Kiss 99: Love is free

I do not think it is a big deal for me to be in a relationship with someone who is disorganized or a maximalist, because in most cases, that is exactly what people faced in love, love isn't about finding the best person to be in a relationship with but it is about making that person you love to become better each day by day.

I was a disorganized person in the past, I could remember that it was through the help of someone whose love closed my eyes and make us common to each other, this person makes me change from maximalist and before I knew it, I was a different person not who I was but who she wants me to become.

The deal here was that, we were in love, so whatever she advised me, I was taking it as an answer, love makes the both of us to obey and be thinking twice before we do something so that it doesn't affect our love for each other.

I would say it at anytime that nobody should consider because a person's is a maximalist he/she refused to be in a relationship with, rather we should consider it this way, when a person is not told about what to do, how would the person realized his/herself and work to become better, if being a maximalist isn't good and nobody told the person about it, there's this truth that such person wouldn't know about what he is doing.

I was once in a bustop, about to enter a taxi to my house and then I heard a man talking to his son as they were passing across the road, it seems their house was just nearby, so he asked his son they should rushed to the house and keep everything in order because it seems rain would fall, the boy replied that his mother would go back home because it always time for her to go back home from work, so they should go and not worried about anything.

The father didn't listened to him, from the look of things, the man knows that his wife may not come back early and even if she does, she might be tired, so to do the right thing, he has to go and keep everything in order in the house.

This is done to cut off quarrels in their marriage and the same thing goes to any relationship, love guide a partner so that to continue to be love then hope for that love to grow and become better, in a situation where a partner in a relationship finds fault, it means, there is no love in the relationship that holds the both of them together.

I can't denied myself love because I finds the person I love to be a maximalist, if I did it, that means, I am cheating on myself, because there is a time for everything and to think of love itself, it isn't easy to find true love, then why would I throw away my happiness just because the person I love is disorganized, if I confirmed that she truly loves me, I wouldn't let her go.

Instead I would spelt out time to make her to be like me and then if it's doesn't work, after a long time of trying, I would know that I have tried my possible best and by then, I will let her go and finds someone I can live with in peace and harmony.

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