Las Salidas y los niños🤪🤪 [esp-Eng]

Cuando nos convertimos en padres, nuestra vida cambia por completo, NADA vuelve a ser igual, y el compartir tiempo en pareja queda desplazado por un largo, largo rato!

When we become parents, our life changes completely, NOTHING is the same again, and sharing time as a couple is displaced for a long, long time!

En mi caso pues con niños he aplicado la lactancia materna exclusiva. Mi hijo con 4 añis de edad JAMAS se ha tomado un tetero. Todo fue teta hasta sus 6 meses y de ahi en adelante alimentacion complementaria, hasta sus 3 años y medio que salí embarazada de la niña y ahi ps solo comida, a veces pienso que de no ser por el embarazo aun se tomara su teta antes de dormir jajaja porque si, solo era antes de dormir, y muchis dicen "pero que locura darle teta hasta esa edad" yo simplemente lo disfrutaba, amaba que se durmiera ahi pegadito a mi😍😍

In my case, with children, I have applied exclusive breastfeeding. My 4 year old son has NEVER had a bottle. Everything was breast until he was 6 months old and from then on complementary feeding, until he was 3 and a half years old when I got pregnant with my daughter and then it was only food, sometimes I think that if it wasn't for the pregnancy he would still take his bottle before sleeping hahaha because yes, it was only before sleeping, and many people say "but how crazy to give him a bottle until that age" I simply enjoyed it, I loved him to sleep right there next to me😍😍

Pero bueno en aquel tiempo tener un niño que dependiera netamente de mi para alimentarse no me interesaba a nivel de las salidas, porque eran otros tiempos digamos, luego se sumó la pandemia y logicamente nada funcionaba. Asi que no habia que prepcuparse por "como haremos para salir ahora" jaja pasamos la mayor parte del tiempo en casa!! Y de salir pues era con el niño!!

But at that time, having a child that depended on me to feed him was not interesting for me in terms of outings, because those were other times, let's say, then came the pandemic and logically nothing worked. So there was no need to worry about "how are we going to go out now" haha we spent most of the time at home! And if we did go out, it was with the child!

Sin embargo con el paso del tiempo todo ha mejorado un poco, y se han dado ciertas salidas que simplemente no he podido aprovechar, porque ahora es aun mas dificil con 2 niños, sobretodo si una tiene 6 meses! Mi madre que adora a sus nietos esta dispuesta a cuidarlos, bueeeeno a Chris porque Ema no toma tetero🙈 y a pesar de que yo no soy de esas de "te dejo a los niños y me voy de parranda" en esta oportunidad se presentó la invitacion de mi esposo a un show de comedia, y yo sinceramente queria ir sola con el, saben?? A veces lo necesito, sin embargo no, no se pudo en su totalidad, pues era imposible que alguien pudiera cuidar de Ema!! Si solo toma tetica!! Pero bueno me dispuse a disfrutarme mi salida aun con ella, que sinceramente se porto MUY BIEN

However with the passing of time everything has improved a bit, and there have been certain outings that I simply could not take advantage of, because now it is even more difficult with 2 children, especially if one of them is 6 months old! My mother who adores her grandchildren is willing to take care of them, well, Chris because Ema does not take the bottle🙈 and even though I am not one of those "I'll leave the kids and I'm going to party", this time my husband invited me to a comedy show, and I sincerely wanted to go alone with him, you know? Sometimes I need it, but no, it was impossible for anyone to take care of Ema! She only drinks tea! But well, I decided to enjoy my outing even with her, who honestly behaved VERY WELL, she let us enjoy our show.

nos dejo disfrutar nuestro show. Y aunque solo al final se puso super inquieta porque ya era medianoche obvio. Todo salio muy bien, Chris por su parte quedó con la abuela. Le preparé sus cotufas y quedo contento viendo pelis

she let us enjoy our show. And although only at the end she got super anxious because it was already midnight obviously. Everything went very well, Chris stayed with grandma. I made him his cotufas and he was happy watching movies.

Pero el punto es, que ser mamá no siempre debe significar sacrificar el 100% de tu tiempo en pareja, ese tiempo juntos esuy valioso para la reñacion, ser madre no puede significar dejar de ser esposa, amiga, amante, siempre hay tiempo para todo, solo necesitamos de una buena organizacion, y aunque esta salida no fue 100% solos😂 la disfruté muchisimo y estoy segura que en cuando mi Chiquita pieda quedarse ya con mi madre, algo me invento para esa cita que nos debemos mi esposo y yo💜💜

But the point is, being a mom should not always mean sacrificing 100% of your time as a couple, that time together is very valuable for the reunion, being a mother can not mean giving up being a wife, friend, lover, there is always time for everything, we just need a good organization, and although this outing was not 100% alone😂 I enjoyed it very much and I am sure that when my Chiquita can stay with my mother, I will invent something for that date that my husband and I💜💜 owe us.

MAMITA FELIZ, FAMILIA FELIZ || HAPPY MOM, HAPPY FAMILY

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