The Silver Linings

Learning to see the good in the bad is not an easy thing to do, it is a habit that requires years of practice and experience, learning, experiencing failures and successes, and making effort to see the good in every situation no matter how bad it is may be. Every single situation has a silver lining, and once you bring yourself to see and understand this you will be one step closer to emotional freedom.

Things may hurt you, many are walking about with deep regrets and pains wishing they could perhaps go back in time to change things and undo the wrong and bad things that may have happened. But instead of sitting down going over wrongdoings, pains, regrets, mistakes, and all the bad things that may have happened to you, loss of friends or relatives, etc, you should rather focus on the silver linings.

If you take a critical look you may realize that even though you lost that friend you gain another perhaps more than one in that stead and the benefits and good, the blessings that came with the friends are what have brought you thus far and that you are where you are today because of the experiences you may have gone through. You may realize that those pains guided you to avoid certain mistakes in life.

There are always good parts in every situation, make it a habit to focus on that, to look for that, it takes time but it is a habit that you can develop, and once that is done you will come to see a lot of good things happen in your life afterward because then you come to appreciate that every tragedy has a comedy.