TO NEW BEGINNINGS: CELEBRATING ONE MONTH ON HIVE! (LUNCH WITH FAMILY AND CUTTING MY HAIR SHORT)

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While scrolling through my various social media accounts, I always come upon this quote "Grow through what you go through." Constantly remembering this quote has helped me survived life's adversities. This year, 2021, has been a tough year for me because I have experienced some personal losses such as the death of my grandmother and getting my heartbroken, again. For months I honestly felt like I was trapped in a tunnel but as I kept going I finally saw the light. I began to realize that despite getting heartbroken, the light will surely shine through the cracks and I believe that being on this platform was the light I never knew that I needed.

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As what they all say, "Sunsets are a proof that endings can be beautiful too." I guess what ever loss that we encountered, there is always a reason for it. We just have to be patient through the process of bereavement.

In order to commemorate my one month on this platform, I decided to treat my parents by taking them out for lunch. I truly believe that blessings multiply when shared. This platform has honestly been a blessing to me because I got to share my thoughts and feelings without the fear of being ridiculed or judged. This is actually my safe space.

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I let my parents decide where they want to eat lunch and it was a unanimous decision for they both wanted to eat at Bigby's. This used to be our go-to restaurant before the pandemic began.

When I told my mother that we were going out for lunch, I saw her face brighten because it was the first time that I got to treat them. For more than two decades, I have always been dependent to my parents and I never got the chance to somehow spoil them. I guess my parents waited for quite a long time but every wait has a worth, right?

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We did not order much because apparently some of our favorites were not available. Both my father and I do not eat meat so we decided to order Sriracha chicken wings, our favorite Tiki Waki Salad, Chicken Quesadilla, and Chix Ahoy which is sizzling chicken topped with gravy.

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After lunch, I decided to treat myself. I decided to visit my favorite hair salon, Mirangcurl located in Bonifacio District, Cebu City. Cutting my hair always had a symbolism. For me, it's like a gateway to commence a new chapter. At the start of each year, I always visit a salon to get my hair treated and cut but this year was an exception. Because of what I went through this year, somehow I want to begin a new chapter at an earlier time.

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I went through quite a long process. I was in the salon for around 4 hours because I decided to have my hair rebonded. Hair rebond is actually a hair straightening process. My hair does not look good naturally so I wanted it to look straight. They initially placed a cream on my hair then they wrapped it with a plastic while my head was under a machine.

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This is the interior of the salon. The ambiance is amazing and the service was good. Their staff were also very helpful and accommodating.

I am not closing my previous chapter, I am just heading on to a better one. I know that those experiences shaped me into who I am now. Losing a loved one taught me that time is fleeting and that I must cherish every moment I have with them. At first, it was difficult to comprehend the idea of death but as time went on I realized that death is the counterpart of life. It may be hard to move forward but life must go on.

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I wanted to have a short hair because aside from the scorching heat in this tropical country, a shorter hair felt like a fresh start. I am so grateful to the staff for accommodating my request. Now, I feel much more confident.

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Once again, I would like to express my sincerest gratitude to @asasiklause for introducing me to this wonderful platform and to @explorewithsasha for helping me out and for the encouragement. I am also grateful to @purepinay and the @hivecebubloggers community for the constant love and support. This is just the beginning of an exciting chapter here in Hive. Looking forward to be able to engage with you guys and to read more of your stories. Here's to a new chapter!

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After seated mirror shots, I had to stand up and take photos as well. Always grabbing the opportunity whenever I can take a good photo with my new hair!

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A few selfies after leaving the salon. I was quite shy to take a selfie because there were a lot of people but I am totally loving my new look!

My past month being on Hive was the best. I got to read stories from other Hivers not just from my country but also from other places around the world as well. It's nice to be able to know more about their thoughts and feelings and to know that their thoughts resonate with mine as well. However, it has also been good hearing the opinions of others despite it being different from mine. Hive taught me to be open-minded by not limiting myself to my perspective only.

How about you? How was this year for you? How was your experience being on this platform? How did you manage to go through life's adversities?


Disclaimer: The first photo was edited through Canva.

lifewithera is a 22-year old, college senior, an aspiring yogi, a furmom, and a wanderer, who writes stories about her personal life, mental health, fitness, travel, and just anything and everything her heart wants to speak. If you want to get to know her more, then you can connect with her through various social media platforms.

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You're welcome 💓💞
Thank you for being dedicated and putting your efforts in order to grow on this platform. 😘

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n order to commemorate my one month on this platform, I decided to treat my parents by taking them out for lunch. I truly believe that blessings multiply when shared. This platform has honestly been a blessing to me because I got to share my thoughts and feelings without the fear of being ridiculed or judged. This is actually my safe space.

Hive was also a blessing to me that's why I shared it to people I know who will also share it with others. So happy to see you enjoy, grow and learn in Hive!! Congratulations in your first month in the platform!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

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Thanks ayuk for helping me out and introducing me to this platform!!!!!🥺🥺🥺🥺

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You are welcome Era. You deserve all the blessings.

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Happy monthsary to you and hive.

Btw, you look so beautiful with your short hair🙂.

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Congratulations, Era on your one month here! You deserve a big cheer for always sharing quality blogs and always engaging in comments. I have seen you almost every blog post I visit in our team and really proud that @asasiklause and @explorewithsasha is doing a job well done in guiding you here.

Thank you for also taking their advise and showing a huge support to our @hivecebubloggers community!

I cannot wait to meet you in person.

Xo,

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Awee thank you so much @purepinay 🥺🤗 really enjoying my time on this platform 🤗🤗😍 grateful for all the support that you have given me!!

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@purepinay if you only knew how much she talks about Hive!hahahaha. So glad I invited her in the platform

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Maybe we could use those as snippets marketing on our social media page. Give me some samples please. PM me haha!

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Happy one month in Hive @lifewithera ! We love that you spend it with your parents ❤️

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Awee thank you🥺🤗 Im happy that I got to celebrate it with them as well🤗

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Happy monthsary with hive Era! Glad that you're enjoying the platform. Bdw you're so pretty with the shorter hair 😉😘

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Niceeee … glad I don’t have to spend my small money for salon coz I got a straight hair na ….

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"Grow through what you go through" this is indeed so true. 😊 I wouldn't be what I am right now if it weren't for the things I went through. It was tough but it was totally worth it. 😊 I'm loving the new hair! 😊

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Yes indeed!! I guess we went through tough times for a reason. Thank you so much💗

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Congratulations on your first month on Hive! It's amazing what you've accomplished in such a short amount of time. Hoping for more success in your journey!!

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Thank you Carlos! Grateful for all the support. Likewise😄

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You started with a quote to relate. Loved it. What can be the best thing than celebrate with your parents. I can feel your love for the hive.
Congratulations for going through wonderful time here🥳🎉

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Awee thank you so much!! It was indeed a great time being able to spend it with my parents 😍 I honestly love this platform and I am enjoying my time here🤗

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Pleasure all mine.☺️ Wishing you the best. With time we grow💫

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Happy first month! Loving the new hairstyle ♥️

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:) i like your attitude and your hair looks great! :) i also like that mask.. it's like 2 in 1. cool!

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Hive has been a transforming platform for many. The short hair looks good on you by the way

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It is indeed life changing!! Thank you so much 🤗🥺

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happy 1st month po on Hive @lifewithera

and congratulations coz in just a month your upvote is already have a value, how to be you po? heheh

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wow you always have good memories as you celebrate your month anniversary in hive. We are looking for more of your blog. Keep it up!

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Thank you so much for dropping by💓 hoping to share more of my stories in my future blog posts. Take care ❤️

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Congratulations on your first month in Hive! Your new hair suits you. More power!

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