See What I Love About These People, My People

The subject of love is widely used by both dick and harry. It is a topic that has faced several misconceptions. There are types and levels of love ❤️ but the no conception there is that most people fail to classify their love and set boundaries to it, so that leads to anything going kind of thing. When a thing is not properly defined the abuse of it must be present.

The widely celebrated season of St Valentine and most people here and there shouted and show their form of love to the world.

Now let me tell you my understanding of what love is.

Love Is a deep feeling of affection towards someone or a thing. This may be a romantic kind of love that mostly exists between the opposite sec and the other may be between good friends who have no romantic connection. This romantic love now does not have its proof In bed someone may take you to the bed and amid all the drama profess to love and at the end when the whole drama comes to an end tells you that he was out of this world while making that pronouncement.

There are several characters of love but I will mention just two.

Love is patient and kind: When someone is patient with another, even when you correct him or her 10 times you don't get irritated, you do it with love

Love is not selfish, seeking what will benefit him or her alone. He mindfully look out for the good of other even if he losses something.

Well, I have loved and still love someone and I love and still love a group, but for this prompt, I will talk about a group of people that I love.

My love goes out to the people of the North. Am not saying this because I married someone from the region, no, but because of the life, I met here. Where I am coming from that's the Eastern part of my country, we believe so much in celebrations, especially during burials. when someone does the party is way more than when the person is alive.

Sometimes ego I had to call my Mom to tell her what I feel about this. In the Northern part of the country when someone does, they don't keep the corpse for too long before the remains are buried but in my place, some are more than one month and others more than a year.

That's not my main point, here is it. The kind of expenditure that buries carry times the person while alive did not get too much money, I get to ask what for?

Also, the family is left alone to hassle for the things and source the money, then you see them borrowing to meet up with the need. There is even a traditional right to be done for the dead. Here the friends and family bring what they have to support the burial, they even cook to take to the burial venue. That day you see food everywhere just to make a choice.

When I told my mother all this and more, she took a deep breath and said, it was not that way from the beginning, just what I see in the North was how they used to do. I then asked, how did we get to this?

Just on Sunday, I lost an uncle, and the list written when calculated is more than a phone number while he was alive he struggled to build his house as he was not able to complete it before his death.

I will not stop loving these people despite the downside they have because just this aspect speaks volumes.

Thank you so much for visiting my blog. My special thanks go to the people of neoxian city and @momogrow for overseeing the prompt.