It's All About Positive And Surprises

The Dreemport Challenge in collaboration with Ecency went well and for two weeks, I was able to join. I was surprised upon seeing the Ecency points sent by @Dreemsteem as a reward for participating in the challenjges. It was indeed a two-week full of fun and giving. I met new people and read different stories.

For this week difficult but worthy task, Dreemie collab with @snook and set unlazycontest. It's kind've late doing this task, but I do love the questions so I made this, lol.

Will this make me not lazy after? 🤣

Reintroducing ourselves is quite hard, especially if readers really know about us already. They might find it boring reading the same thing all over again. But this challenge is all about POSITIVE. Do I even have positivity in me? Haha.

Image from Unsplash by Tim Mossholder

The first impression that people say about me is "I look snobby and strict." That's the main reason why I didn't pursue education even though it was one of my dreams when I was a kid because I might just look even stricter when teaching naughty students, lol. But wait, it's not positive, lol.

I'm a person who chooses genuine people to befriend and not just random ones. I only have a few real ones, but they are worth keeping. I may look snobby and strict, but little did you know that I can be bubbly and crazy too like you, haha. And if you bring me to a beautiful place, I can be the happiest 😊, and beautiful smiles would come out genuinely.

Don't mind the eye bags, they are fruits of blogging 🤣

I may be loveless, but my heart is big, not in size, but in giving love. I'm working, not just for myself, but more likely for other people. I don't actually care if I'll be penniless, for as long as my loved ones are safe and not starving, that's for me, a great achievement.

Some things are heavy to bear and oftentimes I get burnt out. Some people would turn me down, and some would stab my back. Challenges are inevitable but one thing is certain, giving up is not my forte. That's probably the most positive trait of mine. I've been through a lot of storms in life, but I'm fully determined to find my way out of them and I don't let the darkness or an antagonist cover my way to my ideal destination.

I guess that's enough about something positive about me 😅.

@Snook gives a set of questions that we need to answer. So even if this is a late entry, I still made this because I like the topic, haha. So pardon me Dreemie for being late.

a. Where are you the happiest?

I mentioned above that I can be the happiest if you bring me to a beautiful place. It can be at the mountain, beach, museum, skyscrapers, or anywhere beautiful. But nothing can be as happiest as being at home. Recently, we had a new family member, my niece from my little sister. I hated this little sister before because of getting pregnant at an early age, but blood is still thicker than water. When they sent me the photo of my new niece, I felt so happy and it seemed like all my worries and hatred were gone. I guess that's a magical effect of babies 😊. So at home, I feel genuinely happy.

b. What positive traits can you bring to a team?

Working in a team is a challenging one because everyone should participate to successfully do the given task. The positive traits that I can contribute to a team are being hardworking, responsible, and compliant. I don't like abandoning tasks and I'm always finding ways to finish them as early as I can, regardless of their difficulty.

I am reliable, that even your secret is safe with me, lol. I can even keep it forever. But the most important trait I guess is being a good listener and follower. What's the point of a team if members aren't listening and following right? There will be no success.

c. What is something positive about you that some might see as negative?

I'm a person who likes to motivate and inspire others through my work. But negative people can't really be eradicated from this world and even if I do good things to them, they'll just call me "showing off, bragging, attention-maker, etc."

Have you ever experienced helping people, but as you turn your back, they just stab you? And if you refuse to help, they will stab you more? Hurting, isn't it? And what's more hurting is, when those who stab you are the people whom you thought are your friends.

I experienced it too in the virtual world. So sometimes, I rather not say anything or give an opinion. I rather not lend a helping hand or do anything. Because even if I don't do wrong, they will always comment negatively about my actions. So I rather stay under the radar and live outside other people's heads.

And being too kind isn't a positive trait. It can be abused or misunderstood, especially by narrow-minded people.

Lastly,

d. What has been/is your favorite positive surprise about Hive?

I never thought Hive is a place full of surprises. One second you are just interacting, the next second you'll receive a message saying that you got a new reward, not just one, but more. Motivating, isn't it? I thought Hive is just one platform, but as I stay longer, there are actually more front-ends that offer more opportunities, fun, and surprises.

And my favorite is the never-ending challenges and you'll definitely be surprised by mind-cracking topics, prompts, questions, and of course, the awesome responses of the writers. There isn't writer's block when you are on Hive. It makes your mind work 24/7. And the best part is when a whale spotted my work or my content is featured in one of the best communities. Even you will certainly be on cloud nine.


That's all for today. And hoping that I could continue this week's challenge until Friday. I should stay positive and believe in myself, haha.

Thanks for reading guys. And see you on Dreemport 😊.



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Maybe your glasses makes people think you're snobby and strict 😆 it's easy for anybody to assume a person that uses glasses is strict, coz they actually look strict! But I know you're not strict but on the other hand you mostly don't give attention to men around you 🤣 I guess that's also why people will think you're a snob

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Haha.. Lol. .i only wear glasses here in HK though..not before

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I know you love traveling, going to museums, mountains, anywhere in the world and one who would see you happy should take you to anyone of them. Giving up isn't my thing either because it means I am not believing in my ability and God.

No matter what you do or didn't do, people would still talk and say all manners of things but should we mind them? Of course not. We should keep doing what our minds leads us to do and ignore whatsoever people say. Being to kind can be abused just as you said but we should keep doing the little we can and placing boundaries and limits too.

Nice knowing more about you again 😎🥰

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It still depends on whom to help... Thanks Princess

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I also feel happy if I able to visit a beautiful place where I can interact with nature.

being too kind isn't a positive trait

I can understand it. Sometimes we try to help others but they think there may be some profit of us because of what we trying to help them. I think it's depends on mentality of people.

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Yeah.. We all have different perceptions

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Indeed, sometimes too much kindness isn't a positive traits.

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Hndi lahat ng oras..haha..sino pa tumutulong, sla pa masama

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It's really so painful when people see your good as bad and your bad as badder but that shouldn't stop us from being who we are because if we stop what we do because of their negative attitudes, they will be winning over us and that's not what we want.

No matter what, good will always overcome evil unless we give up and like you said you are not a quitter, so girl we have to face them head on.

I always enjoy reading from you, I learn something new always.

Indeed hive has so many surprising features especially with the different front-ends available and also getting a whale vote can be super motivating too.

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Of course, just continue doing good and He will do the rest..
Thanks for stopping by

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Ahhhhhh! I think they are deceived by your glasses! You look really...not strict. Such a beautiful smile!
And yes, it does hurt when people decide to hit you when you when you are down, but i guess that is why we should not be like them and instead spread more love. Cheers❣️

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Haha..i look stricter without glasses 🤣

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HEHEHEHE JANIE!!!!!!

snobby and strict made me laugh so hard... because then you have the picture of you with a HUGE JOYFUL SMILE and how could ANYONE think that you are snobby and strict???? Your smile will draw anyone in

and all the traits that you mentioned - hard worker, never giving up , motivating.

yep! I saw all this in just the first week you became a dreemer! hehehehe it was all so very evident!!! :)

it's ok that you are late - you missed the date for the DreemPort deadline - but Snook is still accepting posts for her side all week! so it works out wonderful!!!

hehehe I'm glad that you still joined in!!!!

and THANK YOU for your generosity all the time!!!! and please accept my DREEMIE! HEHEHE

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I so loved your gift 🥰. And thank you. Maybe because I look serious when not smiling..so people always thought I am strict and snobby 🤣

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So sometimes, I rather not say anything or give an opinion. I rather not lend a helping hand or do anything. Because even if I don't do wrong, they will always comment negatively about my actions. So I rather stay under the radar and live outside other people's heads.

Trust your heart when it comes to friends online and off.

Never stop being you. ALL of you. Be proud of who you are and who you want to be.

The hardest life lesson is knowing that for good to get through to you, some bad will come. The bad is there to teach you lessons so you can grow and be ALL of YOU. Then the good will get even better.

No one said being good was easy. It can be lonely, but in the end, it is so worth every minute of it.

Soon you will be surrounded by others that will watch out for you. They do not want to see you hurt. Those friends are out there or even here. Those friends make life worth living. But you can not be afraid to be ALL of you.

If you ever need to talk send me a DM.

Thank you so much for making your post.

HUGS!

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Thank you so much for your concern.. I just get emotional sometimes.. But I always get through it.. I learned a lot of lessons from those people already and just kept the real ones.. They are strangers who came into my life to teach me lessons and learn to identify who is real and who is not, and who is worth keeping.

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Can I mention that you have jolly and funny nature hehe these eye bags look cute just do t get dark circles hehe? Big heart 🥴 so how much capacity does it have can you keep my chocolates in it ( I wanted to hide them from my nephew)

Having a sympathetic and kind nature makes you fall multiple times so it's good to become a bit less caring 😺 wow you enjoy the best time At home too hehe I also prefer the same. Hive rewards remained motivating to you hehe that's why we are encouraged to spread generosity. Showing Love to you as you are already a lovely cutie 😽

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You can be proud on yourself!
Came here through Dreemport.

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I love your Smile. It must be great to enjoy how you do it, from place to place, wearing that refreshing and beautiful smile. There is no time to be negative and this has been a good opportunity to focus on the positive in ourselves. Excellent traveler and dreamer friend. Greetings.

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