Stay positive and go for it
Sometimes it happens that we get into a dilemma about something. We think will it be good to perform that or we should let it go. Rather than thinking its positive outcome we firstly calculate its negative part,we find out what will happen if it goes wrongs. Then this sense destroys the will of performing that thing and nothing comes from it thus we are missing a lot opportunities to do something.
In our life we may see many things to do but we get back sometimes thinking that it wont be done by me. I am not capable of doing it. But on the other hand someone else does that surely. If he can then why you cant? Why move backward without giving that a try?
Let me say a story of my own experience: In my life i have never participated in any extra curricular activities. Not even i have participated in sports day in school. This way i have reached in college life. You all may have heard about the olympiad competition on various subject. So one of my friend filled a form for math olympiad and i was with him. As it was free he forced me to fill one and sit for the exam by bribing me the snacks provided in the exams. Hahaha.
So i have given exam with him without any expectations of selecting for next level. But we got chance. We are selected for the comilla regional level. That was really very very unexpected for me. So then my journey was on comilla. This time i couldn’t overcome this level but trust me i have no regret rather i am greatfull for that. Because the journey on comilla i have spent very enjoyably with my friend. It was one of my memorable day. In the book there was a lot to be remembered for the future life of that day.
So it was my one of the hundreds stories where i could let that opportunity go like always i do. But this time i choose a different option and it took me to beyond expectations. Actually it happens.When something new arise before us we just think of a simple outcome of that and make a decision. We can't even expect that what was waiting for us on that part. In this way we are letting a lot from our life which could have been a chance of more in life.
Lets come to the negative part.what if the negative thought comes true. What if it was really true for the negative outcome? So lets go back to my story. If i thought before going comilla regional competition that i will lose so there is no use of going there so far. Its true i lost but did i really lost? Didn't i get anything from that. Yeah i got. I got a memorable journey with a friend. I got to see the beauty of comilla with my own eyes with independent. I got to have the famous 'roshmalai' from comilla's matribhandar. I have experienced a new environment on the programme. Everything is not lost.I just lost the result but i gathered a lot things for my future.
Here are some points why i say to try everything because i assume this factor for doing that work:
Value: It is said,"The one who wins doesn’t know the value of it,the person who lost know the proper value what he has lost" So without participating you wont be able to know what is the actual value of that work by witnessing it from a spectator seat.
Experience: suppose you didnt win but you will get a lot experiences on that matter.so by losing you are also learning a lot. You are knowing its steps to reach that.Next time,It will surely help you to ensure that successfully better then the other competitors.
Satisfaction: Sometimes it happens that we dont participate on something and later we feel regret that why i didn't do that. In my admission time i didn't go seat for Rajshahi University as it was too far but later i found there question was too easy and a lot my friend got chance. That moment what i felt i cant explain with words. So there remains a satisfaction that you tried whether you win or lose you tried your best thats the fact.
It was all my own thoughts and opinion. You may agree or disagree on some point. Feel free to share your own opinions or something if you like to add. I will be very much happy. Thank you.