It's Not Because You Only Think About Yourself

If the parents are good and the child's lover is well accepted, the problem can be avoided here. When the parents behave well towards the child's boyfriend, the child's lover will have a desire to fool her boyfriend. Apart from this, she respects her lover's parents, and her lover herself. It will be difficult for her to do something stupid to her lover and her parents.

When the parents don't treat their child well, the child will feel sorry for his lover, her love for her will increase. Every time the parents harm the child's relationship, the child's compassion for her lover will also increase. He will protect it even more.

The child should also be open minded to the advice of the parents. This is for the benefit of the child. Parents should avoid being selfish and also believing that their children are still young, and they are the owners of their children's hearts.

Here are some opinions so that parents and children can have a good relationship;

• Be friends with your children's parents. Eliminate any fear and anxiety the children may feel. Mention that you can ask your children for their opinions. You are ready to help them.
• You parents tell your children that your house is open to their friends. You will receive it in the best way and you will be ready to introduce it to you. You will also sometimes invite the child's friends for lunch or dinner. In the dining room it can talk to you.
• You will discover the humanity of your child's friend in different ways. Avoid strict supervision of the child so that he does not rebel against you parents.
• Have an informal conversation between the child and the mother or the child and the father. Properly advise the child on what to do.

It can damage the good relationship between parents and children if parents are too strict in managing their children. One of the things needed for a home to have peace and happiness for the whole family, is a good relationship and cooperation between parents and children. Therefore, we parents should consider it.

We must prevent our children from rebelling against our parents. Let's also avoid that they are inferior to us in interfering with the creature that they will love and be with for the rest of their lives. As we said in the previous issue, many have become single old men and women because of the interference of their parents in their hearts. Many people also commit suicide because of this reason made by the parents. Many are helping because of the interference of parents. A lot of people get married before they reach the right age or time because of the same reason parents interfere.

As parents, one of our dreams is the happiness of our children. So, why should we deny it to them?