The Effect and Gains of unconditional Love in my life

Good day everyone,

It's another beautiful weekend and time to experience some beautiful moments with love ones, rest and rob minds with great thinkers on hive community.

Today I'll be sharing with you guys a topic that interest me from WEEKEND EXPERIENCE COMMUNITY weekly prompt talking about how unconditional love softens my hardened mind and made me a better version of myself. I hope it interest you.

It was February 2013, I was still in university 200-level that I saw a girl along our department walkway she looks tender and beautiful and I couldn't help but gaze at her clean skin😂 I managed to walk past her with one mind even though my heart was racing so fast.

As I entered the lecture room and realised our lecturer has not arrived so I quickly race back to try and strike a conversation with her and atleast get her contact but when I'll get to where I saw her was gone😔 my heart skipped but I can't look disappointed as a sharp guy😂💔

Two weeks passed I still couldn't see her anywhere so I decided to stop bothering about her besides we are close to our semester exam nobody need such distraction.

A month after, we were preparing to leave school after exam when my hostel mate gave me her phone line (He was with me the first day i saw her). I was happy and I called immediately telling her my guy got me her number( my guy already told her the number was for someone who liked her too😂). We started talking and gradually get to know each other more.

While at home we talked at lent and she accepted to date me eventually. While dating, my mindset was to chop and clean mouth(get down with her and leave). That was the plan but somehow I was fascinated by her personality. She perfectly suit whatever description I had in my mind for whoever I'd thought will be my life partner.

Things soon turn sour because I started to intentionally frustrate her. She became the only one putting all the energy and trying to make things work. My eye were on other ladies already even though she's more beautiful than most I'll meet I still don't care.

Things continues same way until i graduated and she was in her final year. I thought she would be tired of me already but Instead she keep loving me even more😂 (in my mind I thought she must be a fool). With all my tantrums and lack of commitment I still find her intelligent and someone I most time confide in because her response always comes handy and helpful. She was way too mature for me.

At NYSC(National youth service corps) I thought I was finally done with her, so many flings and enough ladies. I'm finally out of the preacher girl reach(She was a devoted Christian and constantly use the bible to correct me😬). Suddenly she started calling my lines that she wanted to come to me... Ah🙄 from Lagos to Akwa Ibom where i served is almost a 16hours journey if not more! After so much pleading i had to tell her that whatever her eye see she should bear and she said okay.

She arrived at Akwa Ibom and many things instantly becomes awkward for me🙄. I couldn't invite any of my girlfriends over any longer and we go out together almost all time except when I went to my Place of duty. Things got even more tense when corpers in my Local government decided to have a beach party and the party was going to be a week after she arrived so we had to go there together.

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Getting to the beach there was so many corpers and large crowd. The beach was the only beach in the whole state and it's weekend. As we're walking across the beach a girl embraced me from behind and was trying to be romantic, she was one of my flings but I noticed my girl looked unbothered. This caused me to worry so i decided to ask her when we get home why she wasn't moved that a lady made advances towards me.

At home, she told me she already had a deep thinking and understanding after a while with me that she's going to have so much patience because I look so unprepared and unavailable for the kind of love she has for me and that made her made up her mind that she's going to be the last girl standing even though I've made her sad almost all her life. After hearing this I was moved and troubled. I was overwhelmed by guit and couldn't believed she had so much love for me. That night I made up my mind to be more responsible and readily involved in building our relationship and also asked her for forgiveness.

From that moment onward I started living a more responsible life. Her love and persistency made me have a change of mindset which has help me achieve immerse growth both financially and Spiritually. Before that moment I was unable to safe up a dime because it's always from one expenses to the other but with her I was able to safe alot as well as achieve alot too. I felt a rare peace too😂 you know like a man with no drama vibe ✌️😂.

Everything keep working together for good afterward because I became more organised and mature. Today we are happily married with kid.

I owe alot to my wife, if not for her unreal patience and unconditional love maybe I would still be roaming around wasting resources over ladies that won't matter after a year or two in my life.

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