Wrong Parenting 🚫

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Jenifer was a young mother. She gave birth to her first child when she was only 16. She got married at her early age. She was lucky that she was physically fit and fine as a result she gave birth healthy kids. She had her second child at her age of 20 and 3rd child when she was only 22.

Does giving birth is everything that call parenting? What do you think? Only physical fitness for giving birth healthy kids is not enough. A healthy mind also required to take care of kids. Only a mother as a good parent is not enough, both father and mother should be good at parenting when they planning for a child in their life. Many parents think giving birth is everything when a child need to have both physical and mental care.

Jennifer became parent at her early age and this was very natural that she was not mentally prepare to take care of each child properly. She got three healthy children but what about their growth both physically and mentally? Jennifer was very kind to her first daughter but she was careless about her second daughter. Her third child was a boy who was the priority for Jennifer and her husband. The second child was ignored and whenever she was ill, Jennifer and her husband became concerned but other times they doesn’t care and left her like a pet animal in house.
This is absolutely wrong parenting when you give birth but unable to take care of each children equally. Really very sad part of parenting! Time goes and these three children grow up. When the second child as a girl was around 9 years old, the first child of Jennifer was 14 years and a very good friend of Jennifer.

The second child was ignored as always. The day she got period she was feeling helpless because as a mom Jennifer act like she was disturbed with such physical change of second child. The second child was poor and helpless when she never gets a mother as a friend she always expected. She couldn’t manage her period and was abused by classmates. She was mentally abused and never could find a good friend or parent in her life.

Here we can learn that, as a parent you should treat your kids with equal priority. A child didn’t born knowing everything, he or she learn from parents, elders and surroundings. If we as parent only pay attention to the first child and keep ignoring the other child or children, this is definitely a bad or wrong parenting. Be friend to your all children and never compare them with each other. Jennifer often scold the second child by saying that, "be like your sister,she is so good and you are so bad."

Did she born bad? The second child was different because of having less care and ignored since the beginning then how Jennifer can expect the same nature in second child that she finds in her first child. She should know how much care and attention she was given or giving to her second daughter.
Probably Jennifer was a young parent and she had no knowledge of right parenting but as a human we all should treat kids equally with love and care, scolding them and abusing them can make them mentally unhealthy. Every parents show their concern about the physical health and feed their kids the best food but they can't afford good behaviour, love and care to take care of their kid's mental health.
Before being a parent of multiple kids, parents need to learn right parenting that never can spoil any life of a kid. A good parent is a great blessing for kids likewise good parents can produce good children and they are surely great blessings for parents in future.

I wish no kids suffer from wrong parenting like Jennifer's second child suffered a lot till her young age. She was nip in bud unfortunately! But Jennifer realized it later when it was too late and she passed away.