Why do all your lovers leave no matter how much you love them?
People tend to think love just happens. It doesn't. We are so wrapped up in our world that we forget the person we want have a world of their own too. What we are supposed to do is to steal them away from their self-centered world to ours. Show them a glimpse of something different, and better than what they already have.
Lots of folks still blamed themselves over failed relationships, which they should, but not so much that they don't take lessons from each one. Instead of always whinnying over how bad your previous lover was, you should look into what made your relationship impossible to work out.
Ladies will always be caught complaining about the guys in their lives. They will get heartbroken over a man who looks for pleasure outside their relationship.
What makes a man cheat?
Well, I have figured out that the man sticks to the woman who gives him peace of mind among all his conquest
Notice that each time Nigerian movies want to portray a cheating partner, the woman in whose arms he falls into, away from his wife is often one who gives him peace of mind.
This woman doesn't nag, she's always ready to satisfy him on the bed, takes care of his meals, looks beautiful at all times for him, sets up an interesting and lively expedition for him.
This woman always seems to have no care in the world except his happiness. In a world where ladies can claim to be busy, this woman only gets busy for him, always, coming up with exciting things for the man.
Whether it's love or not love, the actions an individual expends on your behalf have a way of getting into our hearts and heads more than anything in the world.
So I say love is proven by action. What each gender should do in the lives of their partners or the ones they intend to pin down, is to seek out the things that will be considered as a conquest for them.
The things they will find fascinating. The things that will make them bend to our will. The things that will make them feel truly loved.
It has nothing to do with who loves who more. Don't ever forget that just as everything else in the world, we have to work for love too.
Does this mean both partners are meant to love themselves equally?
In seduction, there is a part that says, "the pursuer is pursued". In this context, the pursuer is the person who started the whole drama.
Let's use my explanation above to nail this, so it will match.
Now, the lady with which the man cheats on his wife is the pursuer.
If she plays her cards well, and the man falls in love with everything she provided, the tables will turn, and the man will begin to want to keep her for himself. He forgets she wasn't his in the first place, he was probably only finding comfort and solace in her bosom to escape his nagging wife.
By the time he realizes this, he would want to keep her using any means possible. This is the part where the pursuer will be pursued.
And it's those scenes you often see the woman get offended, and tell him to divorce his wife. If the flame is strong enough, it happens, the man divorces his wife no matter how difficult it may seem, just to have a glimpse of the world of pleasure the other woman offers.
There is no time to wait for equality in love. Instead what you get is that the person whom you tried to win over will be the one who will be trying to win you over in the long run. The intention is to keep, to own, to chase away the other people who might want to have you.
But how do I get to know all this?
Well, unlike everyone else who is still mourning over their failed relationship....no offense. I have had a failed relationship once, and I vowed that would be the last
When it went sour, I decided to find out what makes men tick, what holds relationships together. I found out a lot when I went digging. So whenever I am seeing a movie or my friend is complaining about his girlfriend or her boyfriend, I match the events with the things I learned. Then I gained a bigger and better perspective into the psychology of love.
Have I tried everything I learned?
Yes. It was so powerful that after we decided to go separate ways(our values in real life didn't align), I decided not to use this power on another human until I am ready for something serious.
This means I watch guys who want love, care, attention, and comfort every day, and I know exactly what to do to feed their ravaging lions. Yet, I hold myself back. The power wielded from knowledge is so strong that I am afraid if I don't have self-control, I may use it in ugly ways(it's my fear of turning bad with this knowledge that is holding me back from executing seduction the second time, after the first trial)
The first trial was very intense, I watched a man become a slave to my tactics, no, that was too powerful. I am holding myself back
What I can do is to share some of it with other people who are ready to go down the hills of love, if they can replicate it, they will have a better relationship.
So, go ahead, spin your relationship around, and be in control of the dynamics.
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Please what is this powerful tool you have? Trying to get it but I didn't understand.
Hahahaha, ask @davidbright, he knows, na him teach me ooo 😶😂
Not me oo... Am still a learner where you are. You are just too good with this.. Twale for you
Hehehehe, why you too dey lie like this nau 🥺🤣🤣
@davidbright @iskafan you people should talk na
@davidbright stop fooling around and talk now ooo 🤧😒😏😂
Nawa oh
@khaleesii,she has a way of making a man stick to her... That's why I call her the seductress. She tried it out on someone and the guy became a slave to her... So I think she is in the right position to tell the powerful secret
Two of you need beat oh
After reading this I am almost scared of you! 😜
Damn, poor guy lolol joking I'm sure you didn't do any harm to him!
People seem to ignore this one...
Please point me to this supreme knowledge of yours 😂😂😂
Hehehehe, please don't be, I am very kind at heart 😂😂
No, please, he is safe wherever he is.
That's the major problem we have with them.
Wait, this is the second time someone is asking this, I thought, I did Justice to it on this post? 🤔🤷
Did I miss something?
Ahaha to be honest the first comment is what gave me inspiration to ask you for the supreme knowledge 🤪 ehehe seems like you know more than the commoners 👀
I'm sure he is ok, I was just messing around :)
It was a very nice read, I'll try to drop by your blog more often!
Oh I see, you are messing with my mind right now 😂😂😂
That's a lie, a lot of people know more than I do. I am just starting out, trying to gain knowledge and understanding, so I can harness it properly to my benefit and that of everyone else.
Hahahaha, it's okay then.
Oh my, I would appreciate that, thanks alot 😘
😂😂😂
Well you definitely know more than me, so if you are just starting to "learn" it's a good time to follow you 😏
Always good to have some insights on how we humans behave in relation to others, especially significant others!
Wish you a great weekend! 🤗
Hahaha, I called you crazy in the morning, and I am doing it again, this evening, "you are crazy" 🤣🤣 ... No offense.
Yeah. Social Intelligence. That's what my favorite author calls it. And I am glad you agree we've got to learn about them .
Do have a lovely weekend too, boss. It was nice speaking with you throughout today 🥰
Ahaha none taken because I indeed am crazy! 🤪 lol
I do lack of it, I may be intelligent but socially dumb 😂😂😂 So yes I could do with some learning ahaha
Thanks 🤗 It was very nice talking with you too!
🙄 Uh well I don't do great around people 😅 especially if I don't know them
🤣🤣🤣 I liked your reaction ahahah 😆
I refuse to say something here.. Hope you are still expecting me in your DM because we have a lot to talk about.. Sometimes I think you are just too knowledgeable for your age...
I told you oooo, I'll match you out of my DM 😂😏
See me see wahala oo 😂😂😂
Let's not even start... I will have to reserve my comment
Haha, please do oooo 😂😂
Not sure which was more entertaining Iska, your post or all your comments down below it hehe. Nice article. I do enjoy reading your blog. I always come away either having learned something or with a big smile on my face for having experienced joy, so thank you 🙂
Hahahaha, I'll take all of the packages 🤣🤣🤣
Oh wow, you just melted my heart with this ❤️❤️. No, thank you for always reading ma'am.🥰🥰
It seems difficult than what you have explained here. There are still some guys who cheat no matter how succumb their women are to them. Many women will submit, obey, act nicely to them but what do they get in return? The man is cheating!
Some men aren't just satisfied until they have tasted what is outside. Though I have heard where people tell me to study my past relationships and apply the lesson I have learnt for the new ones. Perhaps it might work. I am still waiting for that relationship to try it with whether it would work.
@dreemport
I found this post from @dreemport also. I think that it is interesting how you explained why a man will go and cheat to avoid his nagging wife.
I view the reason they do this is to escape responsibility. There is no nagging wife, but there is also no responsibility. A mistress is like a hotel room. You can use it and have no mess to clean up. There are no mortgages at a hotel room, no kids to clean up after or help with, no pets to walk, just fun. That is why they fizzle. It is just surface infatuation, and no depth. At least, that is what I see. It is interesting to read your perspective.
It's interesting to read your perspective too. But I couldn't help thinking about the female in your perspective (the mistress) she doesn't seem to care about the reasons the man has for cheating on his wife with her. She has her intentions, and so, I don't think all the hate in the world will change the fact that she loves the way the man makes her feel, and she is willing to stick around even when she knows he is married.
The thing is, if you are the wife, you may not be able to understand this feeling. You can't simply relate. All you will do is boil with hate and anger.
The beautiful you can do about your marriage is to find ways to save your marriage by winning your husband back. You know we love winning. Envision the proud feeling of getting a prize (your husband) from the hands of another person.