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Hello good day friends, today I will talking on how to be more effective as a parent. Sometimes there are no special formula to be good parents but we all know what is bad from what is right and we should always do what is right so that our kids can walk in that part. Parents who have bad behavior should not expect good children because they are watching.kids learn too fast from what they see. My parents tired their best for us when we were kids but sometimes they go too hard but we are reaping the fruits now.

Work on your children confidence

It's a very good thing to work on the children confidence and this will definitely make them to be a better person and they see themselves as someone who will make it in future. It's important for the parents to be watchful of how they talk and do their things. And every words that comes that out the parents are being picked by the children. Every behavior of Parents is important because this influence their confidence.

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It's good to praise children and let know when they are at their best. will cause them to feel glad; allowing children to do things freely will cause them to feel competent and solid. On the other hand, disparaging remarks or contrasting a kid ominously and another will cause children to feel useless.

I always say that parents should abstain from saying words that would look exactly like weapons which could make the children to misbehave. Some parents make remarks such as "you are such an idiot" "you are a fool" all these words are bad and should not be said where kids are present. Sometimes when a mistake happens, such a parent should admit and tell the kids I have made this error and that's why I am human. We shouldn't feed our kids with foul words no matter what. Show them love always and always protect them.

Know your Children and be close to them

It's quite important to discover the children and know them and know that they can do and what they can't? Have you at any point halted to ponder how often you respond contrarily to your children in a given day? You might wind up condemning undeniably more frequently than praising. How might you feel about a manager who treated you with that much bad direction, regardless of whether it was benevolent?

The more successful methodology is to find kids accomplishing something right: "You made your bed without being asked — that is awesome!" or "I was watching you play with your sister and you were exceptionally understanding." These assertions will do more to support appropriate conduct as time goes on than rehashed scoldings.

I can boldy say that it's good to praise kids who are doing just right and this will definitely motivate them and make them a better person, any kid who is doing wrong should be told and this will make them correct their paths.

Always make sure you draw boundaries and discipline the children as appropriate

It's good to always discipline our kids and make them know that what they have is bad and I must say that when I was growing up, my daddy always discipline us and make sure we do the right thing. Sometimes we felt that what's he was doing was too much because we were very stubborn but now, I always miss him because he is no more but his Disciplined lifestyle had helped us and shaped us to what we are now.

It's in the best interest of the kids because this will shape them to be a better person. My dad will always tell us not to watch television without completing our home work. And we always go to farm during weekends not because we do no have money to buy foodstuff but he wanted us to learn and be independent and be a man. My mum will never allow us to utter foul words to one another, anyone who tries it will definitely be dealth with.

Always create time for your children and stay at home

most times it's very hard for parents and guardians not to have proper time for their children and I must say this is a bad thing to do. Parents should always find a way to make their kids happy and sit with them. It's not good to work all day and not creat time for kids. I have seen parents who come home very late around 11pm and leave as early as 5am. My parents are both teachers and they return home early and most times my dad read with us and there is no day without us reading our books and my dad even ask questions. My mum makes sure we eat early and everyone return to reading room. I sincerely miss my daddy and he is the best. It's a good one to make your kids happy, go to church, cinema and have fun together as a family. My parents makes sure we eat out once in a while to just have a nice time.

Be a Good example for your children

I always say that parents should a good example to their children and this is important because kids learn faster with what they see and they learn very fast. Small children gain proficiency with a ton concerning the proper behavior by watching their folks. The more youthful they are, the more prompts they take from you. Before you erupt or go crazy before your youngster, contemplate this: Is that how you need your kid to act when furious? Know that you're continually being watched by your children. Studies have shown that youngsters who hit ordinarily play a part model for hostility at home. It's important to know and draw out and know what exactly parents want from their kids, parents who fight everyday shouldn't expect much from their kids because they will walk in that paths. Parents who pray and walk in a Godly way will definitely breed good kids who are holy and will walk in God's path. My parents really tried their best and I am happy for what we are and what are are presently.

I believe parents should no be stiff and be ready to change lifestyles

Dear friends, I must say that nowadays, parents should not be so stiff and be rigid in their decision making for their children and the kids should not be forced at all. It's important to note that kids are of different intellectual level and IQ too and methods could vary in handling them. Some parents will force their wards to like food and lifestyle just because other kids like it. It shouldn't not be so. Everyone with his own life and Destiny. When kids play too much, they can be cautioned so that they don't injure themselves. When I was growing up I so much love Arts, I started drawing from primary school but my dad believed I was too brilliant to start drawing and didn't believe I could make a career from that and I was discouraged totally from that line. I wanted to study Fine and applied arts in Oau, Ile ife but my dad told me I can always learn more about arts from artist in town and not waste a whole 4 years studying Arts. Although I studied another Course but that would have been a dream come true for me. Some of our parents don't want to change from their olden days narratives but it's good to know that the world is revolving and children now make use of new and modern media to read and write and they should follow trend.

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