MY HIVE ACTIVITIES ARE REDUCING!!!

A lot have been going on with me but it feels like nothing is actually going on, lol, I think life is getting serious for me now as things are beginning to take a new path for me. Just last two weeks I got a message from someone who was helping me get information concerning my school and all, I was advised to go to the school to clear out some things which I did but unfortunately for me everything went down the rabbit hole and it kind of felt like the end for me at that point but somehow things immediately took a new path which was quite overwhelming.


I missed my admission and I'd love to blame that on the situation of my country and how they careless for the education of their citizens. Well, I'd also blame myself for being so lazy and careless not to search for the right information at the right time. As they say, every disappointment is a blessing and I want to believe that applies to my case too. After I got that sad news that I missed my admission, I had to go for a predegree program just to avoid me staying at home for another year and also because of the uncertainty of my country. But then, it means spending beyond normal and it is not just easy at all.


The program will last for approximately one year which after that I can apply as a 200level student in the school of my choice. The whole thing is happening really fast and it is kind of a bit hard to adjust but then I'm trying the best I can to adjust and so are my parents too. Last week my dad was able to raise some part of the money for me so I can complete my clearance and start classes before thinking about paying for my school fees which is over $400, that's a lot but my parents don't want me to worry much about the money even when I know they don't have it now but I'm hopeful.


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So tomorrow I will be attending my first class and I'm still wondering how everything will go because I've never really done it before but I'm positive and assured that everything will go well even though they might not, hehe, I'm kind of ready for all the stress that might be coming, I know they will come so I'm training my mind not to feel too overwhelmed by all of it. The scary part of the whole thing is that I will be writing my first exam weeks from now and I'm really not sure how prepared I am but I want to just keep my fingers crossed and do my best while praying that God help me.

I will do my best to make sure to get good materials that I can study to help me do well during the program and all of that will cost me some money and that's why I don't think I can reduce my activities that much here on Hive because the truth is I need the money just as much as I need to do well in my studies. I don't know how well I can balance things up but I know it will get tougher as time goes by but I know what doesn't kills me only makes me stronger, hehe. I know a lot of people who combine their studies with making money, it has always been hard for them and I know mine will not be different but I think I've been armed with so much advice from them and I hope to learn from them how they managed to cope.


This post is just a little bit of insight of how this users life is going to be like starting from tomorrow and also to inform you of the reason why you might be seeing less of me, hehe.


Until next time, stay AWESOME!!!



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Wow, you took a beautiful photo.
I think you used the mirror technique

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Thank you, that's right I made use of the mirror technique, hehe

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Everything will be fine. it is just a tough time for you. Remember tough times don't last but tough people do. you can be there and become the best student and they offer the best course. it is a disguise in blessing for you.

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Thank you so much for your words, they are really encouraging and heartwarming, I appreciate your presence here

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Growing up, I've met a lot of people, like a lot,met the week ones,the strong ones,i've also met people who managed to make something out of nothing,met people who could go through hell and still smile,and if am to be honest ya all of these categories 😅🤸. Although I won't really say ya weak,ya just a human with emotions just like everyone else,that's how I'll classify it. Well,if I'm to describe you I'm going to say ya one of the strongest,most disciplined,(beautiful still join✅)and also one of the few self motivated beings I know. I really can't say I grew up with u but I've known you for a while now and I can say ya've being through hell,I mean real hell....but what amazes me is that you went through all that with a smile on your face. It really amazes me when I think about it😅,you have 1 thousand opportunities to escape all the hardships coming your way but instead you embraced and overcame all. I know it's gonna be tough and really stressful for you as ya about to start something new,the beginnings are always tough as usual but i can boost that you are definitely going to handle it very well, c'mon you've gone through worst na😅. I fit list many but u know.....no be everything person dey talk. The HOPE AHAMA I know have been through a lot so she's definitely handle this pretty well. I just hope God strengthens you till the end and build the people around you so you won't have to go through everything alone, just have faith and believe in yourself as usual, it's gonna be alright,I for declare make everything easy for u ooo but as u know....I no be Christ 😅,just don't worry dear.... Don't worry about about a thing, cuz every little thing... gonna be alright 🧘🤟, chinsus......I don write full note,dis one go reach me post as blog before o🤣🤣.

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Awwn, my darling, thank you so much for writing this much to encourage me and give me courage, this is what I needed to hear now and God has used you to remind me that I should not worry but just give him thanks.
I know I will overcome and be victorious in the end because God is with me always! Once again thank you so much for this 🥰❤️

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I'd also blame myself for being so lazy

You are one of the most active users on this platform but it seems you become lazy in real-life activities. I think you should need to be more careful.

You need to balance both virtual life and real life at the same time and I am hopeful that you will be able to make it. Best of luck.

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Hahaha, I'm actually hard working in real life more than hive, it's just that I'm lazy when it comes to studying, haha. But yes, now I'm faced with the responsibility of improving myself in the aspect of education and I'm going to give it all I've got.

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Never worry, every dissapointments comes with it's own blessings, I think we learn from missing out on prospects and opportunities and I'm quite happy for you for this choice you've decided to make. Goodluck and hopefully, this one would favour you immensely.

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I hope so too, thank you so much for stopping by, your encouragement and words of advice so far, I'm truly grateful ❤️

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You will see that everything will be fine!
You will be able to balance Hive with studying and find the money you need; commit yourself and be positive and you will see that a lot of positive will come, I believe it!
A hug!

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This is really so assuring, thank you so much for taking out time to read and also leave your words of encouragement, I do hope everything will be fine. I think my positivity keeps dropping as the day goes by but I will try my best to always stay positive as you have advised, thank you 🙏

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You are going to do well, sis. As we age we realize we have more responsibility on our shoulder.

Nigerian schooling system is messed up.

I’ll advice you to be positive minded and work hard. I’ll rather you make schedule for your schooling activities and your hive activities.

I am sure everything will turn out good.
All the best.

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Thank you so much for your beautiful suggestion dear, I will do just that, I think it will make life a lot easier for me.

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It's really alright baby girl, some mistakes are blessing in disguise, I'm happy you took the alternative way...
That's why there's always a plan B😊 to help you get back to track..

And this is me wishing you all the success in your school endeavour..

And there's nothing much to expect, you'll meet new people and new lecture plus funny lectures as well as the weird ones..
But what ever the case, they make up the fun and experience..
Have a great day!

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Nice, thank you so much for the tips, advice and encouragement, I will do well to keep them in mind.

It's a great privilege having you here ☺️

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First of all, I wish to say sorry for missing the admission and I feel so bad but thank God you are able to go for plan B.
Congratulations and so happy that at the end of the year, you will still gain admission by God's grace.
It's one thing to miss an opportunity and it's another to stay down crying over spilled milk.
Waiting to read about your first day in school.
Happy studying

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You're absolutely right, crying over spilled milk is just one good way to waste time and I try as much as I can not to do that.

Thank you so much for your best wishes, I haven't written about my first day in school and I don't think I will now but hopefully someday when I feel inspired to do so.

It's so good having you around, do have a beautiful day ahead

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It a phase, I know you will get through it. You have what it takes

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Don't worry my dear.... you never can tell what God has in stock for you for allowing you miss that admission. Just focus on this program and ask God to lead you through. Everything will be fine, I believe and I wish you more grace in ur new beginning of learning
I hope not to miss you much here ❤️❤️😊

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@hopestylist, This post is late but I won´t fail to drop some encouragement too for you at least.
I am proud of you, dear for even taking this step to another phase of your life and not just wanting to sit another year at home. This programme will definitely add to your knowledge which I am sure of.

For every step one is taking, the beginning is always overwhelming but as time goes on, you will learn how to adjust and balance things up. I believe you are a strong girl. If you can be so active on Hive to have earned the dreemer of the year, who are you not to cope with both activities? This is what you can do and I pray for the strength to do that.

You actually need both to succeed and survive, so, do the best you can and always trust God.

Many people learned how to balance activities like this and they came out successfully. It was tough at first for me then, but when I knew what I wanted and knew I need to do my best, I put in my effort while always praying to God to help me.

God will surely step in for you when you are in it with the right mind and heart. Trust me, I just feel like doing this and encouraging you in my little way.

All the best darling and ace it in your forthcoming exams 😘😘😘

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Awwn, thank you so much for these beautiful words of encouragement, I feel so motivated. Your words spoke really well to me and I'm truly grateful 🙏❤️

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Sorry you missed the admission and yes, pre-degree is also good.

I wish you luck in your school and hive activities.

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