Secrets Of A Successful Marriage

avatar

Are you single, married or about to get married but discouraged with the topmost happening in some marriages? That doesn't mean you won't get married now or in the future.

Screenshot_20220110-053154_1.png

You just have to understand such marriage was the combination of two wrong elements. Such occurrence only takes place when there is incompatibility between both partners.

Everybody on earth has his or her designated partner. You will come across each other as a must but you may not know or identify him or her because you weren't concious. That is where our mistake begins.

Screenshot_20220110-053147_1.png

I am a married man with 3 kids named Focus, Patience and Believe. To the glory of God I find my marriage interesting everyday and I will drop the keys to such marriage for you.

Before I proceed, I will like to define marriage in my own opinion.

Screenshot_20220110-053137_1.png

What is Marriage?

Marriage is the mutual benefits that both male and female has to form a union.

The benefits pushes you to marry each other.

What do I mean by benefits?

The benefits i'm referring to are not physical benefit such as money or love. Love doesn't lead to marriage but marriage leads to love.

When you discover she has something that can help you and she also discovered you have something that can help her , the solution to the help is marriage because you will forever need each other.

Infact anybody that gets married to you with the reason he or she loves you please do no get married to such individual.

A lot of people get married due to the fact that she has big bum, she is beautiful, she can cook or he has money, he is tall, He is the right choice for me.

Let me tell you there are lots of rich men out there who still sleep outside.

There was an incident of a married billionaire who got killed by his girlfriend after a short romance in 2021. I am trying to put this impression in you that don't get married because of money. Get married because there is something present in your partner you will forever need in life.

Secondly, don't get married because of beauty, handsomeness or even love. It all fades away. After marriage (union) comes real love of value. Loves is meant to keep the light of marriage shining.

Love is not sex. Let me give you an instance, I found out that my wife got talent of been a nurse. She studied medicine, and she is very good at it. and I never at first knew she would be my wife.

Not until when I started visiting hospital for medical inspection. And that's story for another day. Everyone got thier.

Let me tell you that there is something your partner carries that you need the most to help foster your marriage, I don't mean how to cook, wash , or make money.

Those are just prerequisites before marriage.

My wife can be funny atimes and I love her because of her in built gift. She can predict something very correct. If there is an action we want to embark on, and her spirit isn't alligned with such she will decline it.

I am very good young prayerful man, and she respects me because God answers my prayer. It doesn't mean her own prayers are not answered as well. But I discovered that she like me to pray for her when ever she is faced with a challenge especially from her family side. I got her more closer to God than before.

After I offer few words of prayer, at that moment everything gets dissolve to peace.
She tries to pray on her own and God also works for her.

Let me tell you as a man if you don't have any inherent nature of your creator your wife will never respect you wether you are rich or not.

She respects you for your ability to control difficult situations she has no idea of solving. You cannot control such situation as a man if you are not close to your creator a man.

Why most marriage fails

Submissiveness
This specifically goes to the women out there. You must be submissive to the man. Submissiveness doesn't mean as a man you should maltreat your wife.

No, submissiveness is mearnt for both partners and not one expecting the other to always be submissive while he is out there doing things above control. Respect each other opinion and suggestion of ideas a good woman can suggest a good idea.

Buy her gift
Women loves to take more than give. Sometimes gift could help solve some issues. Look woman, if you don't like his gift just pretend and accept it.

Incompatibility
Everybody living on this planet earth inform of humans has a spiritual code. If your partner does not have the code compactible with yours, leave it your marriage will definitely crash.

Conclusion

According to Myles Munroe, a successful marriage can be built my tracing back to the beginning male. The beginning male was close to God. As a man if you are not close to God, there is no marriage built on an ordinary foundation, it crashed immediately. Build your marriage on a Godly foundation, encourage your wife also to be God fearing woman because she is that virtuous woman the bible talked about.

For a man
Woo your woman,
commend her for her actions,
make her feel the best woman in world.
Avoid keeping malice.
Protect but don't pet her.

Woman
Women you know one thing a man needs is not love, he can easily get it on the street by another woman. He just need your respect and your value.

You were mearnt to be his helper, ask him for his dreams and goals. Help him to achieve it. A woman is a person that helps. Not control.

When the marriage is moving smoothly, then love is the oil that will lubricate it.

Marriage whereby both partners bare not working isn't really advisable. The man should go and work likewise the woman so that you will have whatbto talk for each day. One talk will lead to another inorder to avoid boring moments.



0
0
0.000
0 comments