[ESP-ENG] Hivedamor iniciativa - Hablemos de nuestros abuelos por @hjrrodriguez || Hivedamor initiative - Let's talk about our grandparents by @hjrrodriguez
Ella no era de hablar mucho puesto que la mayoría del tiempo se la pasaba trabajando pero siempre nos dejaba refranes de los cuáles me acuerdo y hay uno en específico el cuál trato de aplicarlo con éxito: "Mijo con Vinagre no sé agarra Avispa". Al ser la única con la que compartí tiempo de calidad mí abuela Petra era la favorita para todos nosotros, una lastima que los últimos años de su vida los paso sin reconocernos la mayoría del tiempo sólo contaba con escasos momentos de lucidez mental ya que sufría de una enfermedad que de a poco la fué disminuyendo cómo lo es el Alzheimer, sumado a un ataque cerebrovascular que la dejó en cama y meses después falleció no sin antes dejarnos muchas enseñanzas.
En cuanto a sí dejaría a un abuelo mío en un asilo; es difícil de contestar siendo honesto al 100% todo dependerá de si tengo el suficiente capital para ingresarlos además sumado a otros factores cómo lo agradable que pueda ser el lugar más el trato para mí es lo que realmente importa. Se qué algunos dirán que ayudaron a nuestra educación, cuidado y debemos de retribuir todo ese cariño recibido pero para la mayoría es complicado la mejor opción sería contratarle una enfermera personal qué estuviera al pendiente de sus medicamentos y de qué realizarán actividades para las cuáles ya no están capacitados, pero la verdad es que es una decisión muy difícil de tomar.
Espero que esta iniciativa se pueda multiplicar hasta más lugares de cuidados y no sólo para los Adultos mayores, también para personas con discapacidad, comedores populares y toda clase de actividad que ayudé a beneficiar a más personas no sólo en Venezuela sino también en otros países ya que la familia #Hive es genial y estamos llenos de bondad. Lluvia de bendiciones para todos aquellos que empezaron con este sueño y de a poco van colaborando para desarrollar todos los proyectos de @hivedamor. Dios nos guíe hoy mañana y siempre amigos Hivers.
Very happy to contribute a little help to Asilo Santo Domingo and the friends of @hivedamor. First of all, telling a little about my family history is simple; On the Paternal side, I did not know any of them since they both left in search of a better life expectancy, leaving my father with his grandmother who raised him as her own giving him all the love and affection she could, unfortunately she died some time ago. On the Maternal side I only saw my grandfather twice in my life; he also sadly passed away a long time ago, the only one who was always there for me, my brothers and the rest of the cousins was my Maternal grandmother giving us all the possible support.
She didn't talk much since most of the time she spent working but she always left us sayings that I remember and there is one in particular that I try to apply successfully: "Millet with Vinegar I don't know how to catch Wasp". Being the only one with whom I shared quality time, my grandmother Petra was the favorite for all of us, a pity that the last years of her life were spent without recognizing us most of the time she only had few moments of mental clarity since she suffered from a disease that gradually diminished her, such as Alzheimer's, added to a cerebrovascular attack that left her bedridden and months later she died, but not before leaving us many lessons.
As for whether I would leave a grandfather of mine in a nursing home; It is difficult to answer being 100% honest, everything will depend on whether I have enough capital to pay them in addition to other factors such as how pleasant the place may be plus the treatment for me is what really matters. I know that some will say that they helped our education, care and we must repay all that love received but for most it is complicated the best option would be to hire a personal nurse who would be aware of their medications and what they will do activities for which they no longer they are trained, but the truth is that it is a very difficult decision to make.
I hope that this initiative can be multiplied to more places of care and not only for the elderly, but also for people with disabilities, soup kitchens and all kinds of activities that helped benefit more people not only in Venezuela but also in other countries already that the #Hive family is great and we are full of kindness. Rain of blessings for all those who started with this dream and little by little they are collaborating to develop all the projects of @hivedamor. God guide us today tomorrow and always Hivers friends.
