One thing you would like to change in your life
The thing I want to change in my life and make it go the way I want, is love, I know my response to what I want to change sound astonishing, but I have my reasons regarding that I will change love in my life.
The total years I can guess right, I think it's more than six years now, I have been so hurt in love.
Hurting so many times in love makes me to believed that, to be hurts in love is a normal thing but it's never normal for someone to hurts another, because hurt's involves pains in the heart, that's, when the hearts encountered something it doesn't like and in that manner, it would want a change of that situation.
At times I feels like giving up on love itself but no matter how hurtful I may be, after some months, I will still finds myself falling in love, I have fall in love so many times and I have been hurt a lot of times, I do not just like being hurt anymore, because hurt can stop me from being happy, I wish I have something I could do to stop loving, so that I prevent my heart from being used in a way that is not good to me.
Yet, I still knows that, love is natural and nobody can stop people from loving, infact, if somebody think that he is wise enough to take his mind away from love, the kind level of love the person is going to fall, will even be so bigger than if he has made up his mind to fall in love.
I have make an efforts to stop it from myself, yet, it is never an easy thing to depart from, because love is a part of our being, I came to understand that, love occupies almost many corners of my heart.
Love is a beautiful and lovely thing.
No matter how we get hurt, while loving someone.
Love still finds it's way in our life.
And I will like to add that is better not to fall in love fully based on emotions.
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Smile.... I will like to know how someone can not fall in love fully, infact that's the answer I am searching for, please tell me
Awww fam this was so beautiful
Totally get you, I have also experienced the same thing, and I don't know if this is the solution or if I am correct. But what I have learned is that we must learn to love and understand ourselves, and most importantly, just because you are in love doesn't mean you should be with that person.
Ask yourself what you saw in your previous partners, what you thought they were like, and what you thought was going to happen. Many times we don't realize that we wanted to be with someone only because we wanted their attention or something similar, as if we wanted to fill a void inside us, and that's when we get hurt the most.
Awwm! You got the solutions I was looking for and totally you wrote it in the right way for me to understand it correctly, thanks, I admire your comment.
Glad it helped you fam ❤️❤️❤️
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