The strong person is "who makes his weakness his strength"

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Strength and weakness are found in every human being. If someone says that he has no weakness, then it is not possible. If there really is no weakness of man, then may be circumstances would have turned him into a stone heart. But the fact is that everyone is available in two aspects, one is his weakness and the other is his strength. The real strong person is the one who makes his weakness his strength.

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If I talk about myself, Trust was my biggest weakness. I trust everyone very quickly. I was on the stage where someone talk to me with smile, so I thought that this person is good. But I did not see the other side of the person. I used to share everything with them. But when such people break my trust then I understood that trusting everyone is a very unpleasant thing.
Gradually, as I grew up and discovered the outside world, I developed a sense of self. Many people started calling me rude. But I was happy that I reduced this habit. There are very few people in my life now. But I don't share some of my personal thing with them either.

Someone say that:
"when a friend becomes an enemy, he becomes the most dangerous."

Now I keep things in my heart. My secret today is myself. I don't need a third person to ease my burden. I am self-sufficient.

My second weakness was that I used to do all the work of people, in which my heart and mind were not satisfied. I did not have the courage to refuse people. I felt that if I refused, people would turn away from me. But then I learned that I need my satisfaction more than people. I then learned to say "NO" to people. And in that way, many people got away from me. I noticed that when I refused people, their tone changed. I was important to them as long as I listened to them. And I was not sad at all. But I definitely found out who was pure with me and who was temporary with me.

If we find self-satisfaction in our life, we have to lose a lot in our life. But we lose those things and people who are only part of our lives temporarily. And losing such people is the greatest satisfaction.

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The weakness I mentioned above is my strength now.
And also my greatest strength is that I am patient. If something bad happens to me, instead of arguing, I use patience rather then fight. And often it happens that people realize their mistake and come and apologize to me. So I think my patience is my greatest strength.

That's it!!



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Ahh... there was a time I also did not know how to say no to people. Until I went to make a promise that took way too much for me to fulfil. I learned my lesson after that.
Thank you for sharing this with us.

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I was also that kind of girl too who used to listen people's words but didn't know how to fulfill it.

But now there is a peace in my life.

Thank you for stopping by.💕

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Yes patient is the real strength required to survive in this current competitive era.

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Great post~ I feel many of us can relate to this when we start a relationship, at a work place, and even with family members. At the same time many of us including myself have the learn it the hard way. I still struggle with it as well when I trust people too much and forget I am taken advantage of. But experience is what turns into wisdom for ourselves and we move on. :)

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Of course, when our trust is taken advantage of, we realize it much later. And when we understand, we have learned a great lesson. And the strong man is the one who learns from such a lesson and move on.
I really appreciated you.✨

Thank you so much to passing through my post 💕

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