The gist

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Well it's definitely going to be one problem or the other if as a girl you chose to neglect some red flags in any relationship,no matter how the love or bound is driving you insane..

So today i was talking about hanging out with a friend of mine..
And it's been long we saw each other.
I was supposed to go out to meet her but unfortunately she came around to see me herself,
Indeed i was somehow happy because i kind of had second thoughts about going out to visit her especially when my own house was very far from hers,
We both have been friends since child hood and it made us to be close ,even though school was part of the reason we no longer hang out like before ,because we both are in different schools.
Well at the end of the day we finally got to meet and gist about old times ,and then she told me about one of her experiences with another of our childhood friend ,
The guy is no longer in the country but before he left,he was dating her for 3years ,
Everything was perfect and ok until he was told that he will be travelling out ,
Like i have always known the guy to be a very unserious person ,like according to her,while they were dating he hardly call or text ,
Like he normally just feel she should be ok without hearing from him even if it takes him 1week before he will call her back,

She said it was her major turn off and it seems like he doesn't really listen or try to change,she said he was all good and nice but the issues were the calling part like he can ignore her for 1week and then chose 2weeks to come take her out and and when he wants to call it might take him 5hours just taking to her on the phone..
It was part of the reason she gave herself hope that he might change and so she endured his lack of communication since she can be doing the calling on behalf of both of them almost everyday ..

Anyways her issues came up when he finally got set to travel out of the country and even on the day he was supposed to leave he never bothered to call her ,
She got to know about it from his mum ..
And the painful part was that 4months after he settled there for his school he called her and added her on whatsapp.
That was the only thing he did and for 2years he never bothered to chat or reply her messages ,
He only reply when he likes and anytime he choses too..
/No calls,
No text,
No nothing/,
Just some 3weeks reply he gives her once a while ,and still he gets to post every day on his whatsapp status Wishing other people birthday,but on her own birthday he Will wish her privately and tell his sister's to buy cake for her and wont even bother to post her pictures or even call atleast..
Well she got fed up after 2years and stopped texting him ,and he even didn't bother because he too just ghosted her not even bothering to message her either, everyday she watch his posts and other things..

/Well i told her the red flag have always been there but she chose to ignore it ,
Little things matters alot especially in relationship,if you dont fix it on time you will end up being taken for granted by most guys/.