HOW TO BUILD A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP ON HIVE


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Hive is a decentralized platform as some of us already know, it is a home and work for many like myself and many more. Hive is a world of it's own, a place that can be so many things to different people, some of us say hive is life and I know you might agree with me only if you know truly know what Hive is. Hive has a lot to offer to you and me, but then we will have to give first before we receive and what are the things we can give to receive all the benefits that hive has to offer?

  • Be true to yourself

Hive is a home for me like I've mentioned before and if you know what a home is then you will know why I'm mentioning this first. Here in the Hive blockchain, there are different people from different parts of the world whop have come together to share different ideas and experiences and that's why it is so important for you to be true to who you are here on the hive blockchain. No one is here to judge you and even if there is, then that's their own problem not yours at all.


I've been privileged to be on hive for over a year now and one thing I've learned is that people tend to value you more when they know you are who you truly are, as that will help them to trust you and want to build a relationship with you. Here on hive, it pays to be you, that's what is encouraged here and that's why for you to build a healthy relationship here, you have to be true to yourself.


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  • Ask questions

Hive like I said is a world of it's own, it has different communities that helps us feel more comfortable and willing to share. Every community has their own mode of operation and it is fine if you can identify with any of these communities especially the ones that help you become who you are and by so doing, you get to meet more people who have the same interest with you and gives you room to share ideas together. In this process of identifying yourself with community or communities, you are free to ask as many questions that you know are important for your growth here.



When I joined hive, I had two people @davidbright and @merit.ahama who were always there guiding me and giving me directions but at some point I realized that I can't depend on them always so I decided to explore hive myself (not really by myself though). I started visiting different writers and asking questions where necessary and also living my thoughts about their contents. It was all fun and educating as I was able to gather so much information about how hive works and up until now I still do the same thing and I make sure to learn something new every day or improve more on what I already know.



Asking questions is one beautiful way to build a good relationship here on hive but I will advise you ask meaningful questions so people can know you are serious and also ready to grow. @nkemakonam89 is one of the most amazing persons I know and respect and one reason is because she always makes sure to ask questions and I know it has helped her a lot and I hope she sees this post and leave a testimony of what I'm saying now. I have also benefitted from asking questions and I know how well it has helped me build a healthy relationship here on the hive blockchain.


There are other ways to build a healthy relationship here on hive but I don't want to bore you with many words but I do hope you stay in touch to know when I share some more ways with you. Please don't hesitate to leave your contributions and questions if you have any, they are all welcomed and appreciated.

Until next time, stay AWESOME!!!


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Nkem is my mentor ooo. And I so much appreciate her enthusiastic effort. And you are a legend too.

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That lady is totally a role model for everyone and I'm happy you take her as one, follow her well oo, she dey quick dey know road 😁

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We cannot underestimate the power of asking questions. It helps us to know and directs us to the right path...

Being true to oneself helps to build trust. Letting the people know what you are in for and your goals helps to bring like minds closer.

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That's right, you have explained it even better. Thank you so much for your contribution sir

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Hehehe 😉
What's happening here....ayam coming oo....my meat is on fire 🔥 and it's burning 🔥😂😂🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

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Is it my birthday meat? 🥴🥴

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Hahaha 😂😂
Oohhh sorry baby...I am sure grandma spoiled you with that fowl yesterday 😂😂

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Hahaha, please go and look at it and come back oo 😂😂

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Yh,hive is a world on it's own. It requires attention,I mean lots of it and by doing that it'll reward you in return. Looking forward to stabilize my relationship here, it's more like a necessity to me.

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It does needs a lot of attention because it's offers a lot too. For anyone to grow well on hive, they have to build a healthy foundation which I refer to as a healthy relationship and you do that by interacting with users here.

Try to make out time to be here as much as you can and soon you will see what you've been missing out on. I will be sharing more tips that will help you understand more 😉

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It pays to be true to oneself here if you must grow. Faking or pretending to be who you are not is not a good way to make your content unique and it leaves people in doubt and confusion of who you truly are. This will definitely make them ignore you because you aren't real.

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Exactly! In the real world being fake might be rewarding but not here and that is one thing I love about Hive, it's just a matter of time before people get tired of you not being who you are expect you have something else to offer, hehe

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You have said well. People will definitely get tired when you keep faking it here on Hive. You have to be a real example of who you are on Hive which also helps your post standout.

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Great write-up dear. I’m intrigued by the pieces of advice you have rendered above for us newbies. Indeed, the best course of action on this platform is to seek guidance and ask questions whenever necessary.

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I'm so glad you find this helpful, I hope to share more in due time. Thank you so much for stopping by and leaving your comment, it's a great privilege having you here 🙏

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You have said it all... There is this popular saying that anyone who ask question never misses his or her way and that's just how it is on hive.

If you really want to excel on this platform, u need to learn how ask questions and also explore

Great Post.. Keep it up

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You're absolutely right Dada, asking questions is just one of he best ways to grow and succeed.

Thank you so much for your contribution and I'm so happy to see you stop by ❤️

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Muchas gracias por tus consejos, tienes mucha razón en lo que dices, y sobre tu experiencia cuando iniciaste en Hive.

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Estoy feliz de que puedas identificarte. Muchas gracias por pasarte y dejar tu comentario.

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Gracias a ti amigo Dios te bendiga. Gracias por contestar

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Es un placer amigo, eres bienvenido y también gracias por estar aquí.

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Hey @sssandra I think this could help you out some with your content creation to keep it tip top shape like you have been

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Thank you so much for the recommendation. Have a great week!

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Wow....I finally came back to read this amazing content. Babe, you have given quality tips that can guide anyone willing to grow better here in the right path. And yes, let me testify on how asking questions has helped my little growth here:

My second name might be a questionaire 😉😂 even till date. There is no need to shy about question because I don't want to die in ignorance or do something stupid out of ignorance. When I ask questions, it does not matter if I senior you or u senior me, what matters is my polite approach towards anyone I wish to get an answer from. Ask, ask, ask oo 😂, so you shall be directed or clarified on anything thing that is confusing you. Indeed asking questions has really helped me here so much...thank you my darling queen hopestylist for the tag💝🥰😘

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I also think that Hive is like a family and I feel very comfortable here. Besides I can get many suggestions, knowledge, and ideas while I read the article of others.
In the case of asking questions, I also think almost all hive users are very friendly and most of them try to help each other which I like most.

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You're right partner, most hive users are really welcoming and that makes this place a great place to be and I'm really so happy I'm part of it 🥰.

Thank you so much for your beautiful contribution, I'm happy to have you here ❤️

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I also think that hive is getting better with time and helpful and good users of this platform are the reason behind it. You are part of it. I am also part of it. In fact, every active user is part of it.

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You're absolutely right, we all have a role here and that's why we all need each other to grow here because we can't do it alone
Thank you so much for stopping by and leaving your comment 🥰

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we all have a role here and that's why we all need each other to grow here because we can't do it alone

Yes. We all play a single and important role in this platform. I think it's our responsibility and we need to do it combinely and help each other and guide each other.

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That's it, together everyone achieves more, we have to work as a team to get the best out of all of us, hehe

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Being oneself helps a lot whether it be online or offline. No pretense is needed. This is beautiful Hoppie😍.

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You're absolutely right my dear and I love how Hive makes that sink into all of our heads, we are just who people want, we don't have to be someone else.

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Being you pays my dear ❣️ 🙏 In all and places we find ourselves we should try and be the very Best version of ourselves
Came from @dreemport

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That's right dear, people love seeing the real you even though they are the ones that also make us want to be someone else, they still appreciate who we are in the end.

Thank you for stopping by 🤗

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Someone confronted me and say that I ask too much questions that I should try to keep things to myself and ever since then I cut him off. I see no harm in asking questions because it helps me clarify and settle my trouble mind. Exploring yourself is another pattern to learn things yourself! It's possible that you would even get much information from those findings of yours. So exploring hive helps one balance.

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I love that you cut him off, you did really well my dear. Asking questions is very important especially reasonable ones, it helps in so many ways.

Yeah, self exploration is just the best, you get to experience things first hand.

Thank you for the your beautiful contribution dear

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