Ladies of Hive Community Contest #128 : My Dream Wedding

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Dear LOH, I appreciate your kind welcome to our new competition. πŸ™‚

Let me first share with you my thoughts on weddings in general and how I envision my own wedding.

I don't see getting married as a necessary stage in my life. I don't care if my relatives will drink to celebrate or if there will be a stamp in the passport. The offer was what I considered to be most significant.


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Consequently, I would never wed while flying! Without it, you can raise a child who will be a good parent and who won't need a marriage license from you. My suggestion satisfies the requirement that "the time has come"

I've already stated that I have a very hazy understanding of what a wedding entails. But if with what and to start over, that is.

I believe the guest list should come first. For my part, I knew who would be coming right away: 22 people, including myself and two young children. These are the people I must personally invite, but only the ones who are closest to me; no coworkers, distant relatives, etc. Another benefit of not attending weddings is that no one ought to be called back out of politeness in response.

Another nuance: Since Andy and I have known two of my girlfriends personally for a long time and they have been together for more than five years, I will invite them.

Another crucial point is that half of our visitors are from outside my hometown, necessitating travel arrangements for them. The economy option is no longer available because there is nowhere to put visitors at home. It is necessary to provide lodging for more than one night because some people might travel from another country.

The truth is that, in my opinion, nothing with the wedding is hurried. Booking everything in advance can help you save money and anxiety, and you don't even need to know anything about weddings to understand this. Additionally, neither my family nor I have any money left over to pay for the wedding.


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How about the location of the wedding? I think a wedding should only happen once in life, or at the very least, this should be the goal. Consequently, it must be a dream wedding or it won't happen at all! I think of it as a time when we show our love to all of our loved ones.

Since I don't believe anyone can unwind quickly, the ideal wedding would take place outside of the city, in a large cottage or a number of smaller ones, in the open air (I don't like tents because they are pricey and uncomfortable).

The wedding should last two daysβ€”more is better (in an ideal world, we should have already built our dream home and tied the knot there, but this is not at all realistic). a minimum number of non-participants directly involved in the event's management.

By the way, remember that stress is your worst enemy when getting ready for marriage, my dear brides. Do not ever worry about anything. You follow a well-planned schedule, so everything will be done before the wedding; all that is left to do is wait.


This is the entry for the contest by @ladiesofhive and I invite my all friends and followers



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This sounds like you have it all planned :) A very intimate wedding with 22 people and the venue at a cottage. I love that! Cool, relaxing, fresh! Not to mention you have all the arrangements done in advance. That indeed takes away much stress or anxiousness when the wedding approaches :)

Thank you !LADY for sharing your thoughts ❀️

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There is no one right way to celebrate; rather, the only right way is the way in which you celebrate with those things to which you feel the strongest connection. No matter how elaborate or uncomplicated the plan is, the most important thing is that the two people involved are content with the outcome.

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Wedding is a lot of planning and the sooner you start planning you also make some savings specially where travels are involved. We have a dreamy picture of our wedding but the reality may sometimes not match up to it, but as far as we can do most part of it also, it will satisfy the heart

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A lavish wedding does not ensure that the couple will have a happy marriage; therefore, there is no point in spending all of your money on the celebration when there is life after marriage. As for my wedding, I have not yet had one, but I can tell you that it will be something uncomplicated and understated.

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Wow, your insight on weddings is great, I love your style of planning is unique.

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Thank you for stopping by. I really hope that I'll be able to have the intimate wedding that I've always dreamed of having.

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Sure, since you have it in mind it will surely be at hand, Best wishes dear.

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Wow that's a beautiful dream you have about your future wedding, it seem magical to me.

A simple, memorable and not too expensive wedding 😊

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Yes, it's true that I find great joy in the company of just a few close friends and members of my family.
Thanks for your wishes.

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You have great thought I appreciated, I have also some good thoughts for my wedding hopefully I will be fulfill all that. Very nice picture of wedding

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