Non-monetary & Valuable Relationship:Is Money Your end-game?

Non-monetary relationships are one of many secrets to long-lasting success. This kind of relationships are not built for the end goal, else they'll have extrinsic features that would sway or determine the motive of the people going into these type of relationship. This isn't to say non-monetary relationships aren't beneficial. In fact, the aim of non-monetary relationships is to attain success beyond monetary value.

While money is really important in life, people are the one that gives it direction and essence. The human psychological anatomy is essential. To understand the relationship that people have with money, we have to understand their background, their capabilities, their frailties and strength and most importantly, their mindset. In business, people are the main value and not the business in itself.

One of the reason why entrepreneurs and joint business fails is not having the right disposition to keep it running. A person might be long-termed, while their partner is short-termed and after the gains alone. This might stem from their psychological background, but the fact that they're not aligned, even if the external factors are right, the disposition of these two people wouldn't define the essence of the business really well. This is how it is in real life.

Not a lot of people can keep relationships unless its only beneficial to them monetarily. They equate success with money, making it difficult for them to see whatever value that's given to them. A relationship might be non-monetary, but might be beneficial in ways that would indirectly bring monetary returns.

Creative people are often the greatest beneficiaries of non-monetary relationships. This is because they can primarily see worth in what is worthless, but can be worthwhile when it is worked on. This means that while others might see an end-game, they are seeing multiple opportunities. They're broad-minded, taking advantage of a single stream and letting it develop into multiple streams. Most of my friends are business oriented people and while they've never given me a dime nor I to them.

I would have probably not gotten to anywhere in life without them. You see, they're more like living equities, like properties that cannot earn me wealth, but I'm constantly tapping from their wealth of experience, to individual grow value on my own and vice versa too. There's this guy I've been friends with for 8 years now, I got my last and most lucrative teaching gig because be pushed the buttons, although he never physically gave me money, he only created an opportunity for me to unlock advancing teaching as a prospective money making venture. I on the other hand got him so many micro gigs online and introduced him to crypto.

No one is equipped with every knowledge and experience, sometimes the best lessons we learn are the ones we actually never earned anything from. Take for example, on hive, some people aren't building relationships beyond the value or the purpose of the upvotes. They see others as a means to achieve their ultimate purpose. Every of their creative concept, is tied to monetary value, making it difficult to externally access the worth of the people around them to create something that would last long.

It's important to see money as the target, but when the drive is only motivate by money, you earn only money and nothing beyond that. I can categorically say that most of what I am, is created by the people around me. The best way to thrive is to understand that money is just a tool, when you follow people without this tool as your base intention, you tend to achieve more.

Keeping one's cycle small is very essential. This is because we need to categorize people into different compartments in order to avoid wastefulness. The truth is, many are driven by the malady of achieving all their goals, their needs and wants including their cravings, it makes it difficult for them to work on themselves for others to see a value they're attracted to. Money it itself isn't a value, it is the end product of a value. This is to say that value is a raw material, the money gotten from the advents of a value is the finished product.

A lot of people are attracted to money as a finished product of hard work, meanwhile they themselves do not represent any value that should make them proportionally desirable. For Non-monetary relationship to be productive, there's must be a sort of symbiotic occurrence, making each one simultaneously tap value from themselves. One of the worst things in life is not having money, it's having no value which can be beneficial to another person.

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