Let's talk about bullying

For days I have been observing in social networks that many people are encouraged to tell their experiences with bullying in childhood and / or adolescence. Which led me to think of several things; The first is that as much as I tried to recall a time that I was a victim of bullying, I could not find a moment in my life, in which I felt discomfort by the comments of my colleagues. Which led me to the second point, seeing most of the bullying stories of others, I realized that I was a person who had the perfect profile to suffer from bullying.

It's funny that this kind of thing happens. In other words, it is horrible to suffer from this type of harassment by third parties, and even more so at an age as fragile as adolescence. However, I think that beyond the bad experience, you have to take into account what I was saying in a previous post; everything is a question of the attitude with which you cope with the situations that occur in your life. While it is painful to receive negative comments all the time, all of the bullying forged the person you are today. Maybe if you hadn't had that experience, you wouldn't be who you are today. Remember that our personality and behavior are being structured by day-to-day experiences.

I do not want to be misunderstood, I do not say that bullying is something positive. In fact the world is full of potential bully. For example when they call us stupid for respecting the rules, or when they shout four times at you at the traffic light. That is something that will never end, it is not something of the schools and the children. And is that many of these people who harass do not feel comfortable with themselves, and that is why they seek to make fun of the "defects" of others. You know what they say, people don't see you as you really are, they see you as they are.