WE-WK 112 || FINDING POSITIVITY

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Good day to you, I'm really excited you have taken out time off your busy day to see what this girl filled with lots of love have to say about the weekend topics and that reminds me, Happy weekend, I want to trust that your weekend is going well because I want you to be happy. So I hope you are putting on a beautiful smile now, so without wasting much of your time I'll dive right into the topic I'll be reacting to for the weekend experience/engagement organized by @galenpk.

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MY INTEREST WILL BE TOPIC ONE

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In life, there are times when we see the good in people and we sometimes don't let them know how we feel about them, how we are impressed of what they've done or what they are doing but when we see them do something that doesn't goes well with us, we hardly hesitate to them to their faces, not only because we want them to take corrections but mostly we do that to make them feel dirty. Although not everyone are like that, but it's really rare to find such people.

Complaining about people is normal, it's what we expect most times, so we don't get surprised if someone was to complain about something or someone to us as it's something that's already becoming a norm in our world, even right from time. If you remember clearly, the first man which happens to be Adam complained about his wife but he was rebuked. So from that, I've learned that it's okay for someone to complain about something or someone but when you see that the complaint is false, it's good for such persons to be corrected.
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MY BIGGEST COMPLAINT ABOUT A FRIEND

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The person I've had the biggest complaint about happens to be my friend who is also a colleague in my singing group. He is very short tempered and it was very hard for anyone to be around him without getting a dose of what he dishes out. He does not care how you feel, all he cares about is what he wants and if anyone dares to go against him, then you are in for big trouble. As a group, it got to point when sometimes we have to give in to his opinion because we did not want him to get angry.

I know you might be wondering why we did that, well, he was the only bass singer that was good and we needed him but it turned out that he became too proud of what he has to offer and that didn't just go well with me, I don't like that attitude one bit, it irritates me. We tried so many times to let him see reasons with us during rehearsals but he was still trying to be very bossy and authoritative. In fact, it got to the point when he said we should leave him alone and that, that was his character and if we did not like it, then that was our own business.

At this point, we knew it would be very difficult to get him change his attitude, so we had to just try and keep peace with him as much as we can.

So in simple sentence,, my biggest complaint about him is, he is too selfish with his opinion, he will never accept yours if it was not the same as his.

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MY COMPLIMENTS TO MY FRIEND

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Aside the fact that he doesn't accept others opinions, he has some really good qualities to and these helped me and everyone cope with him easily. He can be so passionate about something (positive things...), once he wants something he gets it and he don't mind the sacrifice he has to make, he is always willing to make it.

He's also a very good singer like I mentioned earlier, whenever he sings I just wish he won't stop because he is always happy at that point and he relates well with everyone. He sings with so much passion and feelings, you must have goosebumps when you listen to him sing except of course you are not a music lover.

So in short, I love his burning passion for the things he do and I love his singing a lot. If you hear him sing bass, you will fall in love with him as a girl, lol.

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Thank you so much for visiting my blog today, please do have a beautiful weekend and day.

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The original #weekend-engagement concept by @galenkp featured in the
WEEKEND EXPERIENCES community.

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Yes Sir, change is constant as they say, as long as you have a willing mind, it's possible to change some situations in life.

I'm so grateful for your comment, it added more value to my post, thank you for choosing such beautiful topics to discuss on, it really helped me in putting effort to giving a good discussion.

Have a fabulous day ahead Sir 🤗.

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Complaining about people is normal

I have seen many people also who get satisfaction complain about others and feel proud because of it all the I don't think it is a matter of proud.

he will never accept yours if it was not the same as his.

I don't like such kind of personality. I think everyone has the right to share their own opinion. And every opinion should be considered .

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People complain about others because they are not satisfied with their behavior and the major reasons I've seen why people complain about someone, is their pride, of course there are many other reasons.

Yes partner, it's really annoying when some persons always want only your opinion to be taken but it's not right that way.

Thank you for stopping by and leaving your comment partner 😊🤗.

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I found another reason behind complaining. That is jealously. I think many people feel jealous to see that success of others.

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Yes, that's right. When people see that others are doing better than them, they tend to find fault with them so they can ridicule them.

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He sings with so much passion and feelings, you must have goosebumps when you listen to him sing except of course you are not a music lover.
For now if that’s needed to have him and his bass voice in the band it’s ok. And he did say I am that way I a way to prepare other to engage in that way with him but it could be different if he were open to trying a different approach. Great entry hope you get picked dear

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Thank you so much for your comment, I'm so glad you enjoyed it and thanks for picking my post 🤭🤗🌹❤️.

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There will always be complaint for someone. But for sure behind those complaint there will always be a compliment that must be considered. That compliment is something that someone will also need.

That was a good compliment @hopestylist.. Hopefully he will change for the better.

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Yes you are right and it's always good to look at the positive side of people as it will help us love them even with the many flaws they have.

I hope he changes for the better too, thank you for stopping by and leaving such beautiful comment, I truly appreciate it 🤗.

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It's a nice one Hope. It's good to see the two sides always, both the good and bad of people. However, we shouldn't allow the negatives over cloud us, and you've done well in trying to adapt to your friend. Nice one

Meanwhile, I've a complaint:

Although not everyone dies that but it's really rare to find such people.

Nothing much, just a grammar error you need to fix.

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Yes you are right, it's always good to look more at the positive side of them so we can be able to love them.

Thank you for pointing out the errors to me, I'm truly grateful.

Thank you for stopping by and leaving your comment, it's a really great privilege to have you stop by 🤗.

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Thank you for stopping by and leaving your comment, it's a really great privilege to have you stop by 🤗.

Who am I again na? Small me. Thanks though, at least, I'm blushing.

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The you that you are, lol.

Thank you once more, I just corrected it 😊.

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I know the kind of person he is. They call people like him a general. He is a class of people who likes his voice to be heard. He is bossy and authoritative. He would not agree until everything goes his own way. And if he sees that you are one of his followers or that you are siding with him, he would do anything to protect you. And one of the qualities of these generals is that they are goal minded, they always know what they want and what they want to achieve.

I have read about classes of people and being able to read where a person can be classed into and how to interact with them.

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Wow, see as you just explained him better than me, lol. You are indeed really good with classing people.

So what do you think is the best way to interact with such a person, do you mind sharing it with me? Or better still, can you make a post about it? 😉

Thank you for stopping by and leaving such an amazing contribution, I truly appreciate it 🤗🌺.

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This is a big topic oh and I think it would great for me to develop a post for it. That way I would talk about different kinds of people and how to class them and identify them. So you would know how to relate with anybody you meet.

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I already knew it would be lengthy that's why I thought it was best if you made a post about it and that way more people would learn too.

Please go for it, I will be honored to read it 🥰.

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We call people like this ominiknowest... they claim they know all and they cannot be corrected 🙌

The hallmark of a knowledgeable person is the realisation and acceptance that you know nothing.

When you do that it creates room for you to grow and to acquire more knowledge. Omo! It is well ooo

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You're are right dear.

It's only wise to let someone win sometimes even when you know they don't deserve it one bit. It was always heart breaking whenever he was in that mode, someone always end up very sad 😢.

Accepting we are not right even when we know we are, gives people more reasons to want to reason with us.

Thank you for making such beautiful contribution, I'm so grateful Sam ❤️.

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Hi partner well I don't like that male singer🤣🤣🤣
Find another one, because you all deserve so much better.
I don't do negativity and I would remove him from my presence but that is just me🤣
Have a magical monday and a great new month partner!

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We didn't even had to remove him, he left in his own accord, hehehe. He chose is athlete over the group, so now he's more into athletes than singing.

He has a really annoying personality in that aspect so I won't blame you for wanting to remove him, lol.

Thank you so much for stopping by and leaving your amazing comment partner ❤️.

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Ah well he seems the sort of person I would have nothing to do with, or else I would end up having words with him 🤣🤣🤣

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Hahaha, that's not good partner, I hope you don't get to meet people like that at all 😂😂.

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jaja well I remove myself from them partner, so I don't have to deal with them 🤣🤣🤣

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Yes partner, you should remove yourself from them but don't treat them as bad people though 😂😂.

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That is really awesome how you turned a negative into a positive! ❤️

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