The twist and turns, we find ourselves tagged with certain behaviours we never pay attention to
Life is full of twist and turns, especially when one is tagged with certain behaviours that do not conform to the norm. They are easily judged when situations meet up at a place. In this life of ours there are certain acts that if you tag people with the society in general so not argue over what you said and there are others too whom the society in general would never take it no matter what.
As humans from different backgrounds our way of life changes from one another and even within the same blood line there are totally different behaviours one do exhibit. This is because of a particular time line that the individual came to meet and even in a family they varies from one to the other.
In some family the first borns are so pampered that they are lazy to all kinds of things, this is normally do because first borns are considered to be so precious to them since they are considered to bring good fortunes to the family both physically and spiritually. This belief of those families always over pamper their first child with all sort of things.
In other families too first borns are always marked with the eye of a tiger and are trained to see to the affairs of his or her siblings if any storm blows up in the family. Mostly when kids who get to meet the youthful age of their parents are always restricted among many things such as moving out at certain times and the kinds of people they should walk with. The kids get to meet all the full loads of their parents in directing them.
Whereas in their old age they do not get to train up the child with the same tiger eyes they used to be and over look a lot of behaviours they put up. I remember this guy in our vicinity who used to womanise with almost every lady, he meets and so the whole society tagged him as a womanizer, so one day one man came up and said this guy had stolen his stuffs but upon further explanations the community vouched for him that he is not a thief and he wouldn't do such things for they have being with him around the vicinity for so many years and he has never stole even needle from someone.
What made me laugh that day was, a comment from someone saying if the man came and told that the guy was cheating on her wife or daughters then they would have never argued with him but for stealing it was never truth. Sooner than later the real thief was caught and the man finally came to understand the guy was never a thief.
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