LOH Contest: We are not all perfect.

Before answering the questions of the week, I want to kindly thank you for the mention among the winners of the week, it fills me with total pride that you have been interested in my publication and that some consider it as motivating, do not forget my beautiful Ladies of Hive who We are strong and girls who keep going despite any adversity like the warriors we are.

Antes de responder las preguntas de la semana, quiero agradecer muy amablemente la mención dentro de los ganadores de la semana, me llena de total orgullo que les haya interesado mi publicación y que la consideren algunas como motivadora, no olviden mis bellas Damas de Hive que somos fuerte y chicas que seguimos adelante a pesar de cualquier adversidad como las guerreras que somos.

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This is a topic of conversation that I don't really like to touch on, I think that what others think about you is relative, there are always those who admire you, those who love you, those who know you and those who criticize you, those who hate you and those who annoy you . Therefore, here I want to tell you about what I consider that everyone can misunderstand about me.

Este es un tema de conversación que no me gusta mucho tocar, creo que lo que piensen los demás sobre ti es relativo, siempre hay quien te admire, quien te ame, quien te conozca y quien te critique, quien te odie y quien te moleste. Por eso, aquí te quiero contar sobre lo que considero que cada uno puede malinterpretar de mí.

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Many have criticized my character, but many do not understand that there are things with which I have never agreed, honestly there are things like mother, friend, woman and wife that I consider must be respected, and I consider that they have a limit:

  1. As a mother, I carry the example that my mother gave me, I am a woman who was strict with her children, I tried to teach them the meaning of independence, such as self-worth, I was not perfect because I could not be liberal like some They say, and that led me to live certain karmas. Many judged me and several wanted to make me look bad, without knowing that I always worked to give them the best without lacking anything, depriving myself of certain luxuries.

  2. As a friend, I have always tried to be honest, and many of my friends are strong women who value their own worth, just like me. I have never had any disagreements with my friends, and there are two in particular with whom I have a very close relationship and I know that they support me unconditionally because I have shared my deepest thoughts with them.

  3. As a woman, I wanted to show that I am independent, I want to highlight that I have never depended on a man for my livelihood, I have always had my own business and I have achieved everything I have on my own merits. Although it may sound illogical these days, I have had to deal with people close to me who think that as a woman I should have looked for a man to support me. However, I have my husband and together we support each other, but I don't feel the need to prove that I need someone else to survive.

Muchos han criticado mi carácter, pero muchos no comprenden que hay cosas con las que jamás he estado de acuerdo, sinceramente hay cosas como madre, amiga, mujer y esposa que yo considero que hay respetar, y considero que llevan un límite:

1. Como madre, llevo el ejemplo que me dio mi mamá, soy una mujer que con sus hijos fue estricta, yo traté de enseñarles el significado de la independencia, como la del valor propio, no fui perfecta porque no pude ser liberal como algunos dicen, y eso me llevó a vivir ciertos karmas. Muchas me juzgaron y varios me quisieron hacer quedar mal, sin saber que siempre trabajé por darles lo mejor sin que nada les faltaran, privándome de ciertos lujos a mí misma.

2. Como amiga, siempre he intentado ser honesta, y muchas de mis amigas son mujeres fuertes y que valoran su propia valía, al igual que yo. Nunca he tenido ningún desacuerdo con mis amigas, y hay dos en particular con las que tengo una relación muy cercana y sé que me apoyan incondicionalmente porque he compartido con ellas mis pensamientos más profundos.

3. Como mujer, he querido mostrar que soy independiente, quiero destacar que nunca he dependido de un hombre para mi sustento, siempre he tenido mi propio negocio y he logrado todo lo que tengo por mis propios méritos. Aunque suene ilógico en estos tiempos, he tenido que lidiar con personas cercanas a mí que piensan que como mujer debería haber buscado un hombre que me mantenga. Sin embargo, tengo a mi esposo y juntos nos apoyamos mutuamente, pero no siento la necesidad de demostrar que necesito a alguien más para sobrevivir.

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Ok, this second question makes me question myself a little, I don't exactly remember a moment with adrenaline...

I think my choice to start a family with my children's father at age 15 caused me to miss out on some important opportunities in life, but I also think that not completing high school from the beginning led me to make poor decisions at times ( nothing serious, but it shouldn't have been like that).

The greatest adrenaline I felt was when I was very young, escaping from my mother at night to party. Living those experiences was perhaps what made me strict, but I remain firm at all times. Just like I didn't enjoy superficial things like beaches and trips, I just worked hard and was able to have as many luxuries as good times.

Girls, don't miss the opportunity to enjoy life in a healthy way, I hope you all find success in your path, just as I managed to find success in my best moment. I hope to find adrenaline soon, and if I do I would be excited to share it with you. This post may not have been what you expected. But I hope you like it, I love you very much, friends of LOH.

Ok, esta segunda pregunta me hace cuestionarme un poco, no recuerdo con exactitud algún momento con adrenalina…

Creo que mi elección de empezar una familia con el padre de mis hijos a los 15 años me hizo perder algunas oportunidades importantes en la vida, pero también creo que no haber completado la secundaria desde el principio me llevó a tomar decisiones equivocadas en algunos momentos (nada grave, pero no debería haber sido así).

La más grande adrenalina que sentí fue siendo muy joven, escapando de mi mamá en la noche para estar en fiesta, el vivir esas experiencias quizás fue lo que me volvió estricta, pero me mantengo firme en todo momento. Al igual que no disfruté de cosas superficiales como playas y viajes, solo trabajé mucho y pude tener tantos lujos como buenos momentos.

Chicas, no pierdan la oportunidad de disfrutar la vida de manera sana, espero que todas encuentren éxito en su camino, así tal cual como lo logré encontrar yo en mi mejor momento. Espero pronto poder encontrar adrenalina, y si lo hago estaría emocionada de compartirlo con ustedes. Esta publicación quizás no haya sido lo que esperaban. Pero espero que si les agrade, las quiero mucho, amigas de LOH.

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What really matters is that you are a strong, hardworking woman, you have a good role as a mother and friend, that you are not affected by what others think.

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I always try My Best in everything I set My mind into.

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I like how you explained the different aspects people misunderstands you. You know yourself and you can only do so much, no need to try to please everyone.

Thanks for participating sis.

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Thanks so much for Your kind words I really appreciate them 💜 I send You a virtual Hug.

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Yes, I agree with you friend. That first question is relative. People will like, love, hate and misunderstand us. That's how life is.

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