DESIGNING MY BEST LIFE.
How often do we get affected by what others have to say about our personal life?
How often do we let others dictate how life should be for us?
How often do the ideologies of others and society tell us what to do?
How often are we swayed of our best life all because of what others have to say?
How often do we let others think for us?
How often do we compare ourselves to others wishing we could become like them?
How often do we care about what others think and let it hold us back from taking necessary actions?
Everyone will always have an opinion on how to live life, it's a norm as we all have opinions and see from different angles.
Your best life is another person's worst life likewise the opposite.
Different ideologies on what life is all about,
and different ideologies on how to live life.
different opinions on what's right about life.
Sometimes people get affected by this and neglect living life for themselves rather for other people.
Your life is your personal commodity for you alone and that is why we all earn individual differences on what works for us.
Life is a whole lot to everyone and how we get to live our best life shouldn't be dependent on what others think or society but rather on what makes us happy and enjoy living.
It is okay to be advised by others on how to live life but important to only make use of the right one and the best advice for living
Your best life can only be determined by you.
One sweet thing I considered designing life is my happiness.
My happiness is my mental well-being and a type of emotion that keeps me in check with life.
It's a factor that is considered in designing my best life.
You only get to detect your happiness. Creating your happiness without being dependent is one soft way to live rather than having a happiness based on what people think or say just to please others.
My self-love also plays a huge role here in designing my life, it's a birthright I embrace to live life for myself.
I'm still on a journey to living my best life and so far considering my happiness and self-love has been two things that made designing my life easy and living my best life.
The biggest favor we can do to ourselves is not let our beliefs be run down by societal norms and blah blah. We are who we are because we choose to not because society chose for us. Haha!
Exactly that the point.
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Beautifully put @ijohnsen, it is up to us to design our best life xxxx
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These are very thoughtful and reflective questions. It might be that when we are younger, we are easily swayed by what the society or our environment tend to say of this and that. But as we grow and mature, we learn how to think for our own good.