Ladies of Hive Community Contest #128 : My Dream Wedding
Not sure if the dream of wedding will come true for me or not. I'm getting older and people see me as the lady in the photo above. Actually there are many people in society think after 30 women are no longer a young chick and old enough to get married. Even they make me feel like 60 when I'm just 30 plus.
I'm in a complicated relationship where there we love each other but can't marry because the person I love has family and society concern. My concern is about probable difficulties and changes will come into my life. I'm not yet ready to get married but my family and relative often bother me for this. Many of my childhood friends has grown up kids so sometimes I feel like I'm too late and I didn't born to get married ever in my life and it make me cry honestly!
Getting married with the person I will love and feel was my childhood dream but day by day realities of my life warning me to get married and there are many things scare me to get married. I don't like people around me who talks about my wedding because it has no guarantee where my life has no guarantee there wedding may remain a dream only.
I had dream of wedding but no dream wedding concept in my mind. Frustrating but gradually I'm used to it. According to my religion when a person can't marry the person he or she loved in life, will get married in the heaven. I have many crushes so I don't know with whom I'll get married in the heaven if I missed get married in this earth lol.
Jokes apart, the person I love is a very sweet and handsome guy and he is my best friend too. He often pull my leg saying that I may ask for a partner in the heaven from Korean men as I have a crush on Korean men. My partner often say that he is my hubby and he want me in this earth and also in the heaven and I also consider him as my hubby because he is really very understanding and honest but we are helpless to get married right now for different difficulties and complications already in our life.
My dream wedding should be very simple. I don't want any ring exchanging or something before get married but I have aim to travel with my husband different beautiful travel destinations for couples. I want simple wedding with religious rules. I don't like crowd of people in my wedding but few well wishers will be invited to attend. I want my creator bless me with a happy and long married life not necessary to have a grand wedding ceremony to make it the topic of discussion.
I love having a simple lifestyle and I've few amounts of friend in my real life. I don't like crowd since my childhood days and I don't attend wedding functions. I don't have interest to jewelleries, fashionable dress, make up or something that give me and my partner gorgeous look. I just want to make my marriage successful and long lasting.
I can't marry unknown or someone random like chosen by my family or relative, I want to marry my best friend who shows love and care to me everyday! I want him for this life and also for afterlife in the heaven. We have no dream wedding but we have a dream to get married as soon as possible.
This is the entry for the contest by @ladiesofhive and I invite my all friends and followers
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Do not worry about what others are saying about you not married yet at 30. I would say that kind of thinking of others is so traditional so just ignore them and enjoy life as you know best.😍
Oh my, are you a playgirl? LOL! Of course, I'm just kidding!😁
This is so honest from you, Daisy. Although you mentioned you don't have a dream wedding, the way you described it is already one - you wanting to be married to your best friend in simple ceremony and with the small circle of friends and family you have and then go traveling around. That's a beautiful dream and I wish you the best for it to come true.
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Thanks dear, keep praying for us! 😇🤗
I'm not a play girl but handsome men attract me really hard and I try not to look at them twice hahah.
My man get jealous if I tell him honestly that I like other men specially Koreans 😂
Haha, who wouldn't be jealous? Lol! You make me laugh, Daisy😂
Cheers to you both!❤️
Yay! 🤗
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Amiga @leo-fairy, te entiendo perfectamente, mi matrimonio fué a los 32 años, a los treinta años, me encontré desesperada y con tal incertidumbre cómo describes en tú primer párrafo, me sentí identificada con tú relato inmediatamente ☺️, ten fé en tí misma, busca dentro de tí y primero conviértete en el amor que quieres, no busques a tú alrededor, suelta todo pensamiento en buscar a quien amar, quiérete tú primero y ése gran amor que esperas llegará en el momento oportuno. Tienes que definir lo que deseas en armonía para todo el mundo, llegará el afortunado y finalmente el universo ó en lo que sea tu creencia, traerá a ti la felicidad que haz anhelado, No resulta fácil porque tienes una relación, pero pienso que no eres feliz porque si estás viendo a los coreanos 😍, jajaja, hermana hermosa la felicidad puede estar cerca, sólo que estás en torbellino 🌪️ de sentimientos y ésa persona, que es el amor de tú vida también va y viene con tú indecisión. Sé feliz 😘🫂. Somos responsables de amarnos lo suficiente para decidirnos a ser felices 👏👏👏.
¡No te des por vencida!, si tú sueño es casarte, lucha por tú sueño.💕
Such healing words you sent me, accept my warm hug as you can feel my situation dear sis. Actually I love the person already in my life but I have crush on other handsome men like I said Koreans but that is my fantasy not like I may think about marry them. A best friend can understand me and I can open me up to him so I want him as my husband. Untill we get married some doubts will remain about his love. A man who loves me will definitely fight for me to be with me that all I know. I wish my waiting for him doesn’t go waste.
Thanks Again dear for reading my post 💐❤️🤗❤️💚
That's right, he must love you enough to give you all the love ❤️ and companionship you need, no matter the obstacles 🙌.
I love Koreans too 😍!
I'm glad that our taste match about Koreans heheh! 🤗💚💜💗
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Thanks a bunch 🐝💐
A simple wedding like you describe, would be awesome. Too much fuss often leads to too much expense, too much stress and just too much!
Small weddings allow you to control this and also to have the people most important to you there.
My prayer for you is that the things holding the two of you back, would be whisked out of the way so that you can begin your life together as husband and wife.
Take care my sweet friend and have a lovely day!🤗💜😘💞🤗. !LADY
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Warm hugs dear! I want to see your wedding photos with Sir Mike, is it possible? Please!
You both are my sweet friend and favourite couple that reached it’s couple goals. You have kids, you are happily married for 41 years so my request to you to take part in this theme though I know you are an admin of Ladies of hive and maybe this contest is not for honorable admins.
Hope you don't mind me asking this sweet friend Liz 🤗❤️💗💜💚💝💐🐝🥂
I don't mind at all. I will see what I can do. I might have to do a bit of digging, lol!
Take care my friend! Love ya much!🤗💜🤗💛🤗💞🤗
Okay dear I'm waiting to see the dream wedding of my favorite couple over there. Love you both, take care 💞💖❤️💐💝🥂
I have found the pics; I'll share them soon!🤗💜💖💘💜🤗
wow great, I'm waiting dear sis Eli 😍😊😘💚
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Age is just a number my friend!!😀
When the time is right you will know!!!😍
Its true but I also want to celebrate 42 years of togetherness like my favorite couple 😍🤗 heheh
It is hard to believe it will be 42 years this July....😍😇
Time run faster, maybe for you both it feels like it happened few weeks ago!
Lol......So very true my friend!!!😀🤣
I love this alot, just a simple gathering of family and Friends. No crowd at all. I pray your dreams will come true lady
A needless amount of commotion almost always results in an unnecessary amount of expenditure, stress, and overall just too much!
Small weddings allow you to control this and also to have the people most important to you there. A straightforward get-together with family and close friends. There was not even a crowd.
Ohhhhh you're so much like me. I'm so happy to have met you. I love Korean men so much and I have too many crushes too. I'm glad you said that, really. There's no pressure in life sweetie. Just do your thing at your time. This was so beautiful and sincere to read. Thanks for sharing.🥰🥰❤️💕
Oh my dear it must be such an emotional struggle for you to take decisions. Personally I believe if you love someone do not bother about society and what they will say and think. You both need to be comfortable with each other and that's what matters the most. I wish you good luck and hope that you will make decisions for your love where you will put yourself on priority and do what makes you feel happy. Where age is concerned, 30 is not old, so you should stop bothering on that part