TWO SECRET WEAPONS OF LIVING

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All the time, I usually love the theme of the prompts HL provides us to participate in. And I commend the entire organizers for this intellectual development among the community members at large.

Sometimes, I am of the opinion that your true attitude and behavior can only be determined by your family & friends and any other person in your closed circle. And this is because you're limited to only the things you can see from within. They are the only set of persons that can see all in you from afar. While this is true, there are some personal attributes that are visible to you even when not being told. Although I don't try to observe myself so much to that extent. But there are still some little traits that are obvious and I can at least talk about.

TWO SECRETS TRAITS

One thing I got to learn most of the time about me is the fact that I hardly discriminate against people around me. Especially when it is someone I'm yet to get used to and know so much about him/her. No matter who you are or the attributes you possess, I hardly see it as a requirement to judge who you truly are. I know that an individual's character goes a long way in defining who a person is. While this is true, the attitude you see someone portray today may just be his once in a blue moon character. Meanwhile it's the first time you see the fellow in action. So it becomes the basis of how you see him to be. So many people will agree to this, including myself. But it's never a basis I use to judge people's character. Especially the ones around me.

This other part of me looks kinda strange and funny. But it's something I'm super proud of and will like to be imitated by others. But as much as I will like that to be, I know it's not just possible. But I love the fact that 80% of the time, I enjoy boredom. Some level of privacy and being alone alongside.

I discovered that spending lots of time alone is what helped me to achieve so many heights I've managed to attain in my personal development. It spares me the time to focus on myself and do only the things that matter without any form of distraction whatsoever. It's more difficult to work on yourself as much as you would want to if there is a lot of distraction around you. And to avoid such distractions, spending the time alone at home is one of the best ways to do that. And this is the major reason why I embrace being alone and also encourage others to do so.

In Conclusion

Do not discriminate against others and embrace boredom. These two traits are a powerful secret weapon of living that is hardly discussed.