My Hatred For Gossiping And Poke Nosing Is On Another Level
I'm not one to hate easily and that is because I'm a free person at heart, always happy and finding out the good things in life to be grateful for. Hating something or someone is hard for me but somehow, I find myself hating situations where people are gossiping or poke nosing. Maybe it's because I always feel bad when I realize I did something like it or I don't want to be party of it in anyway.
I know they are two different words but think about it, they are just the same bad habit with different names. Although one is done hidden and the other is done openly, I hate the two no matter how well it is painted because I've seen and learnt a lot about what it could cause to another who obviously is innocent of these situations.
I may not have had experience of them good enough to share but I've witnessed a lot of it and I simply can't bring myself to like the way things go when the two are involved and sometimes, I even find myself disliking the persons involved which I fight hard not to let happen as loving everyone is something a good Christian should do.
My reason for hating Gossip?
I can bet that the reason is obvious especially to any who have been a victim of it before or better still, for those who are involved in the gossip itself. They do it like it's a good thing and some of them will even go as far as gossiping in a place that the one they are gossiping could hear them without their notice... That hurts differently, I tell you.
The simple reason I hate about gossiping is the hurt it causes for the victim.
Have you ever been gossiped before and you hear it clearly even though they were hiding it away from you?
And sadly, that one is even little hurt compared to the one you feel when you're gossiped by a loved one, someone you call friend. I've heard a girl who call her friend bestie gossip about all their secrets to another girl who knew nothing about the other girl.
Gossips could end a reputation one has been building and of course, break trusts. As much as I hate gossip, I hate those who take what they heard from another to judge someone they never hear their part of the story or even do talk to them normally.
Can I say poke Nosers are the worse?
I mean, these ones would just butt in to what you're doing and act like you're wrong at everything and they know too well to keep quiet from your matter. They just enjoy talking about people's issues and not theirs which I think is because they are having inferior complex.
Not all Poke Nosers are bad, you should know the ones I'm talking about.
You're having a serious discussion with someone and that annoying person comes in to speak his or her mind as if you've been talking to them.
Or you're being scolded for something you did wrong and that aunt or neighbor makes it worse with remarks like "And that was how she went to..." you know where I'm going with this.
Those set of people are annoying and I can only hope I have less of such persons around me. But regardless, I plan to enjoy the good side of life more than just hating on something.
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That's such a great thing to know you're different, because there's this stereotypes misconceptions that all ladies love gossip, I hate it as well and can relate to the emotional hurts it brings to the subject of the gossip.
Those stereotypes aren't far from the truth, many ladies indulge in this act and as a lady, I've seen too many.
You took the bettr way to stay out of gossipping.
It can be really bad, and sometimes it can break a well maintained family by gossipping false rumor around.
That is a fact! I hope people stay away from it, we seem to be having more of such people around us 🤦♀️
I love that statement you said about the Christian Life, we are supposed to love everybody actually but we just can't deny the fact that we are still flesh and blood and at some point some of it will definitely pop up but gladly we have control afterwards.
Some people go as far as daring you to see what you can do because I don't see reasons why someone knows his or her gossip will get to you and still go on to gossip about you. Well, I find this one awful and thou, we can't escape from gossipers we pray they shouldn't be those people close to our heart we never think they will do that to us
About Poke Nosers.. You made very clear emphasis as if you where once a victim thou😅😅 specially the second example, I mean the scolding part...😅😅
But you said it all, this one is even rampant but it is better we build our walls over such people and their schemes... Let them talk and let us keep going..
Nice and impactful piece here @merit.ahama
That's the prayer, that we are able to love everybody and that our loved ones won't be the ones gossiping about us.
Lol... I've been a victim a lot of times 🥲
I'm glad you stop by my piece, your comment on it is a delight 🥰
The pleasure is mine dear 🥰
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You see those that poke nose in matters that does not concern them ehhh, they are very annoying. Sometimes I wish I could just slap such a person.
Lol I've imagined punching them in their faces a lot of times too 😂
People will teach you lessons aswear!
Very annoying set of individuals...very pompous!
I have a friend like that of gossiping and I swear till date I eat with long spoon lmao 😂😂😂... but you see pokenosers...I will scold you immediately you are stepping into my realm walai!! Haha 😂😂.. but in all this sometimes I snub everything.
Lol I'm in the snubbing category more since I don't have strength to start talking too much 😏
It's better that way lol
No time to hold grudges!🤗
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Gossiping can take different forms. It all depends but still it's all bad no matter what
Exactly, no good thing comes out of it 😒
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Gossiping is really dangerous and it's one of the Sins I see people around me does. Sometimes it's just backtalking, but gossiping with no reason, or giving out friends' secrets without remorse, is so sad... Better avoid these kinds of people.
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Yeah, it's always best we avoid such people because they are always up to no good
I just hate gossip because of how far it' spread faster than the real truth.
Honestly I see no reason to gossip some one when you can easily tell them about what they are or didn't do right.
True I hope to have less of those kind of people around me.
As in ehn... The way lies travel compared to the truth is still a mystery to me 😂
Lol .. people they happy for other people down fall.na why e dey travel fast 😄
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