When The Good One's Leave

I think the best kind of people in our lives are those who never leave us the way they met us, they make an impact in our lives in such positive ways. And when they had to leave, they left such lasting beautiful memories in our minds.

This is the kind of person I'm always striving to be, to be able to leave a positive impact on the lives of those who cross my path.

I always consider myself extremely lucky when I meet this kind of people as well, they made my life so beautiful.

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Due to a bad experience, I had with a toxic person, our landlady In my former neighborhood, I prayed to God to bring my family and me in contact with amazing kinds of people, people who will be kind to us and treat us like family, because for someone who lives many states away from their families, we need such people badly in our life.

And God being a great one answers my prayers. He brought us to a house where we soon met an incredible woman and her family as our neighbor. Our relationship has evolved with time and we no longer see ourselves as neighbors but as one big family.

It has been such a great blessing meeting each other.

But when we got here, we never planned to stay long in this house due to its long proximity to the main town. It is not so much a commercial area, thought staying here might be great for hubby due to how close it is to his workplace but for me it is not ideal, if we remain here going back into the business world might be a bit challenging for me, So we agreed that we shall leave as soon as we can to a more suitable area for both of us.

And my neighbor also has plans to leave this place for a bigger house that can better accommodate their families.

Before we decided to repay our rent in February this year, we went In search of another house but we could not find what we wanted for a while and coupled with our other financial commitments we decided to remain here until our next rent. And the same goes for my neighbor.

The story took a different turn some weeks back when my neighbor found a house they loved to move into, it was very big and suitable to their needs. The house owner gave them at a very cheap rate. According to him he just needed someone in the house that could take good care of it.

I was happy for them but also sad because this meant they would be departing from us.

We have gotten used to each other so much that it will be hard to let go, I will miss her, miss her amazing kids.

She is so good with my son that I would freely allow her to babysit him while I ran errands.

She had called me two days ago and said, I have good news plus bad news without any form of smile on her face. Judging by her look, I knew it must have been a bit hard for her to tell me the news.

She continues, The landlord of that house has agreed that we should move in by month's end. I'm happy and sad at the same time because I never want to leave you behind here.

I was happy for them as well but at the same time, I felt like without them in this house a big void would be created in my heart.

But what can we do? We humans are meant to meet and sometimes path away, and when you meet someone as awesome as her it is very hard to say goodbye.

Though their new-found house isn't that far from here, it is around 30 minutes walk which means we can see each other frequently but there is nothing as nice as having them next to me as my next-door neighbor.

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I will miss her last born, my God's daughter, a year plus old, who will reach out to my door and continue to knock until I open for her almost every morning. Or her two other older kids who are so fond of playing with my son.

There is so much more I'm going to miss about this wonderful family than I can find the right words to describe here, but one thing is sure we all will be alright in the end.

This will be all from me today, thank-you so much for visiting my blog. Have a great time at your end.

@funshee✍🥰🙏❤

All Images were taken by me, with my Tecno Spark 8 Plus



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Totally understand the feeling especially meeting up toxic person. No idea what they been through and to treat others badly as well. Thanks God you got it through and meet amazing people. God bless sister. 🫶🫶

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Thank you so much, our current neighbors are just amazing and it feels sad that we are going to be apart by ending of the month.

And you are right, toxic people are people who have been through a lot but do not know how to heal, I hope that my former landlady will find her healing and be happy again. !LUV

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Yeah is sad that going to be apart by end of the month. May you find good neighbor / good person soon sister.

You're right sis, toxic person have no idea how to dealt with it. But may them reduce their level of toxic around and live happily. Who wants toxic everyday right. 🫶

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Yeah is sad that going to be apart by end of the month. May you find good neighbor / good person soon sister.

Ameen🥰🙏🙏 thank a lot.

Who wants toxic everyday right.

Absolutely, no one.

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Sometimes it's not the bad thing that the focus needs to be on, but the lessons that we learn. I'm pleased to see that you remain positive despite every thing:)

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While family is important, the close ties we make with people outside family is truly special, as these are ties we gladly accept and are not ones we are forced into. In my line of work we end up being close to people for many years and then we are working in different parts of the world. When we do manage to meet it is like no time has passed, but it is just not the same as discussing every matter with them through the day. I guess that is what life is, just a set of meetings, and bye-byes :'(

I pray that you and they will find it easy to keep in touch and hopefully you will move closer too. And that your future neighbours are of the same loving nature.

Cheers from a fellow #dreemerforlife

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I pray that you and they will find it easy to keep in touch and hopefully you will move closer too. And that your future neighbours are of the same loving nature.

Awe🥰🙏😍 thank you so much my amazing dreamer. I say a big amen to this, we shall definitely keep in touch as much as we can.

I guess that is what life is, just a set of meetings, and bye-byes

Honestly, yes, sometimes we meet and other time we depart and can only hold on to the good memories. !LUV

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I understand you. People like your neighbor are hard to find. I do hope your next neighbor would also extend the hands of courtesy that your former neighbor did.

Thank you for sharing.

#dreemerforlife

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That is very true, thank you very much Rukkie,🥰🙏 I do hope to have some cool neighbors in our next house.

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