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Fxxxk you, fxxxk you up and down, fxxk him and fxxk her. All these I've been hearing from childhood without someone rendering the full meaning to me. My people, those words nearly or will I even say that it caused commotion in my family years ago. How? After narrating the experience, whether you're a parent, or guardian, you'll see the need to explain certain words and their meanings to your children or ward. The reason why am saying this is because, many of our children have fallen victim of many adversities because they didn't understand certain words and their meanings. Let's move...

The story

At a very tender age, our parents brought another girl into our house as a helper. Then, my brother was 10 and am 8. But the girl was 13 then. Before now, we were taught by our parents never to allow any man or woman to fxxxk us because, it's against the law of the holy book. We all maintained that standard until one day when something transpired in our family.

Mother travelled to her people leaving us behind with Dad. One day, when Dad was not around, we felt so hungry and we requested for food in the hand of that our helper by the name Amaka. But she refused. Why? She said we must wait till 2pm before taking lunch. Honestly, we felt so bad. Ahh, imagine a lady from no where telling or giving us order as to when to eat in our daddy's house. Hmmm, We told her that she will see what our Dad will do to her today.

As soon as dad came back, we reported her and bang!!, Dad squeezed his face and said to her :

Fuck you!!. How dare you not to give my children food at the proper time? fxxk you mehn

Angrily, he pushed her into his room and closed the door. I and my brother exchanged eye contact over Dad's reaction and statement. Uppps, but Dad warned us not to fxxxk any person or allow anyone to fxxxk us. But now, he has fxxxk our helper. Heeew, though the girl came out few minutes later and we also saw belt marks on her body, because, Dad always flog with belt, yet, our mind tells us that Dad fxxxked her. Honestly, it was like a dent in our brain.

At the age of 15 and my brother was 17, I had a disagreement with him. It led to quarrel and eventually, we started fighting. Immediately our Dad came back home, my brother told him how I disrespected him. In our family, it's a taboo to disrespect your elder. My people, Hahaha, who will be eager to hear Dad's response? Heew, am finished. As soon as Dad heard his report, he said and I quote:

Ohhh my goodness, fxxxk that girl.

Uppps, my brother dragged me into his room and he nearly forced himself on me that very day. Lolz. You should understand what I mean naw.

My dear community members and all you my article readers and viewers, especially those that do use such words in their families, beware of the risk. Let your children know the appropriate meaning of suchlike words regarding when and how it's being used.

As am telling you this, there is this my neighbor that missed his duty in his office because, he took his child to hospital on emergency. His boss tried his line and it was unavailable. He decided to call his wife. He called with anguish. The wife picked, and the boss told the wife that irrespective of why he missed his work that very day without informing him in advance, that he's fired.

The wife tried her husband's number to report the matter so as to know what to do immediately. Hmmm, the husband's response triggered something. He said to his wife:

What a rubbish!!, fxxxk that man.

Hmmm, my people, the wife dressed in a sexy way, went to her husband's boss office and also lure the man into having sex with her.

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Thereafter, the boss accepted the man back. Hehehe, before the woman could reach house, the husband was already at home. He inquired to know her movement, but, the response he got threw him into amazement. The wife told him:

I have done exactly what you asked me to do. I did it perfectly and you're free to resume work from Monday.

The husband became so confused. He then asked her:

What did I tell you to do? I couldn't remember sending you on an errand.

The wife replied

Ahh ahh, horny, have you forgotten that you asked me to fxxxk your boss. Trust my ability naa. I just did so.

Heeey, dear reader, if you're the husband, what will you do? whose fault is it? Say the truth!!