My entry for the Hive Learners contest " W30E1 " | Fear of Losing Parents

Greetings to all of us who have been in this beloved community, today I am back in front of your eyes to share the story of the greatest fear that has ever happened in my life. Before proceeding to the discussion, I would first like to thank the Hive Learners community for giving me the opportunity to enter this contest. As we know this week is the 30th week of the first edition of the contest in this beloved community.

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Talking about fear, actually what is fear, fear is one type that occurs in very large and strong human emotions, of course, fear can sometimes paralyze someone in terms of feelings and physically what happens to our bodies because the feelings that exist in us play a role. it is important to carry on human life but fear can protect everyone from other aspects because if we do not have fear in us of course our lives will not be carried out properly because everyone who does not have fear of course they have no emotions in them That's why they can't live a good life and understand social interactions and other things.

In conditions of fear that we can feel is a very natural response in our body and it can be said that it is a normal and natural thing to happen because this response can sometimes lead to various changes in a physical and mental both in terms of mild or moderate but there are also This fear is irrational which of course can interfere with happiness, comfort, so that sometimes it has a negative impact on our daily lives and routines. Of course, in this condition, the fear we experience can be a symptom of mental disorders and it can lead to panic attacks or commonly referred to as phobias. .

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If talking about what fears are afraid in me Of course I also have feelings and emotions that make me afraid to the day that makes me always remember what I've experienced and that becomes a major factor in my thoughts and that fear is lost my parents. A few years ago I lost one of my parents, my father at that time made me very depressed and depressed which days I really thought would not go well because this condition made me stressed and kept pensive in which daydreams hoping for something impossible to happen but it's impossible to achieve because the will of fate has already been determined which makes whatever we want to be granted we can't achieve of course at that time making whatever I want to do I don't want to do with it I really feel a biggest loss that became a burdened phenomenon in my mind and the fear continued for several years which certainly had an effect on my body.

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But after everything happened so that I could let go of everything by letting go and letting go of whatever had happened to me and until the days I was always motivated by my mother who made my mind rise and continue to let go to think positive things where I have to give up What should I do? I let it go that way I can continue my life well even though at first it was very difficult because as we know I am sure everyone has experienced and that fear must exist but if we can face a fear then we can live a life which is a new one where love and affection will exist at a certain time and sometimes a period of love from our parents we must let go willingly and sincerely so that everything can be achieved with our goals because if we continue to hope for something that is not certain it will become a unsolved mystery.

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Alright friends, maybe today that's all I can tell you about the fear that I've experienced in my life, I'm sorry if there are word mistakes in my writing, please understand, because my writing is written in my local language, namely Indonesian with the help of Google. to Translate into English That's all from me until we meet again in the next discussion, of course in this beloved community.

NOTE : I write in Indonesian with the help of Google to translate to English

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