The goals for 2022 LOH - #63

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The new year is already at the door and thinking about the goals for the New Year is surely something that would be on the mind of everyone at this time.

The goals for the New Year are one thing that has been on my mind even before the end of the year approached. There is a saying that "life itself is a challenge" so there will be challenges on the way to achieving these goals that's for sure but the will to overcome them and still stand strong with the determination to keep going no matter what happens is what matters most.

This is my entry to the ladies of hive contest and I shall be answering the first question. I invite @ayesha-malik @cescajove to join the contest.

In certain areas of my life, there are things I'm looking to achieve through the help of God and continuous deliberate efforts from my end.

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Personal Goals

  • ...I remember back then, I and my siblings would sit with our mom having a nice family time while discussing life generally. There was something she would always mention whenever we were discussing which was "what you don't know will always be greater than you".
    That word has never left my heart and that's the reason why I feel it's important to learn as many new things as possible. Learning generally helps us to succeed in life. In addition to learning more, I will be a great listener.

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  • Being a great listener doesn't only help us to learn well, there are other advantages attached to it and one is the aspect of one's relationship. It's easier for a good listener to understand things and communicate effectively. If you see couples who have good listening skills, then you've seen a great relationship. That's one thing I will be working on for the New year, being a great listener.

  • I became depressed at some point in my life because I couldn't let go of the past and that was because I was deeply hurt. These things are bound to happen, it's part of life. We get hurt but find it hard to let it go. I've realized that it only steals my peace and happiness away. I would be doing more harm to myself than good if I allow past hurtful events to get the best of me, so come 2022, that would be happening no more. I won't let the past keep me from focusing on the present nor will I let it make me miss great opportunities.


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  • There are times when I'm able to create something on my own that is different from what I've seen others do, it makes me feel satisfied, accomplished, and fulfilled with myself. We are about to enter a new year so I hope to fully connect to the creative part of me and be able to do a lot of wonderful unique things even here on hive too.

  • Early this year, I got a fitness app and was guided on how to follow up with it. At first, I love it because was seeing the result but I suddenly stopped because it wasn't so easy. I've made up my mind to start again next year and I hope that I don't give up again like I did this year. Keeping fit and healthy is my number one goal, good health, and mind
    makes a good life so I won't joke with that.


  • I don't know if it's normal, but I've noticed that I get along with people online more than offline, I'm not sure why. So for the new year, I plan to get along well with people offline.
    My business is the kind of business that needs me to be very Social with people and it's quite challenging because I've never been much of a social person in my daily life. However, that needs to change this new year. I plan to be more Social and to get along with people well. It is very important for me and my business.


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  • Another very important goal is to be able to make the right decision at the right time, it's important for the family's growth.

  • I must be sincere with myself, I know there are lots of times where I didn't put family first because I thought that the other things needed my attention more, it never turned out well. No matter what anything is, come 2022, the family will always come first.

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  • Even though I've never been that type that has any circle of friends, it hasn't changed the fact that good friends are an important part of life. I will try to have a small circle of trusted friends that are wise and reliable. Friends I can share a meaningful idea with, friends that will be supportive and would help me grow positively. I should be useful to my friends and they should too. Those are the type of friends I look forward to having in my circle.
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The list is almost endless but I have to stop here for now. I already have the feeling that 2022 will be a great year. I may not be where my mates are now but I feel so happy, complete, and blessed because the way I ended last year Is completely different from the way I'm ending this year. Several events have been happening since I approached the end of the year which have been wonderful things and it makes me feel so happy.

Life will keep coming with its challenges, however, I won't let it break me. I will keep making an effort to be successful in every area of my life.

Thanks for visiting my blog.

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I wish you all the best with your goals @jessicaossom
I feel that 2022 is going to be a great year indeed
There is sort of a lightness and hope in the air for better times :D

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I feel that 2022 is going to be a great year indeed
There is sort of a lightness and hope in the air for better times

That's exactly how I feel too.

I wish you all the best with your goals

Thank you so much ma'am

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I like all your goals, especially your focus and concern for family. I hope you achieve all the goals you have set. Thanks for your sharing

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Amen!
Thank you so much, I appreciate it 😇
It's my pleasure sharing🙂

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Great plans, Jessica.

Being a great listener

I love this point as I'm learning to be a good listener. Some people have the natural ability to be amazing listeners, while others have to work hard at it. I've heard that there are simple ways to become a better listener without too much effort; all it takes is practice, attitude, and patience.

I hope you will achieve your goals. Thanks for the entry and wish you a Happy New Year :)

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practice, attitude, and patience.

Thank you for this.
Practice attitude and patience and it all starts with from the mind.
Once I can see myself being a good listener in my mind and I put it to practice in reality, I'm surely going to achieve the goal.
Thanks, sis.

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You are making great content! I appreciate well written and structured posts like the one you created here! I really enjoyed this part of your post!

Being a great listener doesn't only help us to learn well, there are other advantages attached to it and one is the aspect of one's relationship. It's easier for a good listener to understand things and communicate effectively.

Have a happy new year!

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Thanks for sharing on PYPT!

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Every one of these sources is trying to download on my computer, Jessica.
We need to work this out for you, it should not be trying to download on anyone's computer.

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Really🤔
Trying to download it?
I copied the image from the free site and just pasted it on peakd editor, then at the end of the post, I did the sourcing.

However,
Why is that happening?
I followed the instructions you gave on the other post.
I'm not using a computer, I'm using my phone and that's why I'm not sure why that is still happening.

...to think that. I was very already happy after creating the post, thinking I did it right this time 🤦‍♀️

Okay, what did I miss?

How do I fix it?
Remember I'm working with my phone.



Okay wait! I just ready your comment again.

Every one of these sources is trying to download on my computer, Jessica.

Why is that happening?
How do I fix it?


Oh! I get what you're saying now, I just checked.
Oh no!
Other post I've created and has an image must be having this problem too with the source.🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Hold on, I think I've found a way to fix it.

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The addresses are all wrong for one thing, they are going to the .jpeg image,and it should actually have a legitimate URL address.

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Can you please help metry confirm from your end that the links are properly sourced?
@jamerussell

Thank you, I appreciate your help.
I should go check my other post. It's definitely going to have the same issue.

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Let's check them here first to make sure you have them right
Jessica, you have a Discord account, yes?

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Dang girl, you got them all right!!!!!
Congratulations!!!
Now you know how to do that correctly, and do you remember about me telling you you could put the author's name in the brackets where it says "Source?"
That's all there is to it, just remove the word source, and you could put the photographer's name there if you wish, it's up to you.
But right now I'm jumping up and down because you got it!!!

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Yay!!!!!💃💃💃

I won't make that mistake again, ever,
So I won't have to continue correcting the image source on each post.

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Yes, the same name

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From now on do not be afraid to DM or ask in Dreemport, I think you are in there with Dreem, also we have the Terminal if you would like an invite there, please let me know. I am also familiar with both @ayesha-malik and @cescajove, and I think they know who I am.

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Okay, thanks.
I send you a dm on discord so I can get the link.
Thanks again.

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Hehe we are all are dreemy 🙈❣
And i am gald glad some good people already know me 🥰

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We know you too! It's such a pleasure to meet you Sir Russell 🙂..... Jessica you are also welcomed 🤠

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Success comes with a lot of demand and sacrifice. It's like everyone goes through depression at some point in their life, your response in that mental state is what matters. I'm glad you're all better.

Why not just Register in a gym? That'll motivate you more because working out alone can be...not so fun.

Friends are good. But i also have friends offline. Physically i have a circle of about just four people. That's more than enough for me. Don't sweat it. But i do hope you find real friends who share your joy and laughter

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