Creating a dating profile

20220724_155759.jpg

On this Sunday I come with a #weekend-engagement in which of all your options to write about this publication I called my attention to this topic that I'm going to talk about now.

It is about creating a profile in one of those X applications that allow people to get to know each other so that maybe if they have chemistry they can join their lives.

First of all, I would put my data as I am, because if it is about getting a person who is going to like me, who knows me without a mask, without so many filters, so that one day if we get to see each other, I do not collide with a different reality.


20220724_154442.jpg

My name, age, city where I live, yes, without so many specifications on that subject, for security. What I like to do, places I would like to visit. I would make it very clear that I am a mother of 3 daughters that I would not leave for anything or anyone.

I think I would make a description of the things I don't like, so it would be clear that if you are fond of any of them, you better stay away by yourself and don't even think of sending me a message to my profile.

I would not be so blunt, life is a coming and going of changes, of course depending on how much it favors me or the relationship in general an unexpected turn I could accept it.

Always the truth first, I don't know how to make soups and neither do I know how to compose fish, much less fry it because it burned me, so if you want both things do it yourself.

No, really, lies are not negotiable, I hate them and I do not tolerate or forgive them. So from the beginning talk to me with the truth if you want something serious with me. If serious, because if you're not going to do it, you'd better stay away.

If you love me, you also have to love and respect my daughters, otherwise stay away.

If you want to conquer me, going out alone is valid, as long as other outings also include my daughters and why not my mom, who always wants to be in everything and I can not say no, she is my spoiled mommy.

I love crafts, baking, reading and writing, so I dedicate many of my nights to her, so in case the relationship prospers, I will come to bed many times, after dawn and I don't want bad faces.


gfv_1658692829439.gif

I like to enjoy nature and all that surrounds it, are you willing to take me to explore it?

By creating this profile, I'm looking for a man who is responsible, respectable, of good manners, lover of the good life, hard worker, honest, good lover, affectionate, detail oriented, characteristics with which I identify and profess, if you are not of this type, stay away.

Once you read my profile and all that in the specific, if you write to me I hope you comply with my requests and if all the "stay away" did not drive him away, welcome, now let's get to know each other, I am Leidimar, it is a pleasure to meet you.

Will I have a first date? I didn't read myself as very demanding, annoying, moody, didn't I push you away with all that?


Screenshot_20220724-153311_Gallery.jpg

Gee, if not, the date has to include a passport with a trip to Europe, ice cream and Bachata dancing included.

I laughed too much writing all this, heh, heh, heh, heh, mind you, I'm not looking for anyone, I already have my better half. I did that in the past and if they wrote me heh, heh, heh, heh.


20220724_154217.jpg


All images were taken with my Samsung A20 phone and edited with my gallery editor. I did the translation of my writing with Translator DeeLp. The GIF was made with the Video Maker application.



0
0
0.000
28 comments
avatar

When creating this profile I am looking for a responsible man, respectable, with good manners, lover of the good life, hardworking, honest, good lover, loving, caring, detail-oriented, characteristics with which I identify and profess, if you are not of this type, stay away.

There are few left, so I hope that whoever reads you will take you on a trip to Europe, my friend, tell me how about the man who dares to meet all your requirements.

The best date you've ever had with your daughters, it's the best.

I love that you have decided to participate in this commitment which by the way is great, in my experience I enjoy it because it allows me to write what my heart wants to tell.

The topics are diverse, and you are free to write your own content, as well as this one that you write with your daughters @leidimarc

0
0
0.000
avatar

Gracias amiga, si gracias a tu publicación de compromiso de fin de semana me anime a participar, fui leí la publicación y me encontré con temas diferentes.

Me gustó este y me aventure a escribir. La verdad que cuando uno busca encuentra a lo mejor no con todos los requerimientos, pero si nos limitamos a pedir poco, poco nos darán.

Y si en estos tiempos es difícil conseguir todo en una sola persona.

Mis hijas siempre son lo más importante.

Espero hayas disfrutado de tu fin de semana.



Thanks friend, yes thanks to your publication of weekend commitment I was encouraged to participate, I read the publication and I found different topics.

I liked this one and I ventured to write. The truth is that when you look for something you may not find all the requirements, but if we limit ourselves to ask for little, little will be given to us.

And yes, in these times it is difficult to get everything in one person.

My daughters are always the most important thing.

I hope you enjoyed your weekend.

0
0
0.000
avatar

I loved your publication, well oriented to your daughters, your best date every day.

Here we continue to create content every weekend with interesting, fun and most importantly topics that give us freedom of thought, ideas and talent.

Happy beginning of the week @leidimarc

0
0
0.000
avatar

I don't think I would participate in one of those pages, no matter how desperate I feel for company.
I'm afraid of meeting a psychopath, or a guy like the tinder scammer!
Although I must admit I have gone into public chat rooms and met many people online, and a couple of them in person. There is one I still keep in touch with after more than 20 years of chatting for the first time, but at that time we were both clear that we were not looking for a romantic relationship.

0
0
0.000
avatar

La verdad es que hay que ser muy arriesgada para concretar una cita por este tipo de páginas en línea.

Aunque he visto a muchos que les ha ido excelente, a otras no. Así que sería algo por desicion propia.

Pero de que es emocionante lo es.



The truth is that you have to be very risky to make a date through this type of online pages.

Although I have seen many who have done very well, others have not. So it would be something by choice.

But it is exciting, it is.

0
0
0.000
avatar

What a great writing @leidimarc the truth that you inspired me I loved how you express everything you like, don't like and what I liked the most is that always children and the
Mom come first. They should always come first. Showing yourself as you are is the best passport to success and the best possible relationships. Friendships, family and couples. I loved reading this post my friend and I congratulate you.

0
0
0.000
avatar

Que bueno que te gusto amiga @elamaria con la verdad por delante siempre va ser la mejor carta de presentación y así evitar malos entendidos en el futuro.

Tengo bien clara cuáles son mis prioridades y no son negociables.

Mis princesas y mi mamá son mis tesoros más preciados y nos las dejo por fuera por nada ni por nadie.

Muchas gracias por valorar lo que con cariño les escribo.

Saludos y bendiciones.



I'm glad you like it @elamaria friend with the truth up front will always be the best letter of introduction and thus avoid misunderstandings in the future.

I am very clear about my priorities and they are non-negotiable.

My princesses and my mom are my most precious treasures and I don't leave them out for anything or anyone.

Thank you very much for appreciating what I am writing with love.

Greetings and blessings.

0
0
0.000
avatar

I think you'd put a rather good dating profile together and would probably attract a lot of interest. I like how you include your children and your mum which is family oriented indeed.

I'm glad you took the time to out this post together and get involved this week.

0
0
0.000
avatar

I'm so glad you read my post, as soon as I saw the weekend commitment, I liked the themes, although I decided on this one. I had been wanting to participate for a while and this was my chance @galenkp, thanks for encouraging us to write.

Family always comes first, for me it will always be my priority and I let whoever is around me know that, so that I take them into account and appreciate them as I would myself.

0
0
0.000
avatar

I like your family first ethos. ✅

0
0
0.000
avatar

It is always good to be honest from the beginning, too bad that in these applications not everyone is looking for that sincerity, you usually find many fake people who do not even know what they want or why they write to you, but that's the way it is.

The important thing is that you have your goals clear, first you and your daughters, then the rest, nice pictures friend, you look like an artist hehehehe greetings.

0
0
0.000
avatar

Gracias amiga por apreciar mi post.

Así es muchas veces entran a estas páginas a buscar el amor de su vida y lo primero que hacen es inventarse una vida, que no tiene nada que ver con la realidad, empezando con colocar una foto falsa o con full edición, como que la verdad no iba a salir a relucir en cualquier momento.

Otros o la mayoría niegan a sus hijos, por Dios como pueden hacer algo tan feo.

Mis hijas son parte de mi, son lo más importante y siempre las pongo de primera para todo.

Gracias por lo de artista jejeje, ya quisiera.



Thank you friend for appreciating my post.

So many times they enter these pages to find the love of their life and the first thing they do is invent a life, which has nothing to do with reality, starting with placing a false photo or with full editing, as that the truth would not come out at any time.

Others or most deny their children, for God's sake how can they do something so ugly.

My daughters are part of me, they are the most important thing and I always put them first for everything.

Thanks for the artist thing hehehe, I wish I could.

0
0
0.000
avatar

Congratulations @leidimarc! You have completed the following achievement on the Hive blockchain and have been rewarded with new badge(s):

You received more than 4750 upvotes.
Your next target is to reach 5000 upvotes.

You can view your badges on your board and compare yourself to others in the Ranking
If you no longer want to receive notifications, reply to this comment with the word STOP

0
0
0.000
avatar

Que bueno, espero cada vez crear más contenido que sea del agrado de muchos.

Muchas gracias.



That's great, I hope to create more and more content that will be liked by many.

Thank you very much.

0
0
0.000
avatar

Not many people would like to tell the truth about themselves. I love the way you set your profile. It's not bad being yourself. Your pictures are nice and your children are cute. Nice profile set up from you.

0
0
0.000
avatar

Hola buen día, me alegra que la forma en la que escribiría en mi perfil te haya gustado.

Así soy y es como quiero que me conozcan, con la verdad por delante, así se acercan solo los que estén de acuerdo a mi manera de ser.

Muchas gracias por tu apreciación.

Saludos y bendiciones.

0
0
0.000
avatar

Your daughters are beautiful. By the way, I hope that you find what you are looking for. Have a nice day ahead.

0
0
0.000
avatar

Thanks friend.

It's just a dynamic, although I'm not looking for a partner because I already have one.

If I were to create a profile to get a date, I would write just as described here, always highlighting who I am and what my priorities are.

Good that you read my posts, thank you.

Greetings and blessings.

0
0
0.000
avatar

Saludos @leidimarc me agrado leer tu post jejeje sobretodo en todas las partes que dices "aléjate" jejeje excelente nada mejor que ser claros, sinceros, nada de mentiras (al igual que tú las detesto). Y si no califican bye! bye "aléjate" jejeje qué buena manera de crear ese perfil de cita. Muy linda tu familia.

0
0
0.000
avatar

Hola amiga @schiogonzalez que bueno que te gusto jejeje yo también me reí demás escribiendo.

Pero todo cuanto escribí es cierto,así soy yo, no me la llevo bien con las mentiras.

Gracias por tu apreciación por mis princesas.

Saludos y bendiciones amiga.

0
0
0.000
avatar

I think the man you want to meet would appreciate the honesty you are showing, but I suspect choosing the right dating site or app first is just as important as the profile you use.

I might also suggest a shorter and simpler list of virtues, like loyalty, honesty, and integrity. The criteria you list starts to sound more demanding than discerning, if that makes any sense.

0
0
0.000
avatar

Excellent friend, your point of view and suggestion are fundamental virtues that both parties must have of course.

Yes, I know I was very demanding, the idea is to scare everyone away hehehehe.

Thank you for reading my post.

Greetings and blessings.

0
0
0.000
avatar

Well, you didn't quite scare me enough to not add a contrarian comment, LOL!

0
0
0.000
avatar

Nice profile - anyone interested would certainly know what to expect. It is so important that your family is mentioned in your profile. No surprises and expectations managaed.

0
0
0.000
avatar

So it is first the truth and of course my beautiful family ahead.

As you say so that there are no surprises.

There will always be one who accepts one as he/she is.

Greetings and blessings.

Thank you for stopping by my post.

0
0
0.000