A plot Twist (Ladies of Hive #117 Contest)

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Hello Ladies of Hive, i saw this week’s contest and initially I just wanted to sit back and read the tons of advice and encouragements most of the Ladies have given.

This week's contest topic was given by @kerrislravenhill

1️⃣ Scenario 1: A reputation 52 friend says that she no longer wants to be active in Hive, claiming that she can't make the time, the coin is so low valued, and only a few people ever read her posts. What could you do to encourage and help her to keep trying? Writing tips? Time management? Other?

In this setting i am a receiver of the tons of advice that our ladies have been dishing out because i am a few numbers ahead of reputation 52 so i can relate to what this lady is going through and why she wants to give up.

For starters Hive is broad, learning the ropes can take time and trust me no detailed manual would be able to aptly cover all aspects of Hive, don't get me wrong it can be very useful, but it cannot do complete justice to Hive.

Funny how you think you got it all figured out at the beginning and boom! you are faced with another challenge😄.

I know dearest Lady you get to see many people doing well on Hive and you ask yourself when will your time come, Lol you're not alone on this i ask myself countless times this question but just try not to compare yourself with other Hivers🙂

Then comes the whole getting it right phase, it might be a bit challenging especially if you stumbled on Hive yourself and joined without anyone explaining the bases to you because there are rules on Hive and you MUST OBEY ALL THE RULES.

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Furthermore, let’s not forget about running out of ideas, it’s always fun at the beginning, after your introductory post, you're all giddy and fired up till you start posting and getting low responses and that’s when you tell yourself Hive is not for you, no baby girl, Hive is for you and for everyone. Lol funny how i am also advising myself here😅

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In a nutshell Lady nothing good comes easy and just like the popular saying goes 'Rome was not built in a day', just put it at the back of your mind that you will eventually get there but it’s a gradual process, baby steps my friend, hang in there and you will be just fine🙂

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On behalf of the Upcoming Hivers Association i am sending you lots and lots of hugs to make you feel better and to make you understand that you are not alone in this journey, we all are in this together and it would be sad to see you give up just yet.

P/S: This advice should be referred at as a "Note to Myself"😅
I think i just needed to put my feelings to writing. Thank you @kerrislravenhill for this opportunity.

Loads of Love🥰🥰
XOXO

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Funny how you think you got it all figured out at the beginning and boom! you are faced with another challenge😄.

This screams my name literally 😂. I thought I got everything figured out and....boom😅

I really love this week's prompt because it delves deep into our feelings. It's something that almost every one on hive experiences and that's just amazing.

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It’s just a little reminder that we are not alone on this journey

Thanks for stopping by @wongi 🥰🥰

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It's always a pleasure dear ✨

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I love how you ended it with a note to self😂.We all go through it. It's a really beautiful piece,made me smile alot while reading it. I'm glad there are other people that understand the challenges we go through. Thanks for sharing.

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I am glad that it made you smile 🙃

Hive journey isn’t easy but it’s interesting as you dive deeper into it, once we are done with these hurdles I am sure we’d have a swell time here.

Thanks for stopping by @dianelson

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joining Hive is quiet challenging ate first, but when you managed everything well, the reward is satisfying. Not just the money you can get, but the learnings that you can use forever. So let's not give up because we are all in this together. ❤️🥰

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@ibbtammy Thanks for your post, I'll keep this:

Rome was not built in a day, we are not alone and let's respect the rules. Thank you beautiful for this look.
Receive a hug.🦋
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You’re welcome @mosa71
A step at a time and we’d get there eventually

Thanks for stopping by 🥰🥰

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Looking at your introductory post, you started out with a BANG! Enough to get one's head far up into the clouds and I can imagine how you felt on the second post after. It's like the bottom fell out of your dreams. That happened to me too. And I slogged on with many sub-dollar post since until 2021 when I finally got consistent traction.
You now have the knowledge!

Now, go get em girl.

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