It was worth it || [WE: 124]
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Have You Ever...
Write at least 350 words answering one (or more) of the following questions.
Have you ever allowed hatred to cloud your judgment?
It was worth it
Getting into character (Myself) in order to answer this question, it is worth it to assume my discomfort of the memorable moment and answer as I feel when the "circumstantial hate" comes easily without so much effort. As always Mr. Galen, in the best formula 1 style, this proposal has rum rum rum engines running ....
To the bloodsuckers who love to steal people's peace for anything with these kid gloves to my measure, I dedicate these post-made letters from my muses and my creativity without being rude or disrespectful to anyone. Let it fall to whoever feels alluded and interprets according to his feeling and thinking in his reality.
I really do not know what to tell you because I am not sure how it was born; this has been awakened with the passage of time (I hate to be underestimated or to be treated as if I were mentally disabled with severe cognitive dissonance) especially when I perceive that something is not right in my environment by some action against my person somehow in my mind I receive information.
There is no reversal
That information many times has left me surprised, I have qualified it as something "instinctive" rather than as "extrasensory" perception, because to say something or to do harm does not need as much courage as to do it effectively and although the words have the power of the poisoned dart is the action that defines all my actions before this energy called HATE that animosity, resentment, resentment, resentment that never transforms, nor transcends, you just have to learn to dose it, to live with it and face it in perfect balance so as not to hurt myself.
I remind you that you only live one day at a time, and it is during that day and that is the point... to know how to discern and to know wisely what to do or not to do. Why? Because I am what I do, and pretending I am not a coward, or antifragile so as not to make others uncomfortable.
The unknown may be a fear factor
I remember a situation where publicly on a social network someone mentioned me with my name and surname trying to mock and ridicule me just to have the approval of the masses who followed that account, this person X product of his own emotional deficiencies felt a lot of anger, enmity towards me typing in every word all his venom and antipathy towards me.
However, for me, everything has a limit and although at that moment I felt discomfort with what I was reading as the chat went on, my mood went through all the colors of the rainbow especially red, blue, purple, and black, fortunately, that elf with which I play daily and that inhabits me "EGO" told me "more problems have those who laughed supporting the mockery".
Choose where your energy goes...
I know that in uncomfortable moments and more like that I do not know what to do, but I also believe that many times to solve the situation with rude words and phrases that hit to say enough here, is the duty to be so that they do not apply it to me again.... that is what I did.
We live in a daily tragicomedy where the clowns are the leaders and respect together with education is not worth it when it really is what defines you as a person in this society. Enough of this bullshit, because everything has limits.
To win the battle when I go through a difficult moment like this story that I refer to I put on my best face ... I dress in the armor of the warrior woman and continue without lowering my guard to infinity and beyond with my boots on ...the rest that does not contribute to me believe that I do not care!
How do you deal with the spiteful people around you?
I'll read you in the comments.
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The truth is that it is not worth it, to foolish words deaf ears says the saying.
It is better to ignore these people, to play along with them is the worst thing we can do.
What I am, when someone wants to do something similar to me, I answer him at once, so as not to let him do it again.
Clear accounts preserve friendships, that's my motto.Truth be told, without hurting others.
Greetings friend @janitzearratia, have a happy weekend.
Thanks, @mayvileros is an honor for me to be in your community
The way it is, Leidi, is that when people are poisoned with their own sting, the best thing to do is to let them know in their own style how unbalanced they may be.
The emotional, psychological, and social well-being that directly influences the way we think, feel and act, is what allows us to manage stress in the face of these external stressors, the bloodsuckers properly to have good interpersonal relationships and make decisions without procrastination or hesitation for fear of attack from these people.
There's a lot of fabric to be cut here.
Gratitude dear friend for walking beside me @leidimarc ❤️
Whooo... these are powerful words you have thrown at me.
I used to be a person that often got easily irritated and that always resulted in anger. I still get easily irritated, and I think it is basically because I am a person keen to details and nuaces in doing anything at all. So, I get upset when things do not go as they should.
But overtime, somehow, I have learned that anger, or should I say responding in anger, often produces the least optimal results. And since I am a person keen on good results, I wouldn't want to contradict myself and produce bad results.
What I do now is remember that I will always think much better and behave much better amidst my anger if I choose to cool off before responding first.
I will behave much better in the midst of my anger if I choose to calm down before responding first.
Our human nature is one of the nuances and emotional colors in the face of situations that bring us joy, but also in the face of moments that adversely affect us and take us out of control.
What is important and to put into practice as far as possible
It is always best in the midst of a moment of rage, anger, and hatred, to distinguish the interpretation of what you perceive from the real situation, so you avoid hurting yourself... you are the most important person and your mental and emotional health is worth it for your best well-being.