Escuchar, una muestra de amor [ESP-ENG]
Hello my dear moms and dads of @Motherhood, a pleasure to be back with you all to share a new topic, really being a dad or mom is not an easy task because the circumstances vary in each family, but despite that there is an ingredient that base for every family, love, without it in our personal or family life would have no flavor.
If you were asked if you want to have a happy family, surely you would answer with a resounding yes, true, but we see how in many cases in the background do not feel that happiness for many reasons and in this writing I want to address the fathers, husbands who every day want to contribute to maintain the love and peace in our homes, one of the first causes for which problems arise is not listening, today we see that misunderstandings can be reasons for pitched battles within a relationship and this is why we must detect the causes to avoid them at all costs.
It is no secret that when we are doing a certain activity we concentrate on it, which could be a reason for distraction when our wife wants to tell us something, and this can lead us to respond with a yes, okay, okay love, when in fact we do not hear what our wife told us, and doing this in other cases could lead us to the beginning of an argument by answering a certain matter of inappropriate wood for not knowing all the details, and this happens by not letting our wife express herself and we interrupt her before she finishes the idea that she wants to convey to us.
Not knowing can lead us to act foolishly because when we do not pay due attention we do not take the true intention of our spouse, who in most cases only wants us to listen to them with attention and respect and not to look for a solution in all cases, but this will depend at all times that we concentrate on what he tells us, but my dear parents whatever the problem that is happening to us in this regard we must learn to listen better to our wife but how?
To be honest we all like to be paid attention to, so let's always give what we expect in return, maybe some times we are busy either for work or other things at home but if our wife wants to express something to us, always see them as something important and let's stop for a moment what we are doing and so we can know what she wants to convey with her words, always see them as something important and let's stop for a moment what we are doing so we can know what she wants to transmit us with her words, if it is the case that what we are doing can not wait, let's tell our spouse to please give us a few minutes so that she does not feel that we are ignoring her.
To get to know in depth what our wife wants to transmit to us we should not interrupt her, even if we do not agree with some things she is expressing to us, let us be patient in giving our point of view and if we do not have something clear do not hesitate to ask, this will show that, if we listen to what she tells us, remember that we want to give a good example to our children, and they observe our behavior in our home. Knowing how to listen is a sign of love and if we always show interest it will be easier to be something natural in us, that is why my dear friends if we really want to start having a happy home always start by knowing how to listen, even our children will know how to thank you when they become adults.
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Asi es amigo, es importante escuchar porque en algun momento queremos ser escuchados, y estos es tarea de ambos para que en el matrimonio haya armonia. Y muchos podriamos pensar que las mujeres tienen que ser escuchadas porque expresamos más nuestras emociones pero los esposos tambien necesitan ser escuchados. Es algo reciproco.
Muy ciertas tus palabras amiga, la comunicación debe ser mutua y ambos debemos aprender a escucharnos.
Aprender a escucharnos y comunicarnos es muy importante en la pareja y para el nucleo familiar ya que las diferencias que puedan tener los padres los hijos lo perciben y afecta la armonia familiar.
Excelente tema amigo @loboblanco 🤗
Realmente así es, nuestros hijos perciben de inmediato cuando no existe una buena comunicación de inmediato. Gracias por tus palabras.