LOH Contest Number 123 - Someone who is lonely and fashion trends silliest

Hi, fellow #LadiesOfHive community. Welcome back to my blog. So today, I want to answer questions in the 123rd edition of the #LOH contest. There are two questions given by @merit.ahama 1. Why are there so many lonely people? Why is it so hard for people to make real connections when almost everyone wants to make real connections? And 2. What is the silliest recent fashion trend? All right, I will answer the two questions above with my thoughts in this post as my participation in this contest.

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Personally, I never feel lonely. However, I have several friends who have experienced loneliness. Everyone has different reasons for feeling lonely. But in general, people who feel lonely are caused by their childhood development. I think people who feel lonely because their childhood was isolated and not accepted by friends in the neighbourhood or school. Such people will feel lonely when they grow up. Well, because they are used to being lonely/alone, they usually don't socialize enough, making it difficult for them to establish relationships with other people in the real world. When trying to establish a relationship with another person, that person will feel awkward, and insecure, and many will feel anxious. This is what becomes an obstacle for someone who wants to be in a relationship with other people. If you guys feel like this, I have a few tips to overcome it. Try to find a community or group that has the same interests as you, then attend their social events. This way will help one to meet new people and build real relationships. This is a way out of the comfort zone for someone who is experiencing loneliness.

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To answer question number two, I think the goofiest fashion trend is a ripped pair of jeans. What I mean, is not partially torn, but fully torn and over. A few days ago, I visited a clothing store. I saw that there was a pair of jeans that were there, but they were full of tears. At that time I thought, does anyone want to wear jeans as if they had just been torn apart by a bear's claws? I think that's ridiculous. Even when I got home, I tried to look at ripped jeans in online stores. It turns out that on the Alibaba Site, there are also selling similar ripped jeans. Whether it's a new trend or not, to me it's ridiculous to wear.

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