A Season, Characterised by Love.

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It is not uncommon to come across folks who are not used to being comforted by anyone. They deal with their pain alone and contend with whatever difficulty life throws on their path, without opening up to those around them. They only show a bright face to make people think that life is fair to them... A facade.

People like these are the ones that this season is all about. These are people that need all the love they can get. They need someone in their life... Someone very special. They need someone they can talk to intimately and bare out their heart.

Love comes in various forms... I know that much. I've been lucky in the forefront of love and it's been a pleasure to build an adorable relationship with a very lovely lady who I respect and adore. She makes me want to talk very intimately and get comforted when I'm contending with life. She does a good job of filling my heart with words of appreciation and encouragement.

Do you know? Being surrounded by people that love you has its way of making mundane things to have a more heightened impact. Mundane things such as hearing encouraging words from someone or people you hold in high regard can serve as an inspiration for you to continue giving your best.

As far as I can tell, being around someone or people you love would easily make even the strongest man or woman want to loosen up and show his or her vulnerability. I've tried that and I just can't get used to it because it's scary for someone like myself that is always used to doing things my way. But, I enjoy that mundane feeling of having someone listen to me and I enjoy opening up my heart. In this same manner, it's also a pleasure to share good times with someone I'm in love with.

As you already know, we are now in the spirit of Valentine's. Do you even know how easy it is to provide love?

It doesn't take much... You just have to be careful and wise enough to give credit where credit is due. Genuinely rejoice with someone you love when he or she is rejoicing and learn to genuinely empathize with someone you love when he or she is going through a rough patch.

From all indications, when two people are in love, what they are fundamentally doing is saying, "I am giving you my heart. Guard it jealously and handle it with care as we take steps towards building this relationship".

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We all have different stories to tell about our experiences with love. Sadly, some people have no fond memories of their love life. They either got involved with a partner that was not ready to nurture the relationship or they messed things up and got dumped. As I delved into conscious research about why people's love life ended with heartbreak, it became obvious that there is no shortage of reasons for break-ups between those in love.

This season of love is a season I'm using to look into this and try to decipher the proper solution to heartbreaks between lovers. I know for a fact that once we all get our act together, it will be better for us, our families and our loved ones. I will be delighted to share more of my findings with you all when my thoughts are more articulated.

For now, do your best to have fun and enjoy this season of love with someone (people) you love. Everyone needs love.

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Wow..... sounds like a very gruelling research. How possible is to be able to accurately nit-pick the causes of breakups and proffer solutions. Sounds rather challenging but intriguing.

Finding that special person that has become not just a friend or lover but an actual part of you is one of the most beautiful things one can ask for.
I hope we all have the same story.

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Hahah... That's surely going to take a lot of effort. Finding out the reason for most break-ups is not an easy assignment because we've got no shortage of flaws and the person we are getting into a relationship with also has no shortage of flaws. People in relationship end up bringing their flaws together and this will surely cause lots of friction.

What I've learned to do with my partner is to always contend with each other and try to make sure we don't allow each other to do things that will make us fall out of love with each other. Hehe. It's filled with complexities, but the bottom line is that we demand best behavior from eachother and we try to be patient enough while learning to be the best we can possibly be for ourselves and our partner.

It gets very interesting if you are interested in psychology and humanities. A great deal of these are needed in nurturing relationships. Hehe.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this.

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You're welcome. I'm really looking forward to the results of your thorough research. No doubt it would be full of complexities since it has to do with humans. I take it you're also interested in psychology. Can't wait to understand this labyrinth called love by your insightful research.🌷

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Yeah. I can already imagine myself digging deeper to get something out of this research. Since it's related to Humanities in all our complexities, there is no doubt that the variables would be beyond the stretch of our imagination. Hehe.

It's going to be fun to demystify Love and what it entails.

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!ALIVE | !BBH | !LUV

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Such a luck for you to have found someone that you're sure of "no breakfast" soon.
As for me, I'm loving a lot of people for now and family is number one🤗

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Family love is also amazing. It's one of the most genuine love out there. It gets even better when your family wants the very best for you. Hehe.

Have fun in this valentine season

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Yeah, the love is unwavering.
Thank you!🙌

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I have been in the same situation that you mentioned in the beginning but now I got the breeze of this love season.

Well researched, actually this is a vast topic and it can also vary from person to person. Someone might not have faced these situations so far and can't relate to them, or someone might not even care. I can relate to that part that I have faced and based on that I can say it's true, well done.

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Yeah. The fact that people have differences also means that the type of experience we will have when we are in love will always differ from one person to another.

Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts on this.

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love will always differ from one person to another.

True.

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Ha, okay oh, help us find the solution to heartbreak so that the breakfast served might be reduced.

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Hahah... The solution can come as a hardpill which both guys are ladies may not be ready to apply in their relationship 😂. lolz.

Well, it's an interesting talking point. Having the solution in mind will also lead to more genuine relationships where those in a relationship will have genuine respect for their partner.

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"I am giving you my heart. Guard it jealously and handle it with care as we take steps towards building this relationship".*

Thanks for these words 👌
I hope a lot of people in relationship can understand this and if we do, the level of heart breaks and dissapoinment will be reduced.

I have come to understand that some people don't really know what love is all about and that's why they take some uncalculated steps sometimes thereby hurting their partners badly.

I admire the attributes of a special lady in ur life...I wish you well in all your endeavors 👍🥰

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Yes oooo. Heartbreaks are too much. It makes you wonder why it's happening so often.

When people are in love, they need to always have their partner in mind while doing certain things because the way we live our life also has the tendency of hurting our partner.

Relationships are complex in it's own way. But it gets easier to deal with it when both parties are interested in nurturing it.

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But it gets easier to deal with it when both parties are interested in nurturing it.

Exactly 💯
And this is where commitment comes in

Some partners are not committed to their relationships and that's why heart breaks are inevitable

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Yep. If both partners are committed and working towards the common good of their relationship, the rate of heartbreaks will be reduced massively.

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Love is truly a beautiful feeling when you get to experience it and it is so sad that today it has been infected with so much toxicity that many are now scared to give it a chance. I hope that the broken may be healed completely and may be graced to love again.
This was a beautiful read. Thank you for sharing your beautiful insight and please 🥺 find this magical solution fast 🤲 breakfast don too plenty 😭😭

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This is a fairly inspiring comment and I'm very excited to see the thought you shared to the talking point.

Fair enough, relationships are becoming redefined.

People no longer want to make sacrifices and they no longer want to tolerate the differences that exists between them and their partner. I can't get into a relationship without expecting some behavioral variables to play out. Most of these variables are always going to be there because each of us have our flaws.

If we genuinely want to nurture the relationship, one of the starting point is to try and be the best we can possibly be for ourself and our partner. This suggest that we should be open to tell our partner what they can do better. In the same manner, we should also be ready to listen when our partner tells us something we can improve on. Hehe.

It always takes two to tango.

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Your thoughts are so mature, I hope more people will become more intentional about the fact that accepting to be in a relationship should be like nurturing a child being considerate and caring. Communicating properly and loving unconditionally.
It's a two way thing, one person can't be the fool. You both have to on your mumu button ❤️❤️

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Exactly. It's a conscious effort and those that are getting into relationship should be ready to increase their level of conscientiousness.

It takes a great deal of effort. One of the things I always tell my partner is that I will never allow her to do things that will make me dislike her. That's why whenever she says things I don't like or does anything I don't like, I call her attention to it. We talk about it and if she sees that whatever she said or did is truly not acceptable, we look into better ways to say or do those things.

Ohhh... While I do these for her, I also tell her to make sure she won't sleep on my own weird habits. If she notice anything I do that will likely make her dislike me, she is always free to bring it up and we will talk about it.

The same thing can play out in all sorts of relationship, including the ones between parents and their kids.

So many parents allow their kids to mess up at younger age. They know they wouldn't want their child to be rude adults, yet they condone rudeness from them at Younger age. It gets to a point where they can't cope with it any longer. At that point, even the kids will be like; "but I've been doing this since I was young, you didn't say anything". Haha.

That's why it's easier to fight today (talk about hard things with your partner earlier) instead of allowing them to get too comfortable doing things that will make you hate them. Hehe

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This is a very touching write-up @kenechukwu97, love can be incredibly surprising to those who aren't used to receiving it in large amounts. It is wonderful to hear that you have a young lady in your life who inspires you so much that you decided to share it here. We thank you for this beautiful and vulnerable read, and for your thoughtful engagement with other members of the community!

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Thanks so much for the appraisal. Love is in the air and I genuinely appreciate the good work you all are doing to keep track of posts shared to inkwell community. Hehe.

God bless all of you

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Love is a good feeling, it's so sweet and sweeter than food itself. And at same time, gives deep injuries in terms of heartbreak when mismanaged

This season of love is a season I'm using to look into this and try to decipher the proper solution to heartbreaks between lovers.

I'm patiently waiting for this 👍

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Yeah. It's like the usual notion about blessing and curse. Wherever there is blessing, there is also a curse.

Love can give us one of the most amazing feeling if we are experiencing it with the right person. But when we fall in love with the worst possible option out there, it can be a really painful experience.

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You write beautifully and I found your words enchanting. It will be beautiful to see that heartbreak get lessened because the feeling it leaves is no joke. Whether it is love or not, one would always feel the person's presence in some ways.

Amazingly, you found this beautiful lady. I pray things to go super well for you both. 🥰🥰. Stay safe, be blessed and !LUV and kisses to you.

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Yeah. The pain is unreal especially for those that are high in conscientiousness. Such people will always be left with questions like; "What did I do wrong?" "Where did I get it wrong?"

It actually tears people apart. Those that have been there wouldn't wish it on any other person. Of course, they wouldn't want to experience it again. That's why a look into why heartbreaks happen and how to make sure it won't happen again is a very interesting research to take on.

Amazingly, you found this beautiful lady. I pray things to go super well for you both.

AMEN. Hehe. I wish for the very best from this. God bless you, Omalicha Nwa.

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From all indications, when two people are in love, what they are fundamentally doing is saying, "I am giving you my heart. Guard it jealously and handle it with care as we take steps towards building this relationship".

Well, these words are pretty common to hear when someone is in love with another. But to tell the truth I don't prefer the words most to express my love to my loved one. I feel someone's acts are more important than the words. When you take care each other rather than enforcing I need the care of your which does not come out most of the cases naturally. If both are honest and loyal to their love, I don't feel they will go for a break up in any sense unless misunderstanding.

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That's cool. It is already proven with sufficient past cases that words are not enough. Action always speaks higher volume.

When someone is in love, they naturally want to take good care of their partner. A genuine act of love wouldn't go unnoticed and when it's done between two people that genuinely love each other, it brings an interesting spark to the whole relationship.

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