Helo Hive...

I celebrate Baba Monica.

Having seen several eulogies about fathers today and how people went so far in argument to compare how women are been celebrated more than men, I thought to make my own comparison but there is no way I can come to terms with all of the points been given.

Definitely there are roles that my dad plays in my life which my mum may not be able to and bringing up a child is the collective effort of both parent.

Although the world has changed alot and we have more not to responsible father's who only father children and are no where to be found afterwards, a woman is more affectionate and would hardly dump her child, so we have more and more single mothers than their fathers counterpart.

Nevertheless we have some exceptional ones who sometimes are more affectionate than women.
I have seen soft men who can change diaper and bath a child.
But been a father doesn't stop at that.
It has to do with been stern and stubborn about the progress of your family, for all the extra shift at work and sacrifices to pay the bills.

For been a strong support to your women and covering up for their weaknesses with your strong heart.

Been a man means been there for every other person under your care

We salute the courage of every responsible man out there. 🕵💂