IDENTIFYING THE BALANCE

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It's so easy for me to set a goal and plans for every single day but then I find it hard most times to get all of these things done and then I had to think of possible ways to help me meet up with the goals and not just plan my schedules. I have been living my life in a way that I just do what comes to mind and it has been really tiring for me most times as I discovered that I was achieving more in some aspects and less in others which I know it's not supposed to be so.

Finding a balance was what I needed and immediately I identified that fact, I had to set up a time table for myself because I realized that I complained more often than before that the 24 hours which is a day, was too small or short for me but then after setting a time table for myself, I realized the 24 hours was just perfect, it was not too small neither was it too much. While setting the time table for myself, I was having doubts deep down in me because I was scared I wasn't going to meet up with it.

Well, it was not easy at all and that was when I had to go beyond just setting a time table but also putting in place some things that will aid me in meeting up with my plans for each day. Below are some practical habits I put in place to help me meet up with my plans...

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Daily Affirmation

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After setting my daily plans, waking up every morning to see a new day was a quick reminder that makes me tell myself some positive words and affirmative words which helps me to be positive minded towards achieving my goals for that day. The first time I started following the time table, I couldn't meet up well with all of the plans but the second day was even more harder but then I knew my mind was getting accustomed to the new changes little by little.

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Giving up is not an option

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There was a times when I scheduled my time to help me meet up with my daily plans but at some point I just realized that I was no longer following my time table but instead of me losing faith that I can't do it, I just cushion myself to stick with the time table again. Doing this has helped me greatly because I realize that every time I get reminded of how poorly I'm doing and I retraced my step, I see how better I become and that habit of not giving up has helped me greatly in meeting up with my plans.

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Evaluation / rescheduling

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As time went by, I got to know that some things are just too easy or are no longer working, I just know I have to evaluate and reschedule my time and this has proven to be a really good way of helping me stick to my plans. Although, there were times when I try to play stubborn and refuse to reschedule my goals and I find out that procrastination starts creeping in and before I can get a grip of what was happening, I realize that I'm no longer working with a plan.

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Self discipline

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This one is a little self explanatory but then I will love to explain a little bit about it. There are times when after following my plans to some extent, I get entangled by other things that I sometimes forget that there is time for everything. Knowing that this things can happen at any time, I try to apply self discipline and I have seen how it has helped me in fulfilling my daily plans.

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These are a few things I have been putting in place to help me achieve my plans on a daily basis and it has helped me fit in all my plans and I have seen how well I'm doing after planning my time by allocating different things for different time. From time to time I love looking at how well I'm doing to know if I'm doing my best or I'm not and that has helped me to know were to improve on and where I should keep being consistent at. I'm really so happy that I decided to allocate time to all my activities in a day and I've realized that I'm doing really well so far.

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A little something for you

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As a worker both online and in the real world, a personal advise I would love to give is, always try to make every time count by giving each minute, hour, and day to different activities and try to stick to the time for each activity and then you will realize that the 24 hours is perfect and you will then be able to carry out all your task and still realize that there is enough time for you to rest yourself as you should. And mind you, NEVER SAY NEVER! You only know it works or not when you try it with the mind of making it work, hehe.

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Your mind is a really beautiful world of his own and it's always willing to go where you send it and that's the reason why you just have to be very careful and conscious of where you send it to. Meeting up with a set target at a particular time is something that can only be possible when there is a determined mind. If you are not ready for something but yet you want such a thing, you will realize that once the thing comes, you will loose it again because you were not ready for such things even though is what you've always wanted.

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Hello @hopestylist
Some valuable points here seem so simple and logical, yet it's easy for us to lose our way. Self-discipline, evaluation, and rescheduling are some key steps that can be taken to make our lives simpler and more meaningful indeed.

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I'm very fulfilled seeing that you totally got the understanding of my blog. Thank you for reading and enjoying it also, much love from me 🥰🙏.

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Will be sure to drop by later...
Thanks for the tag though

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No problem, I look forward to seeing you soon, hehe.

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yeahs ma will do

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Alright dear, take your time 😊

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Hmmm👍🙏

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Yes 🥰

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👌❤️😉😊

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Smiles

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Hmmm let me read this your balance post or have I read it??

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I'm not sure you have, hehe.

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Okay will stop by soon, but I dey fear he loooooonnnnnnggggg lolz 😂🤣 after I visit the city

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Same here..good at setting goals at the beginning but eventually lose the passion once distractions come.. But that affirmation is I guess effective 😁 think positive, and positive things will come to you .

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Hehehe, it happens a lot to me and I just have to keep rescheduling my plans until it kept fitting in.

Yes saying positive things to oneself helps build a positive mindset which is very important to achieving success.

Thank you so much for stopping !LADY

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It was an awesome breakdown you gave on the goal setting thing and I have picked out some things to re-adopt... It's been ages I last did my affirmations

And I've been really undisciplined with meeting up with my set plans too... The line dividers caught my attention
And most of all thank you very much for the mention 😇😇

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It happens to most of us but I'm happy you feel motivated to start it again, in sure it will help you a lot, hehe.

Self discipline is really hard because sometimes we just kick it out, lolz. But like I said, your mind is what really needs more attention.

I'm happy you like the line dividers, thank you so much for stopping by, it's a pleasure mentioning the khings name, smiles.

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You are not just beautiful 🤩 but also brilliant i mean look at you ☺️ look at how you split everything in order, you won't stop amazing me 💯.

I have learnt alot in your post and i will make mine later today 🥰 thanks as usual.

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Everything is indeed achievable, it all depends on our willingness to make it happen. If I had not had that experience of setting goals for a day and at the end fail to meet up I would have concluded that this is preaching but this is raw teaching birthed from the realm of reality. I have been struggling a lot over the issues of not fulfiling my plans. What pains me most is that I often kick start it with zeal and determination but along the line I easily give up. I lack consistent ability. I could start a thing very well for some days but later give up.

Finding a balance for all activities is very crucial, doing each activity at it's own time. The thing is, one would need more than just determination to do some of these things sometimes. It is really not easy.

Thank you for giving us some of the habits you developed to keep you on track with your plans. The truth it is easier for us to give up on a thing when there is no positive motivation, that is where daily affirmation comes in. We are in a kind of world that only us can really motivate ourselves to do what is needful. Sometimes I just sit by myself and start confessing I can do it over all the difficult tasks in my life and I keep moving even when I fail, I get up and still make a positive confession.

Victory is not for anyone who easily gives up, that is why I strongly believe that victory is not for the strong neither is it for the weak but it is for those for refused to give up. Coming back after receiving many blows , and doing that the same thing until something positive comes out of it.

I must confess all those habits are perfect and would indeed help anyone who is determined enough to apply them faithfully, succeed.

Your mind is a really beautiful world of his own and it's always willing to go where you send it and that's the reason why you just have to be very careful and conscious of where you send it to.

This is my favorite part. Every word there is for me. It is very expedient for us to channel our minds towards good things, seeing it is just like a slave to us, it goes anywhere it is directed to.

Thank you for sharing this with us dear 💖

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Oh my gosh! I'm in awe seeing how long this comment is and reading through it I just feel like I'm the best writer ever, lolz, well I felt that way because it is obvious that you carefully read through each word and you have left a very deep connection with my thoughts.

You are absolutely right in every word you have said, it is not easy to be focused on reaching our goals at all especially when we are not dedicated and determined. And like you have rightly stated, determination is not all that there is to achieving these standards, there are other things to also consider.

I'm really so happy you got that last part of my post well, it was also my highlight of everything because I know how the mind though it feels like a slave but has power over making us or breaking us.

Thank you for always taking your time to go through post and leaving such thoughtful comments, I appreciate you dear ❤️🙏.

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Oh my gosh! I'm in awe seeing how long this comment is and reading through it I just feel like I'm the best writer ever, lolz, well I felt that way because it is obvious that you carefully read through each word and you have left a very deep connection with my thoughts.

See how you just made my head swell. Well for your information, You are one of my favorite writers, I have Never visited your blog and left without gaining something positive to add to my life. More grace dear🥰🥰

Thank you for always taking your time to go through post and leaving such thoughtful comments, I appreciate you dear ❤️🙏.

You're always welcome dearie💖💖💖

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Oh my! I need to learn this from you, I love how you make your commente, it's just so beautiful and authentic. I'm so honored to be one of your favorite writers, thank you so much son 🤗🥰.

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Maami like no other, I learnt all these from you🥰🥰

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Awwn, that's really nice but I see that you already had it in you, I guess I only motivated you to show it, nice one son 😍.

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Wow it’s true we have to self disciple when setting our goals because it will help us to stay focus and the fact you said self-discipline helps you in fulfilling your daily plans is amazing and nice and we sure try to apply all this tips you share.

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Thank you so much for stopping by dear, I'm happy you are trying to do similar things as well 😊

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