The pain of being left out by someone you trusted

It is very hurtful to see who are very close with right from time suddenly turning stranger without any tangible reason, is there a valid cause? No but it just happen like that and you feel is this the person i for once never cant do without a day and all of a sudden it seems they were never part of my life at all, it can be so disheartening but when life brings that to you, you just have to accept what it brings along also.

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I am not just writing this post just because i wanted to write it but because of what has happened to me and i will just say i am writing this out of experience and what i can actually feel since i know how it can be. So let me go into how mine happened and it was just like a flash or dream to me. So i have this close friend of mine who we were very fond of each other right from childhood days and we always do everything together, people who didnt know us then thought we were twins because we were very close.

We went to same primary school and to the extent of staying in same classroom and sitting down together, in school if you are looking for me and cant find me just ask my friend and surely you will find me in no time, we graduated from primary school to secondary school and it was same vibes and same connection all i was thinking was that everything will continue to look perfect then fast forward to when we got admission to university and the first year was rough for us since we find it hard to struggle.

We were studying a course which we are using 4 to 5 years and it got to the second year i saw that my friend started changing in the aspect of look and dressing and that shows he has started seeing things that bring in more income for him but he never carried me along and since we were friends right from a tender age i went to meet him in other to tell me and open up to me what he was doing that made him get more income but he was sluggish to answer or give me reply then i started realising he has gotten another cycle of friends that they do work together and this made me left out.

Those people taught him what he knew and he never showed it to me, the friendship now started derailing and i was like thinking if that was ever my friend since he was doing perfectly fine and i am still struggle, to crown it all he got a car and i was not shown till this very moment then i realise not everyone you started your journey with is going to be there forever.

You might be with someone you cant do without today and later the person might turn out to be the worst thing you ever know step up your game and do not be too hurt because you will be okay once you accept it is meant to happen.

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