JUDGE AND BE JUDGED
There are so many things we see or experience in life that when we get to know what others are going through, we can't help but feel grateful. Not everyone is lucky to be born with a silver spoon and not everyone get to know how it feels to be in the next person's shoes. Everyday we hear and see different things that most times makes us judge a book by it's cover.
I was very quick to judge people back then and even now. Although I did not do that to mock anyone or make them feel less, I did that so I can be careful not to fall into trouble. I did had good intentions but then, I'm learning how to just ask people of Most questions that I have in mind so I can try as much as I can to avoid getting the wrong idea of a person or thing.
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We all deserve a right to tell others who we are but then most times we are not so Lucky to get the opportunity to tell them who we are because they just get an idea of the person we are by the actions we put on. Remember the saying, actions speak louder than words, learning how to tell others who we really are through our actions is just the best way because if we say something that we are and our actions says another, then most people will rather go for the actions as that is what they can see.
Live your life the way you want people that know you as. You can't be a lover of children but then you don't like associating with children, who do you think would believe you when you say you love children? Absolutely no one, instead they will hold on to the fact that you don't like children because that is the attitude you've shown to them.
We are not better than anyone, mind you, we are just more luckier than them but that won't even stop anyone from becoming the better part of themselves. Let's just keep spreading who we are through the things we do even more than the things we say but it's more idea to let both work hand in hand. That way people won't have the chance to misjudge you all the time. And you also won't misjudge others yourself.
Until next time, stay AWESOME and JIGGY!!!
To be honest I don't care about others except my family members and It actually doesn't matter what others think about me because they don't giving me money for anything. I respect everyone but if someone think wrong about me means judge me wrongly then I don't bother myself to make their misunderstanding. As I said they are not giving me money. And if they go to an extreme level for their wrong judgement, they may receive a huge blow from me after a certain time and humiliations is unavoidable for them if they go to extreme level. I am very cruel for such kind of person because I kept quiet doesn't mean I am the one to be a victim for their wrong judgement. I know when to speak up.
It's totally wrong for anybody to misjudge but then we can help people get a better idea of who we are by our actions. It's really tiring to start explaining myself to anyone most times 🤣
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The day I got matured enough to realize we all have different journeys was the day I stopped judging others. Once in a while, our self righteousness gets in the way as we assume we can't make the same mistake the other person has made. But then, we've never walked their journey before, we don't know what they've been through. I felt a lot of pain the day I was wrongly judged despite my righteous intentions. Do not judge!
Exactly, our self righteousness most times get in the way but then we have to put ourselves in the position of others to truly understand what they might be going through.
It's not good to judge but then most people mistake corrections for being judgemental and that could be a problem too.
The journey of life is really a hard one. For me I will only try doing what I feel is right and not minding what people around me think. We can never live to please others because it does not work.Greetings
That's right, we shouldn't live our lives because of people, but let our lives tell if the kind of people we are
First, I love the view of the cloud and grasses.
Honestly, judging people without closely studying them can actually make us dislike them or see them for who they are not and then in the end we feel sad after finding out who they really are.
I always try to have a close look before I can draw my conclusion about someone.
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Thank you 😊
Yeah it's best to know more about a person before drawing conclusions
I think life gives us different paths, you don't know who you're judging till you're in a position where they could help you. Just because you are in a position they are not in doesn't make you better than them. You're just lucky. From #dreemport
Exactly, you are just lucky 😌
I totally agree with you on this. It's always best to practice what you preach and also let people see who we are through our actions.
Thank you for sharing.
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That's right, we can make things better for ourselves and others by staying true to what we are