Sometime its better to be silent...

We all are human but there remains a lot differences in our mentality, character, attitude, judgement etc. We all have different point of views over different things. What is pleasant to me may be not be to you. You may have a different thought on that matter.

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Sometimes it happens that we get into an argue which keeps elaborating on and on without any conclusions. But we are not willing to put a full stop by realizing the point of view of the front person.Suppose what i am seeing is 6 to my angle but it may be 9 to an different angle to someone else. Both are right from their own places so its our first step to see the others point of view or admit that one. But we love to establish our own thoughts forcibly. Which creates more chaos.

These things are really horrible. It may destroy a beautiful relationship or friendship within a short time. Sometime it happens that we quarrel over a small matter and we even say bye without meaning that. We then stay on that with both one's attitudes and ego then the beautiful relation destroys in this way.which is very unexpected and a bad thing.

I have seen many things like that and also experienced that a lot.I have seen many relations to be broken on a small matter by arguing with one another. I have also seen many years friendship is getting destroyed over a misunderstanding where both of them is not concerned to fix that calmly rather fighting over it continuously.

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But there are some people who knows how to handle these things. Whose first priority is to save the relationship or the friendship. They try to make the person understand his point of view calmly. If he cant he remains silent, he doesn’t drag into an unnecessary drama. He tries his best to minimize that in the best way he can. Actually sometimes it happens that remaining silent is very helpful to avoid these things.

Now some may say why should i stay silent? Why will i listen the things i haven’t done? Wait,let my say.. For you what is important? Your relation or an argument? What happens if you win an argument in the cost of a relation? Will it make any differences ? No,it wont. But think of that if you remained silent at that moment you may simply avoid that problem. Later you may easily make him realize that whatever they did was unpleasant to you. You may make them realized so that they don’t repeat that again.

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Its the beauty of life,where one can understand another one. One can respect another one's point of views and everything. If you can't let a silly matter go how can you expect everything on your favour. Sometimes you may also at the fault. So we all must have these mentality for our own good.That's why i said "Sometime it’s better to be silent..."

All i have shared is from my personal thought and thinking. You may agree or disagree in some part. So let me know your points as well i will be happy on that.