Settling Dispute Between Friends
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Misunderstanding must undoubtedly occur between people. We are humans and are likely to have misunderstandings at some time. But the final purpose of any misunderstanding should be settling and that can only happen if the two individuals communicate and afterward comprehend each other.
You don't have to hate or separate yourself from someone simply because you both have a misunderstanding.
Several times I have been the middle man, between my two friends and my younger ones while they are quarreling. Most times it doesn't work well since you tend to be mutual.
When I was at the hostel, I have multiple times been a mediator between two of my roommate who is my friends.
When my friends are quarreling I try not to side with anybody in their quarrel since you are generating an idea that you favor one more than one. It preserves your relationship with them.
Even tho one is right to try to be mutual and after the misunderstanding, privately you may call the one who is wrong to order, that is when he or she is calm since an angry person tends not to hear and speaks without thinking.
You need to use wisdom when settling misunderstanding.
I make sure one of them leaves the environment for the main time so the matter won't expand.
Then after some time, when she is relaxed, she may come back.
When being a middle man I try to be cautious so as not to fall victim to their aggression.
Have heard instances of individuals who helped others to resolve quarrels and end up with a large injury or even death, when they are struck anything in the cause of the quarrel.
Being in their middle may not be advisable too.
It is preferable to stay at one side.
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It's not an easy task being a referee, you got to have a cool head after all. 💚
That's true
You just can't watch your two friends quarreling
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being a middle man, one need to be very careful because most are times he end up carrying the blame, especially when it involve your to friends, my dear one really need wisdom just as you have said, have a wonderful day.
Yes o
You make even make a friend turn enemy just because you're trying to settle them
Hehehe 🤣🤣 this is very true, I was a victim of this, I got a blow in the point of settling differences, I really loved your way of settling things, don't take side's just settle in the best way possible 💕
😂😂😂 sorry about the blow
That's why some people decide to stay mute when they see two people quarreling
Lolz that is true my friend it was nice reading your post❤️❤️🥰
Yeah, I can understand. You need to be very careful while settling disputes between friends and families. not always you will be able to resolve. In some cases you may end up being a part of the argument. You have rightly mentioned that you need to use wisdom while settling misunderstanding.
Yeah
Settling quarrel has even made cause you an enemy when only you want to help
Thank you for reading
Being in the middle of any fight isn't safe at all. It's quite dangerous especially when the fighters don't get hurt but the middle guy does.
We should be careful how we go in between two people all to settle dispute it may fall back at us thanks for sharing
Exactly
Thank you for reading
Like you said, wisdom is needed here. Settling dispute between two people requires wisdom and carefulness otherwise, you will have yourself to be blamed
Yes o
Even Solomon used Wisdom when he was King
One really needs to be careful when acting as a middle man to a fight because one might regret it. But in all, wisdom should be applied because we just can't keep watching two people fight and not try doing something to settle it. Even it means you should bring an elder over to help settle it.
Exactly
Sometimes if i feel like i don't want to really talk, i make sure one person leave there so as not to fight.
I respect your wisdom ma, do you know that if you side with one, the other might feel you are for that party... Mediation needs wisdom
That's why i said i won't side anyone in their mist of the quarrel
Letting the other know that she's wrong after she's settled
Yeah, but how did you get that strategy? 🥰
I have settled dispute alot😜
Chai.. you need to open an office for that assignment.. don't you think it can be a calling 🏃🏃🏃🥰
😂😂😂 As Therapist abi
Hahahhaaha!!! You know better🤣🤣
Yes o
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Yes, sometimes we get angry and let it out, but we should try as much as possible to control our emotions so we don’t end up losing people.
Just like you’ve said, when settling disputes among two people (they might be your friends or family members), we should try not to take anyone’s side. It won’t be fair to support anyone, but the better thing is to analyze the situation well and speak the truth.
Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for reading and sharing your ideas
Yay! 🤗
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