LOHcontest #114,the greatest sorrow from my year 2022

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My life is not perfect and every year is like a roller coaster ride ,a lot of happiness and sorrow and whats important is I remain strong and bravely face it all

What's up ladies??

2022 is almost end lets embrace the new year with positivity.
While I keeps scrolling I came up to this topic and decided to write my entry.

I choose this question "What is your greatest sorrow for the year 2022?
Thanks to @kittygirl for inniating this question.

The year 2022 is like a rollercoaster ride for me ,a lot of times that I had the sorrow and happy feelings but this year our whole family having this greatest sorrow we had.

September 27 ,I and my husband's family was happy after the safe delivery of my husband's niece.Though most of them got mad after they knew that it was pregnant but later on they accepted it coz they can't do something for it.

My husband's niece partner chatted telling that they are safe and we are happy knowing about it but when the afternoon came I recieved a bad news from my brother inlaw who is manila.

He chatted me telling that my cousin(1st degree)was having an accident while on duty.They are working in thesame company but in separate sites.They are a construction workers for how many years.

I was shocked when my brother inlaw said that my cousin was in critical condition.That time ,was been raining for how many days and the accident happened during their working hours.

The wall was fall and my cousin was unluckily coz he was hitted by the wall and the reason of his death.I was crying when I learned the bad news ,he was too young and had a lot of dreams.He is only 21 years old but already a breadwinner to his family after his father left them for his woman.

I really felt sad for my aunt,the mother of my cousin who still fighting her depressions after her husband left them and this big tragedy happened on their family.

My cousin's dead body was in manila and needed to travel going to our place but the problem was the company where he was working wilp bot going to pay the whole funeral service bill worth 350k pesos ,they only pay 50kpesos.

Our family does'nt know where to find that amount and we are sad knowing about it ,my cousin was stuck at the funeral service for a week.

Good thing that the funeral service change the bill to lower price and the company shoulder all the bill amd the transporation going home.

Its really hard to accept what happened but we needed to ,thats life we are not the one who make a decision until when we will stay on earth.We are only the one who take care of ourselves but accidents are everywhere.

During my cousin's burial ,I was not able to attend coz I am sick that time but I felt that he wanted to say good bye to me ,we've been a close when I was working in the next town whete they are living before.Every time I had my day off ,I visits them ,he teaches me how to bike ,we went for a swimming,together we went to the unternet cafe.

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While I was sitting on the balcony ,a butterfly came closer to my hand and stay for a minute in my hand before it fly.And I got a chance to say goodbye to him and I am talking to that butterfly.

Last 2021 we experienced a super typhoon at it devastated our house,the year 2022 was another storm came,it was my cousins death.Praying that the new year brings a lot of happiness and unity.

Wishing every one to have a joyous new year!

And that would be all for my entry on the said contest.Thanks for reading and Happy new year!

Love,
@mitch18



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I am very sorry for your loss. The death of loved ones is a hard blow. I wish 2023 to be good for you and your family

!LADY

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Thank you ,yest thats true its really hard ,the pain you know but we need to accept it.Thats a part of our life

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There are many things in this world that we really can't understand. Loosing a person we love such as your cousin is truly painful. I hope the whole family had already cope with his loss. Masakit pa dahil nagpasko and Bagong taon.
Pero he is with our maker, no worries no pains but just utter happiness nalang.

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