What can we do differently so that people can understand us better? (QOTW)

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Many at times i feel confusion is something that's shilled, hawked and accepted amongst many people, in many different societies of the world. Most times people talk without first thinking then they start to reason, to think when the repercussions of what they've said begins to set in. When initially they could have just looked within, weighed the things they say; understand the impact it'll make before making the decisions to actually saying it. You see, emotions makes people talk and sometimes people listen to their selfish anger which sometimes feels largely inconsiderate and they talk without putting the recipient of the things they'll say in their own shoes. Basically no everyone wants what they do to be done to them because if this was so, the world will of course be a better place.

Truth is, confusion is the opposite of clarity or understanding and currently now the world lacks clarity and this is essentially one thing we as people can do differently. There's too much fakeness in the world. People dressing misleadingingly in other to create unwarranted feelings in obviously the wrong people. We see people who are internet billionaires but they can barely afford to eat in real life. The internet... centralised social media have particularly promoted this fakeness to a global level. People now dress to kill or create an impression rather than dress to be clothed or be comfortable. Meanwhile the impression they're trying to sell is majorly not who they are by any means.

So What can we do differently so that people can understand us better?

I think we're the architect of our confusion. When there's too many false mentality, wrong mindset, uneducated and unhealthy thoughts and feelings people fall astray leading themselves into a dark path of blindness. A rabbit hole without any means of escape. In life I believe being straightforward, allowing our actions and words become a representation of what we truly embody this way, people will never mislead other and there's going to be a certain spiral reflection of originality. People can obtain clarity when they correctly see something and react based on what they see and perceive rather than reacting on the fake indulgences which of course brings confusion and we're back to square one.

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Most times we need to individually check our actions; is it generally misleading people who these actions prompts a reaction from? For example there was this person I know always coming to visit me, she made it a point of contact to always sexually arouse me. She consistently did this for a long time and I began to cave in to her sexual advances. This is because I was human It got too intense and I couldn't hold it anymore. I've told myself consistently that she was confused, maybe heartbroken and that's why she was doing this. I obviously felt she should know that sheet been particularly conveying a message using her body but then she kept doing this. Emotions kicked in one day and I reacted to my impulse and of course it turned out that she actually wasn't conveying a need to have sex with me.

Her bodily reactions and moves tortured me for weeks and it turned out she was only trying to see how sexually resistant I could be to her. She actually played games with me while of course passing a misleading message. I found this to be totally insane. She used me for her selfish experiments and she didn't consider how the effect of her actions could have psychologically drained me. Truth is, clarity is the neediest things we need to do for people to understand us better. We need to convey a particular truth. We need to make our mind transparent since humans aren't blessed with the capacity to read minds. It's imperative for us, individually to understand that when we kill clarity and sell confusion we're damning humanity to blindness and perplexity. We need to convey the right message with the things we say, we have to be plain as a book and not contorted as a twig because then it'll make others, people understand us better.

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My name is @Josediccus, a young Nigerian student who is a Vlogger, A Psychologist, Poet And Sports Writer/Analyst. I'm using my contents as a process to create shared meaning as well as create expressions through which people on/off hive can relate. I believe content is a process to be enjoyed and relished and I'm up for any collaborations in my field stated above. Cheers

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