WHAT I WOULDN'T DO AS A FATHER

There are certain things I will never allow my kids to do or experience in life, not because I have been through those things but I have seen people who have gone through these things and the effects it has on them.

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This things include; allowing my child to hawk on the street, send my child to a government school and even quarrel or fight in the presence of my children. I will shade more light on this few point and more.
To start with I will never allow my child to hawk on the streets because it is very dangerous and it doesn't speak well of me as a father and it is also a sign that have failed in my role of been a father and am not fit or qualified to be a father, no responsible parent will send their child or children to the street to hawk in so doing I believe the parents are indirectly telling the children to start providing for themselves. It understanding that sometimes things may be hard and rough for some person's expecially single parents and that is why I have promised myself not to make the mistake of having a child when I'm not read of been a father.
The second thing is allowing my child to go to a government primary or secondary school, I understand that the education there is free while private school you don't only have to pay but the fees are also expensive, but this shouldn't be an excuse not to give you children the education they deserve. Private school are expensive but it also give proper education as they also employe qualified teachers and the learning environment is very condusive for children, I mean imagine a child learning in a well ventilated classroom with fans and even air conditioner, the child will definitely understand what he or she is been taught unlike government schools where there are over 100 children in a classroom, it is quite obvious that the child will be distracted by many things such as heat,odours and definitely distraction from classmate and to add it all most teacher won't stress them selves much in teaching because the children are much for them to handle they will just do what they feel is their best and leave, which is very bad.
This takes me to the third aspect of it,fighting in the presence of my children, I so much detest this part because it doesn't tell any thing positive about you as a parent, don't forget we are the first teachers to our children so fighting or quarreling in front of your children I believe it simply means you are telling them that it is ok to fight either you spouse or anyone that crosses there part and this can actually lead to tuggry or waywardness in a child and no parent will want there child to act in such manner.

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All this things has negative effect on children,this effect may include tuggry, street fighting,stealing, prostitution expecially from the part of hawking, depriving your children of proper education will definitely extend the hight of illiteracy in our society.
When I become a father I wouldn't want my children to be involved in any of this in other to secure a clean and bright future for them ahead

What do you thing about this kindly share your thoughts and opinions in the comments section, am also open for correction