Make Every Scars Count. 🤕
Are you one of those who meets accident on regular basis like it's the normal way of living?
I AM! haha
In Divergent factions, I think I'll belong to the dauntless. I'm naturally a kind who does things as soon as I think of it. It just later on that I started to think a lot before starting anything.
And so, being risk taker or simply reckless living left me lots of scars. May it be crossing a rotten bamboo bridge or driving my motorbike, every move I use to make left me wounded or close-wounded.haha
And that one is open yucky wound. That's from my motorbike accident. I wasn't able to walk with ease for a month. It takes so long to heal since I haven't stopped working and moving around. Haha
Skin-deep scars are just easy to overcome, as for me, they're tolerable enough and I don't really mind it. Even the wound hurts a lot, I could still just bear it normally. My tolerance with pain is quite high and maybe because I was overdosed by watching action-packed movies or series. Haha (Blacklist. Harthart)
In this kind of smile, you know the wound ain't skin-deep, it's the issues of the heart haha
I WON'T WASTE MY SCARS.
May it be seen or not, scars I gained in almost 29years of existence, I will make it all count.
This is a short childhood story.
I was barely 4 years old, and it was nighttime. We didn't have electricity way back at my grandparents' place. We have kerosene lamp.
I find the fire captivating and thus, I keep trying to touch it. My Dad saw me and warned me. I am as stubborn now as I used to so of course, I didn't listen.
You know what my Dad did?
He intentionally burned my finger in that kerosene fire. Since then, I don't play with it.
😔How I wish humans are like that, when being bruised, burned or beaten; will learn not to do it again. And yes, that's how I literally think now. I shouldn't repeat the same mistakes and also, must heed to warnings.
How to make my scars count?👇
(1) I won't drive recklessly now, especially lots of dogs on national highway and reckless drivers too. (2) I will think; I contemplate a lot now before taking challenges.
(3) I won't let my heart be swayed
by sweet talks/smooth talks to avoid heartbreaks, and (4) I will keep thinking how things will be in the long run- absolutely NO to temporary happiness that could cost me painful consequences.
We should use our brains, right?
If we can't mental calculate (I'm bad at it haha), at least we'll use our brains to store lessons to learn from our scars and heartbreaks.🙈
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Ciao!
(All photos are mine 😀)
Scars can have negative impact on our lives but they also lead us to opportunities to learn, grow and become better.
But sometimes, mindset could make us wallow in self-pity that would be very dangerous.
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Scars are part of our life experience. They do not necessarily look good and I would prefer not to have any, if possible. However, I'm not scared of getting them and I'm not ashamed of the ones I already have, both the internal and the external scares.
I believe there are lessons to learn from those scars. And, I'm glad you learned from yours too.
The goal is, to make others think likewise🤭
Just like you, I've had scars caused by carelessness. And till date, they have taught me great lessons which I can't forget in a hurry.
That's great to know.☺️ May we continue to learn.
Scars bring a different level of maturity to us over time. I had quite a lot of scars when I was younger too. Now, I'm more careful and contemplative in everything I do. I somehow miss those reckless days because I was freer back then. But I made sure almost every lesson from the scars I had are learned well.
Cheers to us who learned from our mistakes and recklessness. The past though, is nice to look back since we've experience such rarity.😊
Lol, indeed. It's nice to look back at our experiences and realise how far we've changed.
Some scars are internal and are the most dangerous scar because they may take centuries to heal.
The physical scars can get healed but the memories they leave determine how we will live our lives.
#dreemerforlife.
If we don't get scars we may quickly forget the experience we had. Risk taking is good but not just any kind of risk, there are risks that are not worth taking at all. Glad you learnt from your experiences and you are becoming better each day from the previous one.
#dreemerforlife
Learning from experience is the best way to learn in my opinion. And if we are able to take those lessons and that pain and channel it to positivity, our lives are easier.
#Dreemerforlife
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Scares are beautiful! No matter how it came about it keeps the memory of the situation that came about the scare intact. Do not trade your happiness for a temporary one, always be happy, love yourself more.
#dreemerforlife #dreemport
This was a bit hilarious to read but interesting too. It reminds me of the time when I was younger and I always always had wounds. If I ever showed it to my parents, they would give me a good ass whooping and this some how prevented me from getting to many wounds.😅
Came in through #dreemport #dreemerforlife
Hahaha that is what absolutely funny with parents, when you got hurt, they'll hurt you more because you allowed yourself to be hurt. Uh oh. Haha if you're crying, they'll spank you more because of your cries hahahaha
Exactly exactly 😅. Guess it was their way of training us.