they were talking to each other very loudly.

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For some time I was wondering whether I should go to them or not between these two angry girls but since I was their friend and also senior to them so, it was my duty to try to make them understand and end it all.

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People were enjoying the words of both of them. It is rare to see anyone feel the pain of another because most people are spectators.

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Well, I went to them and without saying anything grabbed both of their arms and took them to the side.

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When I asked them the reason for the quarrel, both of them again started talking loudly. There I got a little angry because they were acting very childish. I told them that when one is speaking, the other will remain silent and when the other starts talking, the first one will not say anything and they both agreed.

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Thankfully, they respected me a lot and they both listened to me and started telling me everything.

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I listened to them with great attention and concluded from all this that a third person had come between them who was creating a misunderstanding and their fight could end only when that third person admitted her mistake.

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I also called this third person and made her sit. Without insulting her lovingly asked why you created this misunderstanding??

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she got very embarrassed and said that once they made fun of me in class so, I wanted to take revenge

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Sometimes people do very strange things and they go to any extent to get their revenge.

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After that everyone's misunderstanding was cleared and it was known who was wrong. I reconciled these two friends and they apologized to each other that they should not have trusted such a third person.

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I explained to them that they should not be angry with the third girl and stay away from her in a sensible way because sometimes God does things to us because He wants to teach us a lesson. It does not mean that we should make a noise, but understand God's purpose, learn from it and move forward in life quietly.

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I wouldn't say that I am very sensible but at that time I showed a lot of understanding and because of my just talking with love they rekindled their friendship which made me very happy.

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In this way I became the cause of reconciliation between the two friends.

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Kind regards;
@eshacheema786

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